need or want
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do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha..
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need. means dun have u will die
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In short, you are simply a replacement for another person.Originally posted by themoment86:do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha.. -
Need = a necessity
Want = a desire. -
sensitive words...
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*snort*Originally posted by themoment86:do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha..
it just means you NEED to siam stupid guys like this who can't make up their minds instead of trying to figure out what they mean.
But of course it depends whether you WANT to or not. -
look for a man who's decisive..Originally posted by themoment86:do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha..
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am i a replacement?he says he need me...but..he wouldnt wan to lose someone who has been with him for 4years...he doesnt know what to do..he say he cant leave her becz she is so important...
human are juz selfish.. they dun love u le but you are so important to them that they juz cant let you go or maybe they DUN even know that they themselves already do not have the feelings...
is that true?
hen ruan...we know we both love each other...we both know we cant do without each other...but he cant bear losing his gf....what should i do... -
tell the person go find his need somewhere... its all crap la...Originally posted by themoment86:do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha.. -
this type of men worst la.. do things san xin liang yi.. tuo ni dai shuiOriginally posted by themoment86:am i a replacement?he says he need me...but..he wouldnt wan to lose someone who has been with him for 4years...he doesnt know what to do..he say he cant leave her becz she is so important...
human are juz selfish.. they dun love u le but you are so important to them that they juz cant let you go or maybe they DUN even know that they themselves already do not have the feelings...
is that true?
hen ruan...we know we both love each other...we both know we cant do without each other...but he cant bear losing his gf....what should i do...
dont give excuses for him by saying.. oohh he so 'responsible' .. to find it difficult to 'break up' with someone he is with for 4 years liao.
cos hor.. doesn't mean next time he is with you.. he will also give you the same 'consideration'
when he is gian with another girl loh. -
let the man make a choice...
if he doesnt...u can choose to forget about him
indecisive matters in relationship problems will not last... -
he jz wan best of both world... r u reali tat weak? dun b a love fool...Originally posted by themoment86:am i a replacement?he says he need me...but..he wouldnt wan to lose someone who has been with him for 4years...he doesnt know what to do..he say he cant leave her becz she is so important...
human are juz selfish.. they dun love u le but you are so important to them that they juz cant let you go or maybe they DUN even know that they themselves already do not have the feelings...
is that true?
hen ruan...we know we both love each other...we both know we cant do without each other...but he cant bear losing his gf....what should i do... -
dont worry.. i can do it u can do it.. see whether u are hardworking enough oni...
I stay teckwhye area she stay yewtee area... by bus i go home at least need 30min..
schoolin wise i studying ITE west Baliasiter road , She study College East Simei...
everymorning i woke up at 6am companying her to sch.. after bringin her to sch i took a bus back to my sch ( my lessons start late ) ... -
i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix...
so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=( -
What the heck, you're the third party in this whole thingy?Originally posted by themoment86:hen ruan...we know we both love each other...we both know we cant do without each other...but he cant bear losing his gf....what should i do... -
no i am not a third party..he just went back to his gf...
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you are just too desperate to get a girlfriend -
He is not indecisive but he is a very evil person.Originally posted by themoment86:i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix...
so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=(
He knows that you will not let him go so he decides to go back to his gf and have you at the same time.
On the other hand you feel lonely without him cos is habit already.
Can you take it if you found him having sex with his gf in his bed?
If you can by all means go with him cos no matter what we say here, is totally useless cos you are consider a hopeless case. -
yes u r weak... so if he died in accident r u gonna die with him too? if u reali wan to get over him u can jz get some frens for start... theres so much ppl here oso therefore u can join the outings for a fresh start...Originally posted by themoment86:i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix...
so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=( -
Then why are you with him? Time to rough it out on your own. Otherwise, people may label you as the slut who is trying to break up a 'perfectly normal' relationship.Originally posted by themoment86:no i am not a third party..he just went back to his gf...
Pardon my language, but I seriously think that guy is a b*st*rd. -
ignore the guy
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dun let yourself be the spare tyre.
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My only suggestion is to find a better guy than that. It doesn't mean that you will live a miserable life if you part ways with him just because you have been spending a lot of time with him. You'd be surprised to know that there are a lot more friends or guys out there who can spend far more valuable time with you. Try to widen your social circle like some people have already mentioned. You sound like someone who does not have clear life goals. That's why you place so much importance on this.
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Everyone feels useless & weak at times when they could not find a way to deal with certain issues. I too met many situations when I felt useless & weak. I do not understand your situation fully but I can more or less emphatize with you in a sense.Originally posted by themoment86:i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix...
so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=(
It is good you want to talk it out. Maybe someday you will find your friends to talk more about it? I believe you would have wanted that. I know I would. -
it simply means he wants to have his cake and eat it.Originally posted by themoment86:do you need a person to be with you...or do you want a person to be with you...someone told me say he need me...but at the same time..he wants to be with another person...differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat...it's just got me confuse over this simple question..haha..