I'm Lucky I guess...

• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:20

  I recently got to know this girl from MSN. She's nice and lovely. There are some other things which I don't want to share of.
  
  She's actually from Australia and migrated S'pore for quite some time now.
  
  She's really pretty but I don't go for looks but more of personality
  
  Other than that, we haven't meet each other but we express feelings for each other.
  
  She accepts me for who I am and I appreciate that.
  
  I'm meeting her soon and I want to ask some advice on it.
  
  We sort of like fast-forward on the "making friends" part which I did in 3 days.
  
  We both want to be together.
  
  
• thehappybunny

  28 Jan 08, 00:21

  Originally posted by ismail:
  
  We sort of like fast-forward on the "making friends" part which I did in 3 days.
  
  We both want to be together.
  
  

  err...
• BrUtUs

  28 Jan 08, 00:23

  Originally posted by ismail:

  I recently got to know this girl from MSN. She's nice and lovely. There are some other things which I don't want to share of.
  
  She's actually from Australia and migrated S'pore for quite some time now.
  
  She's really pretty but I don't go for looks but more of personality
  
  Other than that, we haven't meet each other but we express feelings for each other.
  
  She accepts me for who I am and I appreciate that.
  
  I'm meeting her soon and I want to ask some advice on it.
  
  We sort of like fast-forward on the "making friends" part which I did in 3 days.
  
  We both want to be together.
  
  

  n wheres the agony part?
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:31

  I knew that would come..
  
  ok here's the full story..
  
  The girl add me at MSN.
  
  I don't have a clue of how she got my email add.
  
  So I asked advice from my friends.
  
  She looked pretty from her Display picture.
  
  I thought it was just a sick joke till I got to know her better..
  
  The only thing is that I haven't meet her and I am afraid that something bad will happen to our relationship.
  
  I keep thinking about her every minute and what will happen between us.
  
  My friends thinks I have too many theories and says I'm thinking too much.
  
  I can't call her as she hasn't had her hp yet so i have to wait for her to call me.
  
  Even when she calls me I can't see her number so I can't call her back.
  
  This sounds pathetic and I know that.
  
  I miss her very much.
  
  
• MidnightK

  28 Jan 08, 00:34

  don't you guys read?
  he needs advise..
  
  i guess he is thinking about their relationship moving too fast..
  
  take it slow man..
  don't move into a r/s so fast..
  go on dates..
  get to know each other better..
• Isis

  28 Jan 08, 00:36

  usually if i feel it is right, i'll go for it..
  
  If u having doubts, then don't..
  
  be friends first and see how it will go..
  
  And oh it is really super werid that she somehow got ur msn add..
  
  
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:40

  Imagine this, we already talk about sexual intimacy and stuff...
  
  and we want to share the experience together...
  
  I feel that we shud take things a bit slower..perhaps kissing first...
  
  but I am afraid that because it is not a risk I going to take.
  
  I am not an attractive guy and to get her is no easy means.
  
  Even my friends who were spying on me while I was chatting with her at class got absolutely jealous.
  
  I keep wondering what she is doing every moment.
  
  It's making me paranoid.
  
  if I show u the DP its against her privacy..to make you believe me...
  
  so I will not...
  
  
• MidnightK

  28 Jan 08, 00:42

  wtf..
  cybersex and you wanna take it further?
  i have no experience in this..
  
  good luck
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:47

  its not okay..
  
  look..i just want on advice on how to make her happy that's all I'm askig right now...
• Isis

  28 Jan 08, 00:48

  Originally posted by ismail:

  its not okay..
  
  look..i just want on advice on how to make her happy that's all I'm askig right now...

  huh make her happy..
  
  is this ur agony part ?
  
  
• a-Lost-9uY

  28 Jan 08, 00:50

  lol skali its a trap
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:51

  I keep thinking about her all the time...
  
  what can I do to make sure that I can make her happy...
  
  like tips...
  
  
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 00:54

  its not lah..I trust her...
  
  i asked her questions already lah..
  
  i just have to be careful that's all...
  
• ifish

  28 Jan 08, 01:01

  u know..
  
  it can be a case of 2 differrent personality, 1 same person..
  
  wad i suggest is start from 0 when u meet her in RL
  
  suggest that u go out with her in groups when first time meeting her
• Jezmeister

  28 Jan 08, 01:25

  3 days and she wants sex? i think someone's playing ya...
• sEphIrOth

  28 Jan 08, 01:45

  i smell a prank
• xavier1979

  28 Jan 08, 08:34

  Slow things down. Meet up with her first. 3 days is too short a time to really know a person.
• caleb_chiang

  28 Jan 08, 08:39

  More like a prank to me. Meet her to confirm and post back...
• Zarks

  28 Jan 08, 08:47

  wahahah.. this must b a joke..
  
  Love without even seeing each other.. c'mon, your not a child anymore. Quit your fantasy,
  
  Wanted to be together within 3 days without even see her nose... wahhaha..
  
  I sense danger here. that gal might wan to woo u, marry u and get to stay in singapore forever !
  
• ismail

  28 Jan 08, 09:07

  thanks for the replies...i'll be careful...
  
  
• browniebaobao

  28 Jan 08, 13:24

  i think it's more of lust than love.

   

  have u met her already?

   

  does she look like her in the picture?

• Tier

  28 Jan 08, 13:52

  Think its just a moment of online infatuation, it will die down after meeting if your expectation get so high and excited.

  I experience these online meet up. Virtually you imagined there are so much feelings and emotions. Actually real life theres so much difference to learn.

  I think you think too much. Just take it slow and behave like friends and talk casually. I think everything feel more in place if you all start as friends and get to know each other deeper.

  Dont be so rush to the point. It will scare the girl away and create more disappointment.

• boltstorm

  8 Feb 08, 16:47

  no updates?

• caleb_chiang

  8 Feb 08, 16:54

  Cos got ding dong one and he pai sai...

• gLc

  8 Feb 08, 17:02

  hahaha! trap lah!