feel helpless...love...?
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edit : im kinda stuck in a love triangle..but my question is...would u get attach to a girl/guy knowing one of ur closest fren likes tat girl/guy too?
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Someone in this forum also had a similar predicament to yours. You might wanna read up on that thread:
http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/307265
All love's fair and square. It depends on whom the girl chooses.
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i dunno... i never had this kind of problem with my friends.....
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think too much already!
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Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:
edit : im kinda stuck in a love triangle..but my question is...would u get attach to a girl/guy knowing one of ur closest fren likes tat girl/guy too?
Hi TS,Love triangles are usually easy to resolve.....
For a relationship to work out... the person you like must like you too.
Does the person you like .... like you? If not pull out cause its a waste of your time... go spend it on another girl or go spend that time making yourself more attractive/funny or watever.
If the person you like... likes you.... tell her confirm that you both have a thing for each other... and tell her to gently let your best mate know that the two of you have started going out.
And don't ferget to spend time with your good friend too
... and fer christ sake dun bring your gf along 
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if your fren is understanding , then u both can compete la. u just say u also like her..
or u can wait
if he cant get her, then u try then. simple as then. save ur frenship too
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I will give up on the girl.. I would rather still have a friend than a girl.. Happen to mi once .. I gave up on the girl.
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which one more impt? friend or gal?
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
Hi TS,Love triangles are usually easy to resolve.....
For a relationship to work out... the person you like must like you too.
Does the person you like .... like you? If not pull out cause its a waste of your time... go spend it on another girl or go spend that time making yourself more attractive/funny or watever.
If the person you like... likes you.... tell her confirm that you both have a thing for each other... and tell her to gently let your best mate know that the two of you have started going out.
And don't ferget to spend time with your good friend too
... and fer christ sake dun bring your gf along
i like the girl n the girl said she like me..but the strange thing is tat she is smsing me n my fren everyday at the same time.. -
likes only mah... there is no relationship mah...
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Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:
i like the girl n the girl said she like me..but the strange thing is tat she is smsing me n my fren everyday at the same time..
She said she likes you Go fer it and SMS/meet her up.....SMS is easier as you dun need to go thru the embaressment... and tell her that you have thought about it for awhile and how she feels about taking the relationship further?
Nvm your friend for now.... if she likes your friend she will decline you
. Either way it brings the case to a close as the anxiety is really uncalled for.If she is undecided between the both of you... all the more reason to SMS her and push her to make a decision as she is straining the relationship btween you and your friend.
Good luck.
Best Regards
Genie99
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
She said she likes you Go fer it and SMS/meet her up.....SMS is easier as you dun need to go thru the embaressment... and tell her that you have thought about it for awhile and how she feels about taking the relationship further?
Nvm your friend for now.... if she likes your friend she will decline you
. Either way it brings the case to a close as the anxiety is really uncalled for.If she is undecided between the both of you... all the more reason to SMS her and push her to make a decision as she is straining the relationship btween you and your friend.
Good luck.
Best Regards
Genie99
i dunno..it seems to get more n more complicated..she told me for some reason she cant accept me for now.but few nights before we started talking bout it.there seems to be ANOTHER GUY in the whole picture..i ask her about it but she refuse to talk abt it.but she still seem to care for me n she gets angry whenever i say she doesnt like me anymore -
Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:
edit : im kinda stuck in a love triangle..but my question is...would u get attach to a girl/guy knowing one of ur closest fren likes tat girl/guy too?
that depends on whether you have a kuku or not ....
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Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:
i like the girl n the girl said she like me..but the strange thing is tat she is smsing me n my fren everyday at the same time..鱼�撒网， ���错， ��放过
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love is alwys fair wad..
if she likes u, she's urs
if she likes ur fren,
then she's not urs
theres no friendship in love..
dun tell mi u wan to spend the rest of ur life with ur best fren.
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Friend is more imprt imo.
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Originally posted by IfUWantHateMe:
i dunno..it seems to get more n more complicated..she told me for some reason she cant accept me for now.but few nights before we started talking bout it.there seems to be ANOTHER GUY in the whole picture..i ask her about it but she refuse to talk abt it.but she still seem to care for me n she gets angry whenever i say she doesnt like me anymore
Hi,Sorry I had internet problems. Emailing from work now.
From what you tell me, I surmise that she is waiting for something better to come along. But she does not want to let go of the guys interested in her at the moment. Reason probably because she is uncertain she can get what she wants. And if she rejects you and is unable to work out with the #1 in her heart.... she is left with nothing.
What I would do....
1) Continue communication with her... don't do it too often and don't pop the question if she would like to start a relationship with you. If you do that too often, she might want to avoid answering that question and ultimately avoid you. Keep it cool chat her like once/twice a week about fun stuff ... try to keep the topic away from you & her. Make her luff.
2) Look out fer other hot chicks. If she wants time to figure out if the competition is better.... its fair that you take the time to look around .... you might find something better
Of course its best not to let her know.... but if she asks just tell her your relationship with any other "hot" stuff is platonic (for now 
). And if she gets jealous and calls you a flirt .... tell her you are not and am ready to start an exclusive relationship with her . And if she can't ... meybe she is the flirt? -
I know I'm abit MCP. But that should be the way.
Regards
Genie99
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
Hi,Sorry I had internet problems. Emailing from work now.
From what you tell me, I surmise that she is waiting for something better to come along. But she does not want to let go of the guys interested in her at the moment. Reason probably because she is uncertain she can get what she wants. And if she rejects you and is unable to work out with the #1 in her heart.... she is left with nothing.
What I would do....
1) Continue communication with her... don't do it too often and don't pop the question if she would like to start a relationship with you. If you do that too often, she might want to avoid answering that question and ultimately avoid you. Keep it cool chat her like once/twice a week about fun stuff ... try to keep the topic away from you & her. Make her luff.
2) Look out fer other hot chicks. If she wants time to figure out if the competition is better.... its fair that you take the time to look around .... you might find something better
Of course its best not to let her know.... but if she asks just tell her your relationship with any other "hot" stuff is platonic (for now ). And if she gets jealous and calls you a flirt .... tell her you are not and am ready to start an exclusive relationship with her . And if she can't ... meybe she is the flirt?haha.its ok..
i dun wan to sms her every night but she will always be the first to initiate a conversation everyday from night till ard 3 or 4am..its getting kinda irritating actually.
she told me she still likes me but when we started talking about getting together..she sounds very unwilling so i told her lets wait for abt 2 months n i will ask her if she wants to be my gf. but she jus say see how it goes lor.