Why is he confusing me?
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I knew this guy from the net. He dated me frequently ever since. And he hinted that we could try to be a couple. But recently, i wanted to check on his feelings for me and the status of our relationship. And he told me pointblank that he just wants to be friends with me.
I was shocked and hurted. If he only wanted to be friends with me, why did he date me and even hint to me that he has feelings for me?He said im too quiet
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lol u must b young. guy said he got feeling then u believe.. theres more thing or action for u to see if he got feeling for u.. not only bcuz of dates..
take it easy la.. u still young
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Be glad that at least he is honest and never continue to lead to you on.
Perhaps as time goes as a friend, things may turn on better for both of ya?
Don't get too rush into a relationship :)
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he was very nice to me in his actions.. so i thought perhaps he has some feelings for me..
then why suddenly after i question him,he only wants to be a good friend?
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mayb he just wanna play with u .. what do u think of he saying u both should try be couple? Honey, TRY to be couple seems not right. I think he never had a gf b4 and wanted to have one and just play your feeling. But at the end he seems not that bad enough to keep continue playing ur feeling..
Just beware guys, remember action is more than words. guys with less words are the best with their action
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Originally posted by vitamin P:
he was very nice to me in his actions.. so i thought perhaps he has some feelings for me..
then why suddenly after i question him,he only wants to be a good friend?
Maybe that is what he thinks all along. He feels comfortable with you and he feels that you''ll make a good friend.
But anyway, no harm in continue with your friendship. It will give both of ya more allowance to understand each other better.
After that, it could be more clear if both of ya really suits each other.
Friendship first doesn't mean the end or ruling out all the possibility of a relationship.
If you really like him, relax and let nature take course huh?
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he didnt confess that he only wants to be friends until i press him for an answer on how he feels for me...
and then he admit he only wants to be friends...
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i want to be friends with him but i feel he has been toying with my feelings and i cant really put up with it and continue to remain his good friend
he just said sorry , he was in the wrong and thats it?
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he probably took back his words.......and changed his mind
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sad but sory lor, he cheated your feeling. i dun think u should b friends with this playboy really.
nex time dun THINK or assume any man that treat u very good means they really like u. Its all bullshit u know. Its easy. U only confirm they like u if they say it out, ok ?
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I am so sad!!!!!!!
why must they lie to me
this happened twice
what have I done wrong?
Am i so unworthy of love ?why does it always turn out to be this way?
why cant my feelings be reciprocated?
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U WILL FIND THE ONE WHO APPRECIATE U LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.
NOW JUST FOCUS ON CAREER OR STUDY
LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.
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Originally posted by vitamin P:
I am so sad!!!!!!!
why must they lie to me
this happened twice
what have I done wrong?
Am i so unworthy of love ?why does it always turn out to be this way?
why cant my feelings be reciprocated?
becos you are ugly and fat like me
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i begin to tink i am treated this way and fooled because i am ugly and fat...
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fAT THEN EXERCISE LA
ULGY THEN MAKE UP LA !! ARRRGHH
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Originally posted by Zarks:
fAT THEN EXERCISE LA
ULGY THEN MAKE UP LA !! ARRRGHH
will you be my bf?
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FAT UGLY SO WAT??
U GOT GOOD ATTITUDE U OLEDI BETTER THAN MOST PRETTY FUCKING PRETENDER FACE LAAA
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Originally posted by Zarks:
FAT UGLY SO WAT??
U GOT GOOD ATTITUDE U OLEDI BETTER THAN MOST PRETTY FUCKING PRETENDER FACE LAAA
hi dear. -
Plz do not hijack TS thread by giving meaningless comments.
Thank you.
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have you had sex with him?
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TS, i think u got low self confidence... Who cares if u r fat and ugly... I dun think u r ugly... fat does not equate to ugly... U r pretty... U just need to tell urself that...
From ur whinning why like this? How like this & that? I can tell u r still very young... No need look for bf one la... U study hard, exercise to keep fit or lose weight if u want... +++ more discipline if u got exercise routine...
Surely someone will be serious in wanting to ask u for a r/s... No rush... There's lots of fishes, i mean guys out there in the sea...
Take care ya... -
forcing a guy will only cos him to be on defensive.
try to use a less hostile approach
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Simply put, you're not his type.
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Hi,
he has already stated his stand. No point guessing what he is actually up to.
Respect his decision. Just be friends then. period.
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If dating process there is no right no wrong u didnt lose out too .