http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 en-US 60 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>ugly girls confess=99% rejection</p> <p>pretty girls=100% success?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>is it true...</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> if for me i were see heart 1 although pretty but heart no good no use wad what matter is the personility just don't too ugly lah!!</p> Thu, 28 Feb 2008 04:54:02 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7890783 guaiboiboi http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> I can tell u there are such cases</p> Wed, 27 Feb 2008 03:23:12 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7888064 CrabbyShaSha http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>MY FOOT!!!!!!!</p> <p>I CONFESSED TWICE&nbsp; and&nbsp;get rejected&nbsp; twice with very HARSH WORDS...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp; AS IF THEY ARE BRAD PITT OR SOMETHING</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>PPl normally only used harsh word when they cant get the message thru.... is that the case here?</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 11:35:08 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875550 EarlNeo http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>i think they just play around,hoping to land a gd catch....</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Hope they get aids</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:53:32 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875446 vitamin P http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>so I MUST BE A&nbsp; MONSTER..THATS WHY THEY REJECT ME.....</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>IF THEY DONT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ME,WHY KEEP DATING ME AND THEN SAY THEY DISLIKE ME...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>ITS LIKE LURING A DOG WITH A DOG BONE AND WHEN THE DOG REALLY WANTS TO EAT THE BONE, U HIDE THE BONE AND SHOO THE DOG AWAY...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>DAMN BASTARDS</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>What kind of guy to u go for? Those super handsome kind, popular kind? Having a date means like u.... nvm i think u still young, big brother here kena one dating that cost $90 +++ dollar which turns out to be a platonic outing.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Learn something ya. Dating is not equal to i like u.</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:22:33 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875398 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>no, you are not a monster, don't say things like dat about yrself</p> <p>yes, you are right, they are bastards... these are guys who get a kick out of dating girls, they are not serious abt a r/s, ignore them, lucky they didn't get you</p> <p>have faith, not all guys are like that. one day you will meet the right one. *hugs*</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:13:45 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875385 rafTiger http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>so I MUST BE A&nbsp; MONSTER..THATS WHY THEY REJECT ME.....</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>IF THEY DONT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ME,WHY KEEP DATING ME AND THEN SAY THEY DISLIKE ME...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>ITS LIKE LURING A DOG WITH A DOG BONE AND WHEN THE DOG REALLY WANTS TO EAT THE BONE, U HIDE THE BONE AND SHOO THE DOG AWAY...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>DAMN BASTARDS</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:08:11 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875373 vitamin P http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>wo wo, relax, sry...<img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/BoxedEmoticonSet/confused.png" alt= "confused.png" /></p> <p>fine, that was from MY perspective, cause when a girl confess to me, I actually thank her for it cos i feel flattered, even if i don't actually want to be her bf. hey, i really appreciate that she actually pluck up her courage and confess, the last thing i want to do is to hurt her by saying harsh words...</p> <p>of course, i hav to admit there are guys who are quite coarse and insensitive, but it's not your fault that you are rejected this way... be thankful, at least you have seen their true colours, they don't deserve you</p> <p>guys are more straightforward, as long as he has some feelings for you, confirm will accept you one<img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/BoxedEmoticonSet/smile.png" alt= "smile.png" /></p> <p>i not gal, so don't know how you all think, but when i confess, gals always think this think that, scared this scared that... now, which side you think is more difficult??<img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/wink.png" alt= "wink.png" /></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 09:52:33 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875357 rafTiger http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>MY FOOT!!!!!!!</p> <p>I CONFESSED TWICE&nbsp; and&nbsp;get rejected&nbsp; twice with very HARSH WORDS...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp; AS IF THEY ARE BRAD PITT OR SOMETHING</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Are u jennifier aniston in the first place</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 09:34:04 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875340 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>MY FOOT!!!!!!!</p> <p>I CONFESSED TWICE&nbsp; and&nbsp;get rejected&nbsp; twice with very HARSH WORDS...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp; AS IF THEY ARE BRAD PITT OR SOMETHING</p> Fri, 22 Feb 2008 08:47:25 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7875273 vitamin P http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>guys do appreciate it when gals confess first, esp if they do it in a very coy and cute way :)</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>if u wanna compare (unless he really don't like you) if not the success rate of gal confess is higher than tat of guy confess, after all, we guys are more accomodating and easy-going</p> Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:42:02 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7874703 rafTiger http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Deino:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>for me character comes before looks although looks may be kinda important but i'd put character on top no matter wot.....</p> <p>so to be pretty, one has to have good character.....</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Both I also have... <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="icon_lol.gif" /></p> <p>Just kidding.</p> Thu, 21 Feb 2008 15:14:07 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7873833 Miss Tiny http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>for me character comes before looks although looks may be kinda important but i'd put character on top no matter wot.....</p> <p>so to be pretty, one has to have good character.....if not they'd be defined as ugly by me.....so yeah ugly girls would definitely have more chance in being rejected</p> Thu, 21 Feb 2008 13:56:23 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7873675 Deino http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>还不只是两子眼睛，一个鼻子，一张嘴巴，两立奶子，在那边摇啊摇。。。 <img src= "http://www.sgforums.com/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="icon_lol.gif" /></p> Wed, 20 Feb 2008 17:32:35 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7871765 Jamie Zawinski http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>ugly girls confess=99% rejection</p> <p>pretty girls=100% success?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>is it true...</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p class=""><img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_arrow.gif" alt="icon_arrow.gif" /> <span style="font-family: Arial;">Reframing it, it is as good as saying, if you are not good at Mathematics, you suck at logics.</span></p> <p class=""><strong><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style= "text-decoration: underline;">Linear thoughts beget linear conclusion.</span> &nbsp;</span></strong></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">Love is multifaceted, multi-dimensional and multi directional - it is definitely not as linear as how you have expressed it. If your claims are correct, then Love is only entitled to the chick with the hottest bod with the prettiest face, as well as the dude with the most cash and assets.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">Duh - since your tunnel vision did not incorporate other factors into consideration.</span></p> <p class="">I<span style="font-family: Arial;">f you are dissatisfied with something about your situation, then you must learn to evolve your weakness and vulnerability into something more manageable. If you want to change your fate, then logically you must work to change it.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">If not, you are just plain ranting and at the end of the day, it gets you nowhere.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">To me, it seemed to me that you just want a boyfriend. But if you can’t even be bothered with yourself, I think the odds will be stacked much higher against you.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">Without Self Love, there can be no Love.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">If you cannot understand this philosophy, then you will never understand why Love always eludes you.</span></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">And it has nothing to do with ugly girl confession = 99% failure.</span> <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_exclaim.gif" alt= "icon_exclaim.gif" /></p> <p class=""><span style="font-family: Arial;">Cheers</span></p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 23:25:30 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7870250 Yunhaier http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>No ugly woman. Only ugly woman who is lazy.</p> <p>Even if you are chio but there are always girls who are more chio than you.</p> <p>So it really depends on how the other one think and want</p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 23:09:49 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7870206 Isis http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>on several occasions, they said that love is not about looks while the thing important is inside but imagine you know a girl extremely kind-hearted but her face is..completely CMI, would u still fall in love with her? i won't for sure. i would rather take a pretty but abit cruel girl&nbsp; <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/confused.png" alt= "confused.png" /></p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 22:55:46 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7870163 glacer http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>TO TS,</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Once, a JC mate confessed to me....I was already in Uni and all along, she was never in my radar and we were having a very platonic relationship.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The confession felt good.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>But we were together for like 2 weeks. Because, after the sparkles, I still think she's not the one. I think she knows it. And she doesn't expect anything out of the confession.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>I was the fool.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Confession is a healty way of expression but you must know what you wish to achieve in the end. And you do not get sweet ending all the time.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>That was 7 years ago and the girl who confessed had gotten married and divorced.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>P.S. Confession of a fool. But a happy fool.</p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 10:22:03 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868610 nehpyh http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; to add on:<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ugly girls confess to ugly guys=50/50<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ugly girls confess to handsome guys=99%+-1%<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; pretty girls confess to ugly guys=100% success<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; pretty girls confess to handsome guys=50/50<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; so the target to confess to plays a part also.<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; u can switch the role around of guys confess to girls, the result is the same.</p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 09:53:04 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868553 extrinsic http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>ugly girls confess=99% rejection</p> <p>pretty girls=100% success?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>is it true...</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>do ugly girls confess to ugly guys? <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_mrgreen.gif" alt= "icon_mrgreen.gif" /></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 09:51:44 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868550 InnoHippo http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>ugly girls confess=99% rejection</p> <p>pretty girls=100% success?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>is it true...</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Hi TS,</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Its a fact of life. Looks are a serious advantage. Especially true if you are young.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The tide turns for pretty girls as&nbsp;they grow older though. Not because they are no longer pretty.... but because guys will look towards other aspects of a girl as time goes by. But that doesn't mean looks do not carry any weight then.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>If she has no personality, guys will be bored of her really quick. Believe me when i say this.... beside every hot chick that you would die for... is a guy bored as hell <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/wink.png" alt= "wink.png" />.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Only way to continue to gain his attention is to be intellectually challenging and possibly have some fun activities that both of you love. My partner has grown to like online games. And is now a gym fanatic.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>But i guess from your perspective .... pay some attention to dressing, grooming and learn how to be a good conversationist. As time goes by, you'll find someone who appreciates you.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Good Luck</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Regards</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Genie99</p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 09:40:37 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868530 Genie99a http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vitamin P:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>ugly girls confess=99% rejection</p> <p>pretty girls=100% success?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>is it true...</p> <p>anyone has heard of stories of pretty gals being rejected after confessing?</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Heard? first hand experiences...<img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt= "icon_rolleyes.gif" /></p> Tue, 19 Feb 2008 00:37:50 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868162 caleb_chiang http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>ehhh i dont know...i dont think so......</p> Mon, 18 Feb 2008 23:44:29 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868061 Ed11790 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>inner&nbsp;beauty&nbsp;plays a big part too, so even if someone who's not&nbsp;that good looking, there's still a special someone out there who's waiting for you. But, ugly + no inner beauty = totally sucks.</p> <p>Don't know why but it reminds me of a scene in Good Luck Chuck. Hmm...</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Mon, 18 Feb 2008 23:41:32 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7868052 Miss Tiny http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028 <p>personality n character counts the most though because in the end the good looks will fade but personality n character will still stands though.</p> Mon, 18 Feb 2008 22:40:49 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:308028:7867802 rlsh07 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/308028