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  • rlsh07
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    • 18 Feb `08, 11:54PM

      why do some women being soft-hearted towards some men who have hurt them though? why can't they see the truth that is there though?

  • bluejuice
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  • rlsh07
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    • 19 Feb `08, 12:00AM
      Originally posted by bluejuice:

      blinded by love..

      yeah perphaps. can a third party help in chasing the guy away when the girl is like so soft-hearted?

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  • the Bear
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    • 19 Feb `08, 8:10AM

      i have written before.. most people remember the things that stand out..

      a guy loves a girl and treats her right.. but he screws up once and she remembers that one time.. she keeps thinking about it because it stands out.. until she decides he doesn't love her because of that one time he screwed up.. she leaves him..

      a guy treats a girl like crap most of the time but shows affection and tenderness once.. she remembers that one time because it stands out.. she keeps thinking about that one time.. and decides he loves her... because of that one time, she stays with him...

      i've seen it happen many times.. alas..

  • aluvguru
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    • 20 Feb `08, 11:39AM

      Sometimes its not so easy to explain love.

       

      If everyone can be so rationale then it will be much easier. :P

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  • Isis
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    • 20 Feb `08, 1:46PM
      Originally posted by the Bear:

      i have written before.. most people remember the things that stand out..

      a guy loves a girl and treats her right.. but he screws up once and she remembers that one time.. she keeps thinking about it because it stands out.. until she decides he doesn't love her because of that one time he screwed up.. she leaves him..

      a guy treats a girl like crap most of the time but shows affection and tenderness once.. she remembers that one time because it stands out.. she keeps thinking about that one time.. and decides he loves her... because of that one time, she stays with him...

      i've seen it happen many times.. alas..


      How true.

       

      I don't think softhearted is the cause of the problem and either being too hardhearted is the solution.

       

      You can be rational but sometime, one tend to see things wrongly when we fail to get in touch with our own gut feeling and without the relevant/sufficient information.

       

       

       

      Edited by Isis 20 Feb `08, 1:49PM
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