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bladez87

3,620 posts since Sep '03
- 24 Feb `08, 6:08PM
  
  everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.
  
  mainly cause nobody ever asks me out. thats why i dont go out. but then again even if someone asks me out, i also donno if i will go. go out liao not go some cafe and talk means just wandering around aimlessly.
  
  something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.
Hello Kitty

Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs

19,399 posts since Dec '99
- 24 Feb `08, 6:10PM
  
  u can try go fer outings.
  
  kakaka.
cApitaland

4,242 posts since Sep '05
- 24 Feb `08, 6:13PM
  
  cool. does your mum give you money to spend as well outside or do you have to take care of that yourself.
rlsh07

10,348 posts since Jun '07
- 24 Feb `08, 6:14PM
  
  Originally posted by bladez87:
  
  everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.
  
  mainly cause nobody ever asks me out. thats why i dont go out. but then again even if someone asks me out, i also donno if i will go. go out liao not go some cafe and talk means just wandering around aimlessly.
  
  something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.
  
  come come come to sc outings. we have many activties though. come come
fairlady_xoxo

Je'taime

10,809 posts since Jan '07
- 24 Feb `08, 6:14PM
  
  Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)
rlsh07

10,348 posts since Jun '07
- 24 Feb `08, 6:15PM
  
  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
  
  Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)
  
  yeah lo. because my mum used to ask mi that too.
Maith

1,907 posts since Dec '07
- 24 Feb `08, 6:17PM
  
  nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?
rlsh07

10,348 posts since Jun '07
- 24 Feb `08, 6:18PM
  
  Originally posted by Maith:
  
  nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?
  
  maybe he's just passive though
cApitaland

4,242 posts since Sep '05
- 24 Feb `08, 6:22PM
  
  all the small people in all their own small cliques arh. den you left out isit?
bladez87

3,620 posts since Sep '03
- 24 Feb `08, 6:23PM
  
  i in NS ma...but since young i like this. zai nan ba XD
  
  i passive. very passive. expenses settle myself. donno how sia. my social life cmi
cApitaland

4,242 posts since Sep '05
- 24 Feb `08, 6:27PM
  
  call up yer old friends from secondary sku arh. or join an interest group. not veri healthy de stay at home everytime.
bladez87

3,620 posts since Sep '03
- 24 Feb `08, 6:29PM
  
  where to join interest group?
ultimatenolifer

21 posts since Jan '08
- 24 Feb `08, 7:35PM
  
  Sometimes is because u and your friends dun have common interest bah. Like your fren like to go clubbing but u prefer to go library sort of thing. For me is because my old frens kind of have their own frens also so les meetups already. Anyone have any brilliant ideas on how to get a social life ? I also feel bored at home sometimes during weekends
lonely_boy_88

150 posts since Jan '08
- 24 Feb `08, 8:16PM
  
  ACtually i also dont go out much, not like everyday or wat la, but sometimes still go out with frens.
  
  I dont go clubbing, I dont like to go clubbing, even though lots of my frens go.
  
  I now in NS also.
lonely_boy_88

150 posts since Jan '08
- 24 Feb `08, 8:17PM
  
  Originally posted by ultimatenolifer:
  
  Sometimes is because u and your friends dun have common interest bah. Like your fren like to go clubbing but u prefer to go library sort of thing. For me is because my old frens kind of have their own frens also so les meetups already. Anyone have any brilliant ideas on how to get a social life ? I also feel bored at home sometimes during weekends
  
  thats why nowadays i turn to online games or computer games, watching movies to kill most of my weekends.
xavier1979

6,273 posts since Aug '02
- 24 Feb `08, 8:22PM
  
  Take up a hobby. Meet up with fellow hobbyists.
areusure

62 posts since Jun '07
- 25 Feb `08, 11:16AM
  
  Do volunteer work. Go national volunteer websites.
  
  knowing that u have made a difference in a paralysed, disabled or underprivilege who otherwise cannot enjoy even the most basic capability of a normal person...will not only enrich your life but also one day come back to you as the sweetest and most memorable memory
motoway

5,698 posts since Dec '05
- 25 Feb `08, 3:36PM
  
  pick up a sport.
  And start living. i dun see how u can dun haf a single fren aft say 10 odd yrs of schooling.
guaiboiboi

209 posts since Sep '06
- 26 Feb `08, 5:02AM
  
  i also don't always go out glad to find ppl same with me but got go out la when my friend jio.it is fun to be with family and friends socialise mah! go out budget only lo alittle amount is ok ba? i also want to be indendpent learn to settle my money myself.
  
  Don't always depend on mother,father.
FBI

8,473 posts since Nov '03
- 26 Feb `08, 5:04AM
  
  sometimes a movie outing or sit at cafe talk is v hearwarming..
  
  but spend money v fast =(
aiglosicicle

1,247 posts since Mar '06
- 26 Feb `08, 10:19AM
  
  actually a lot of times its not because people dont ask us out. its because we expect friends to make the first move so we sit around and wait, or we dont project an image that says 'ask me out'.
thehappybunny

4,507 posts since Aug '07
- 26 Feb `08, 10:22AM
  
  if your friends never call you out, then call them out lah, unless thats an ego issue for you.
Ed11790

986 posts since Feb '08
- 26 Feb `08, 10:54AM
  
  go out and view the world….....
magical_wen

737 posts since Jul '07
- 26 Feb `08, 6:00PM
  
  eh boy.
  
  if peopel ask u, got chance must go out.
  
  how can everytime stay at home!
  
  must enjoy first...
  
  go out spend money..
  
  u wont even know u'll make it back home..
  
  haha..
magical_wen

737 posts since Jul '07
- 26 Feb `08, 6:00PM
  
  eh boy.
  
  if peopel ask u, got chance must go out.
  
  how can everytime stay at home!
  
  must enjoy first...
  
  go out spend money..
  
  u wont even know u'll make it back home..
  
  haha..

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