why you dont go out with your friends ah?

• bladez87

  24 Feb 08, 18:08

  everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.

  mainly cause nobody ever asks me out. thats why i dont go out. but then again even if someone asks me out, i also donno if i will go. go out liao not go some cafe and talk means just wandering around aimlessly.

   

  something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.

• Hello Kitty

  24 Feb 08, 18:10

  u can try go fer outings.

  kakaka.

• cApitaland

  24 Feb 08, 18:13

  cool. does your mum give you money to spend as well outside or do you have to take care of that yourself.

• rlsh07

  24 Feb 08, 18:14

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.

  mainly cause nobody ever asks me out. thats why i dont go out. but then again even if someone asks me out, i also donno if i will go. go out liao not go some cafe and talk means just wandering around aimlessly.

   

  something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.

  
  come come come to sc outings. we have many activties though. come come

• fairlady_xoxo

  24 Feb 08, 18:14

  Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)

• rlsh07

  24 Feb 08, 18:15

  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

  Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)

  yeah lo. because my mum used to ask mi that too.

• Maith

  24 Feb 08, 18:17

  nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?

• rlsh07

  24 Feb 08, 18:18

  Originally posted by Maith:

  nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?

  maybe he's just passive though

• cApitaland

  24 Feb 08, 18:22

  all the small people in all their own small cliques arh. den you left out isit?

• bladez87

  24 Feb 08, 18:23

  i in NS ma...but since young i like this. zai nan ba XD

  i passive. very passive. expenses settle myself. donno how sia. my social life cmi

• cApitaland

  24 Feb 08, 18:27

  call up yer old friends from secondary sku arh. or join an interest group. not veri healthy de stay at home everytime.

• bladez87

  24 Feb 08, 18:29

  where to join interest group?

• ultimatenolifer

  24 Feb 08, 19:35

  Sometimes is because  u and your friends dun have common interest bah. Like your fren like to go clubbing but u prefer to go library sort of thing. For me is because my old frens kind of have their own frens also so les meetups already. Anyone have any brilliant ideas on how to get a social life ? I also feel bored at home sometimes during weekends

• lonely_boy_88

  24 Feb 08, 20:16

  ACtually i also dont go out much, not like everyday or wat la, but sometimes still go out with frens.

   

  I dont go clubbing, I dont like to go clubbing, even though lots of my frens go.

   

  I now in NS also.

• lonely_boy_88

  24 Feb 08, 20:17

  Originally posted by ultimatenolifer:

  Sometimes is because  u and your friends dun have common interest bah. Like your fren like to go clubbing but u prefer to go library sort of thing. For me is because my old frens kind of have their own frens also so les meetups already. Anyone have any brilliant ideas on how to get a social life ? I also feel bored at home sometimes during weekends

  thats why nowadays i turn to online games or computer games, watching movies to kill most of my weekends.

• xavier1979

  24 Feb 08, 20:22

  Take up a hobby. Meet up with fellow hobbyists.

   

• areusure

  25 Feb 08, 11:16

  Do volunteer work. Go national volunteer websites.

   

  knowing that u have made a difference in a paralysed, disabled or underprivilege who otherwise cannot enjoy even the most basic capability of a normal person...will not only enrich your life but also one day come back to you as the sweetest and most memorable memory

• motoway

  25 Feb 08, 15:36

  pick up a sport. And start living. i dun see how u can dun haf a single fren aft say 10 odd yrs of schooling.
• guaiboiboi

  26 Feb 08, 05:02

  i also don't always go out glad to find ppl same with me but got go out la when my friend jio.it is fun to be with family and friends socialise mah! go out budget only lo alittle amount is ok ba? i also want to be indendpent learn to settle my money myself.

   

  Don't always depend on mother,father.

• FBI

  26 Feb 08, 05:04

  sometimes a movie outing or sit at cafe talk is v hearwarming..

  but spend money v fast =(

• aiglosicicle

  26 Feb 08, 10:19

  actually a lot of times its not because people dont ask us out. its because we expect friends to make the first move so we sit around and wait, or we dont project an image that says 'ask me out'.

• thehappybunny

  26 Feb 08, 10:22

  if your friends never call you out, then call them out lah, unless thats an ego issue for you.

• Ed11790

  26 Feb 08, 10:54

  go out and view the world........
• magical_wen

  26 Feb 08, 18:00

  eh boy.

  if peopel ask u, got chance must go out.

  how can everytime stay at home!

  must enjoy first...

  go out spend money..

  u wont even know u'll make it back home..

  haha..

• magical_wen

  26 Feb 08, 18:00

  eh boy.

  if peopel ask u, got chance must go out.

  how can everytime stay at home!

  must enjoy first...

  go out spend money..

  u wont even know u'll make it back home..

  haha..