How to know if she like me?

• 333225520

  4 Mar 08, 06:47

  I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.

  Any idea to find out?

• xavier1979

  4 Mar 08, 07:34

  If she treats you the same way as she treat the rest, then most probably she doesn't feel anything special for you.

• elementalangel

  4 Mar 08, 08:39

  ask her why she dont have a bf / if she has a bf

  hint her lo...

• Ed11790

  4 Mar 08, 08:41

  be brave and ask her directly about how she feels toward u
• Zarks

  4 Mar 08, 09:07

  Show her the money and if she accept it, then she likes u.

• smartboy4

  4 Mar 08, 09:07

  you ask this kind of question but give this quantity of information.. is the same as wasting space here.
  you think all of us can help you picture what is on anyone's mind?
  
  you have not provide the vital stats   

• jojobeach

  4 Mar 08, 09:27

  She's probably not into office romance.

  You know? The don't shyt where you eat theory ?

   

• maurizio13

  4 Mar 08, 09:29

  even if she says "i love you" to you,

  you still can't have full faith in the statement,

  because girls are good at faking it (from bed to daily activities).

  

• Uncertain

  4 Mar 08, 10:01

  OK TS,

  I pose u this question.

  If u play a netball game with a group of gals, then everytime dun know why she will sort of end up teaming with u. AND she will ask me questions like where is the drink stall, aren't u playing anymore, u want to play etc.... BUT i choose to reply her casually like It's over there, nope i not playing, thanks u can carry on etc....

  If u are in my shoes, u think the gal likes me or is she trying to be my fren?

  My answer to u is she is trying to be my fren i think. Y? Cos i never know what the hell gals are thinking these days, so i prefer to think otherwise.

  If u like her, the main thing is sincerity. Prove to her that u are sincere to date her and make her ur gf.

  Just my 2 cents

• smartboy4

  4 Mar 08, 10:27

  the netball i will usually reply ..
  
  you want to share the drink?
  i prefer to watch you play
  watching you play is damn hot
  
  tonight free?

• Maith

  4 Mar 08, 13:01

  how u noe she dont like u? Btw..u said u just noticed her...so my advice is that ask her out a few times first before telling her what u feel..or she will be scare away if u straight away go tell her u like her

• Fatum

  4 Mar 08, 13:07

  Originally posted by 333225520:

  I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.

  Any idea to find out?

  if you don't even have the balls to tell her you like her, you definitely don't have the balls to get laid ......

   

• Hanagata

  4 Mar 08, 13:12

  Simple ask her directly...

• Jamie Zawinski

  4 Mar 08, 13:21

  did she grope your penis now and then? if not then forget it

• Hanagata

  4 Mar 08, 13:39

  or you can try this....

  You: Hey, do you like mee?
  
  Her: No...
  
  You:
  
  You: How about bee hoon?
  
  Then after that, you can go home and sob all day long liao
• angel7030

  4 Mar 08, 18:52

  Aiyo, u poor eyesight, go choose a better looking one lah.

• 333225520

  4 Mar 08, 21:32

  Originally posted by xavier1979:

  If she treats you the same way as she treat the rest, then most probably she doesn't feel anything special for you.

  Yea, you are probably right.

• 333225520

  4 Mar 08, 21:35

  Originally posted by elementalangel:

  ask her why she dont have a bf / if she has a bf

  hint her lo...

  
  Hmm... no, she don't have one (from my observation for the past few years...).

• 333225520

  4 Mar 08, 21:38

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  if you don't even have the balls to tell her you like her, you definitely don't have the balls to get laid ......

   

  
  Well, thanks for your advice. But maybe you can post the same reply to the rest of the 10,000 topics in this forum. If it is that easy to just tell a girl you like her, then I think there will not be a single topic in this forum, isn't it?

  And if she don't feel the same, how are we suppose to work together in the future without feeling awkward?

• CannyOng

  4 Mar 08, 21:54

  Originally posted by 333225520:

  I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.

  Any idea to find out?

  
  Simple! Date her out..

  Ask her out on friday to have a simple meal after a hectic of work! U need plenty of communication to find out whether she has mutial feeling towards u.

• YuutoFlow

  4 Mar 08, 21:57

  Originally posted by Hanagata:

  or you can try this....

  You: Hey, do you like mee?
  
  Her: No...
  
  You:
  
  You: How about bee hoon?
  
  Then after that, you can go home and sob all day long liao

  
  Woah kewls

• 333225520

  5 Mar 08, 06:27

  Originally posted by smartboy4:

  you ask this kind of question but give this quantity of information.. is the same as wasting space here.
  you think all of us can help you picture what is on anyone's mind?
  
  you have not provide the vital stats   

  What kind "quantity of information" you need? What I am asking is is there any way to hint to her I like her without being too obvious so that we will not be too awkward if she don't feel the same way.

  I am not asking you if she like me or not, perhaps you need to read my post again, else your post is wasting space here.

• 333225520

  5 Mar 08, 06:31

  Originally posted by Jamie Zawinski:

  did she grope your penis now and then? if not then forget it

  
  Then, congrat, as you have plenty of prostitutes girlfriends in greylang. I am sure they can't wait to grope your penis (for a price, of course)!

• 333225520

  5 Mar 08, 06:33

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Aiyo, u poor eyesight, go choose a better looking one lah.

  
  Girlfriend need not be nice looking (but not too ugly too)...  What's important is to find someone which you can spend the rest of your life with.

• 333225520

  5 Mar 08, 06:39

  Originally posted by Maith:

  how u noe she dont like u? Btw..u said u just noticed her...so my advice is that ask her out a few times first before telling her what u feel..or she will be scare away if u straight away go tell her u like her

  We are colleague and friend for a few years... I guess is feeling develop as time goes.

  But I think it's a little too obvious to ask her out without scaring her. It is kind of weird to suddenly ask a girl out. It's very obvious you are wooing her...

  It is easy to woo a girl you don't know well you like her as you have nothing much to lose if she reject you. But to woo your colleague, thing can go very awkward if it don't turn out well since we still have to work together everyday...