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I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.
Any idea to find out?

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OK TS,
I pose u this question.
If u play a netball game with a group of gals, then everytime dun know why she will sort of end up teaming with u. AND she will ask me questions like where is the drink stall, aren't u playing anymore, u want to play etc.... BUT i choose to reply her casually like It's over there, nope i not playing, thanks u can carry on etc....
If u are in my shoes, u think the gal likes me or is she trying to be my fren?
My answer to u is she is trying to be my fren i think. Y? Cos i never know what the hell gals are thinking these days, so i prefer to think otherwise.
If u like her, the main thing is sincerity. Prove to her that u are sincere to date her and make her ur gf.
Just my 2 cents
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Originally posted by 333225520:
I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.
Any idea to find out?

if you don't even have the balls to tell her you like her, you definitely don't have the balls to get laid ......
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Originally posted by Fatum:
if you don't even have the balls to tell her you like her, you definitely don't have the balls to get laid ......
Well, thanks for your advice. But maybe you can post the same reply to the rest of the 10,000 topics in this forum. If it is that easy to just tell a girl you like her, then I think there will not be a single topic in this forum, isn't it?And if she don't feel the same, how are we suppose to work together in the future without feeling awkward?
Edited by 333225520 04 Mar `08, 9:39PM
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Originally posted by 333225520:
I have a colleague whom I know for a few years. She is not pretty and I didn't notice her initially. I grow to like her as I know her better. However, I have no idea how she feel as she treat everyone the same. I don't want to express my feeling without knowing how she feel as it will become very awkward if she don't feel the same.
Any idea to find out?

Simple! Date her out..Ask her out on friday to have a simple meal after a hectic of work! U need plenty of communication to find out whether she has mutial feeling towards u.
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Originally posted by smartboy4:
you ask this kind of question but give this quantity of information.. is the same as wasting space here.
you think all of us can help you picture what is on anyone's mind?
you have not provide the vital statsWhat kind "quantity of information" you need? What I am asking is is there any way to hint to her I like her without being too obvious so that we will not be too awkward if she don't feel the same way.
I am not asking you if she like me or not, perhaps you need to read my post again, else your post is wasting space here.
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Originally posted by Maith:
how u noe she dont like u? Btw..u said u just noticed her...so my advice is that ask her out a few times first before telling her what u feel..or she will be scare away if u straight away go tell her u like her
We are colleague and friend for a few years... I guess is feeling develop as time goes.
But I think it's a little too obvious to ask her out without scaring her. It is kind of weird to suddenly ask a girl out. It's very obvious you are wooing her...
It is easy to woo a girl you don't know well you like her as you have nothing much to lose if she reject you. But to woo your colleague, thing can go very awkward if it don't turn out well since we still have to work together everyday...
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