I'm sorry
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I got to know a friend and also a classmate. We started off as friends and went out tgt on a friend basis. But eventually i liked her. However, eventually i found out that she already has a boyfriend, and he happens to be a good friend of mine. But i couldnt withdraw, i really liked her alot. She did not tell it to me sooner as she wanted to be with me. In other words, i continued to see her even after having found out my good friend was her bf. He found out and condemned the 2 of us. He made things really difficult for both of us. I know its wrong of me. I was reluctant to type this out. I know i would be hated badly even by u guys perhaps. But i really liked her. I know i should have left her once I had found out the truth, but at that time i really can't. She broke up with him and went with me. However, that friend, perhaps no longer, is feeling deep hatred for the 2 of us. I know no1 is gonna give us their blessings. I can understand how my friend feels. The guilt is haunting me, I am so disturbed by everything. But i really like her. I wouldnt give her up to ease my guilt. But i can't stand this guilt any longer. I know i deserve it, but why can't i juz love this girl i like and who likes me. Please give me advise. I'm sorry that some of u might hate me for this.
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That girl is really fickle.
You lost a good friend. Don't you worry if the same thing would happen to you?
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a clone i see... wat goes around comes around...
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hey.. i need some advise.. not nonsense from u saying i have a clone or something.. at least the previous guy gave something constructive
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Originally posted by >hokeypokey<:
hey.. i need some advise.. not nonsense from u saying i have a clone or something.. at least the previous guy gave something constructive
wat sort of advise u expect after wat u did huh? u dare to steal gf then face it wif all the consequence... -
i thank you for that advise.. Actually, i feel really bad as well.. But how come i just cant be happy with the one i like? why are things not that simple?
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Rice is already become porridge.
But u betrayed your best friend. That one will not leave you till u die.
U prefer to lose your best fren instead of your gal.. To me, thats just pathetic. Many gals out there but best fren dont come that often.
Sory to say. I despise u.
U will regret your whole life for choosing love instead of friendship. Dont blame anyone but yourself if your gal likes other guy next time.
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My advice to u is just move on.
Just dont repeat the same kind of mistake in future.
And dont expect your best fren will forgive u forever.
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thank you. i wouldnt dare to ask for forgiveness. All i ask is that my friend can remain positive in his future endeavours. I have realised my mistake and i promise not to do it again. I sincerely thank you for your advice.
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Anara'nel belore!
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u love tht girl,tht girl loves u. Nothing can stop u both. Stop feeling bad or guilty cause u both chose this choice together. If being together will lose u a friend,then by all means lose it.They are just jealous of u being happier than them
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promise not to do it again? your words are worth nothing considering you stole your best friend's girl friend. You and her deserve each other. What goes around will come around, when it comes back and bite you in the arse than you will understand what your ex best friend is feeling now
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yes... I know i would get punished for it. But all i ask is to be by her side. And he isn't my best friend. Thank you for your views.
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hmm so its ok to steal your good friend's gal eh? Stay by her side by all means like i said you two deserves each other
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what is steal? does it mean to take something that does not belong to others? who does this girl belong to? my friend who gave her a failed relationship? nothing but tears and misery? they quarreled. He slapped her and she cried. I know i will be bitten back, but how can u bear to know of something like this happening to someone u like? is 'stealing' really wrong? I'm sorry if i have offended even more people. I thank you for giving me your points of view. Thank you for letting me understand the hurt i have caused.
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so now its your friend's fault? all you have heard is the girl's point of view but in any relationship that's two sides of the story, stealing in lay man's terms is taking something with out premisson that does not belong to you, i would like to see you justfiy stealing as right
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u cant steal a gf or bf...tht person doesnt belong to anyone
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I have a ex bf who is a friend's ex as well.
It feel awdward.
But as long as you think its worth it and you have no regret just dun let it bother you anymore.
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thank you tier, maith and freebala.. I thank u for your time and advices. I will be prepared to pay the price of stealing. and yes, i felt it was worth it.
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oh if your friend didnt treat her good, then im on your side. no worries.
But if your friend treated her very nice and the gal just dun have the feeling anymore, then i'll be on the opposition side.
Next time plz tell the whole story especially the gals condition with current r/s
Anyway, no worries, a guy who slap a gal is not a good guy, Good work of yours saving your gal without any more misery, You should be proud cuz u both love each other and u know u wont treat her like her ex treated her..
So.. dont feel guilty... u did the right thing.
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Hello, singapore only got one gal hor.
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In the 1st place, you should have some integrity in yourself when you know that the girl that you liked is attached to your good friend. It is a matter of principle, not a matter of what you like.
You had a choice in the 1st place but chose otherwise. You are just inviting for a lashing session and a great discount to your character. Simply just have no words for you.
As for your present r/s, I hope you will cherish your "ill-gotten" and not hurt another soul that is your current g/f. Just beware somethings will come around and hope that you will remember what you had started. What goes round, will come round - just be prepared.
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fighting for ur own love is no wrong
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Steal from others, people also will steal from you
Karma bites back in the end... Even if you dont believe in karma,it will haunt you!
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i think matters of the heart is hard to explain though