once and for all

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 11:09

  I ve been rejected twice

   

  Im sick of rejection and I want to know all the reasons why would a guy reject a girl after her confession

  In this way, i dont have to spend time and tears figuring why i am rejected and could use the possible reasons for self-improvement

• MidnightK

  10 Mar 08, 11:15

  it's not like you confess and he have to accept you, doesnt work that way..

   

• maurizio13

  10 Mar 08, 11:19

  love is a 2 way street.

• maurizio13

  10 Mar 08, 11:22

  sometimes better to remain as friends and let the relationship blossom

   

  if he has special feelings for you

   

  you will figure out through his actions

• crimson soldier

  10 Mar 08, 11:23

  no need self-improvement lah.

   

  there's nothing wrong with you. it's just that you haven't met the one yet

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 11:24

  cos every guy i confessed ,rejected me

   

  Now im wondering is that something so wrong with me that results in this?

   

• maurizio13

  10 Mar 08, 11:25

  how long have you known these 2 guys?

   

  2 times only, don't despair

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 11:27

  hm..

   

  first one, i confess after 2 months

  second one, after 1 year

   

  but both got indicated that they like me in the first place  and wanted to be my bf, then i confess de

   

  but after confession, they reject me..

• Y_Shun

  10 Mar 08, 11:27

  hmm u got peekture of u????

• Go

  10 Mar 08, 11:28

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  cos every guy i confessed ,rejected me

   

  Now im wondering is that something so wrong with me that results in this?

   

  There is nothing wrong with you.

  It is just that it does not match.

  Take your time.

• MidnightK

  10 Mar 08, 11:28

  looks, personality plays a big part..

  at least to me 

• maurizio13

  10 Mar 08, 11:29

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  hm..

   

  first one, i confess after 2 months

  second one, after 1 year

   

  but both got indicated that they like me in the first place  and wanted to be my bf, then i confess de

   

  but after confession, they reject me..

   

  how old are you?

   

• Zarks

  10 Mar 08, 11:30

  no feeling ma reject la..

   

  why so hard to understand???

   

  u become like this sure become low confidence already,,, and this will eat u up all day.. sigh, are u that desperate ??

   

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 11:47

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  hm..

   

  first one, i confess after 2 months

  second one, after 1 year

   

  but both got indicated that they like me in the first place  and wanted to be my bf, then i confess de

   

  but after confession, they reject me..

  
  How did they indicate to you?  what and how did they say?

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 11:49

  they say just be friends lor

  they got say like me and want to be my bf before...

   

• jojobeach

  10 Mar 08, 11:52

  Could be your approach lah.

• blu_sky

  10 Mar 08, 11:52

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  they say just be friends lor

  they got say like me and want to be my bf before...

   

  
  i mean how did they tell you that they like you?  what circumstances and how did you react?

• vitamin P

  10 Mar 08, 11:57

  via msn

• jojobeach

  10 Mar 08, 12:00

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  hm..

   

  first one, i confess after 2 months

  second one, after 1 year

   

  but both got indicated that they like me in the first place  and wanted to be my bf, then i confess de

   

  but after confession, they reject me..

  Girl, then learn how to play the game.

  Don't confess... if they like you.. let them do the chasing... no need to confess your feelings.. just hint hint...nothing specific.

   

• Hello Kitty

  10 Mar 08, 12:01

  u ok anot.

  u ger leh.

• mancha

  10 Mar 08, 12:21

  I think you are living out a dream. You are eager for a relationship. That's why when you are in a slight relationship, or a hint of a relationship, you confess, and scare that fella off. Your desperation can be noticed.

  What can you do?

  Realise what you are. Do not be hungering for a relationship. Realise that getting stuck an unsatisfactory relationship will bring more misery than joy. Be thankful that the two guys have left you. The nerds will not will not leave you but stick with you and ruin your life.

  There are many guys out there, the majority of them are not suitable for you, only a handful are. You gotta be selective. Be ready to dump them too, if you find any not suitable later. Do not latch on to anyone that comes along.

  Give considerable care in selecting partner.

• crimson soldier

  10 Mar 08, 12:57

  Originally posted by vitamin P:

  I ve been rejected twice

   

  Im sick of rejection and I want to know all the reasons why would a guy reject a girl after her confession

  In this way, i dont have to spend time and tears figuring why i am rejected and could use the possible reasons for self-improvement

  self-improvement and changing yourself?

   

  so that you can put on an act in front of others?

  there's no need to market yourself or impress anyone lah. If your future bf dont like you for who you are it's gonna be hell for you.

  at the same time, see people for who they are and through the bullshit they do so you wont find yourself confessing so often haha.

  no need to rush yourself into a r/s. I spent 20 years as single(even when my younger cousins and all my friends change gf/bf like underwear and tease me) and when the time come its natural : )

• Zarks

  10 Mar 08, 13:36

  ya la ya la..

• curryman

  10 Mar 08, 13:56

  congratz

• seotiblizzard

  10 Mar 08, 14:00

  Haix.