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Originally posted by vitamin P:
hm..
first one, i confess after 2 months
second one, after 1 year
but both got indicated that they like me in the first place and wanted to be my bf, then i confess de
but after confession, they reject me..
Girl, then learn how to play the game.
Don't confess... if they like you.. let them do the chasing... no need to confess your feelings.. just hint hint...nothing specific.
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I think you are living out a dream. You are eager for a relationship. That's why when you are in a slight relationship, or a hint of a relationship, you confess, and scare that fella off. Your desperation can be noticed.
What can you do?
Realise what you are. Do not be hungering for a relationship. Realise that getting stuck an unsatisfactory relationship will bring more misery than joy. Be thankful that the two guys have left you. The nerds will not will not leave you but stick with you and ruin your life.
There are many guys out there, the majority of them are not suitable for you, only a handful are. You gotta be selective. Be ready to dump them too, if you find any not suitable later. Do not latch on to anyone that comes along.
Give considerable care in selecting partner.
Edited by mancha 10 Mar `08, 12:34PM
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Originally posted by vitamin P:
I ve been rejected twice
Im sick of rejection and I want to know all the reasons why would a guy reject a girl after her confession
In this way, i dont have to spend time and tears figuring why i am rejected and could use the possible reasons for self-improvement
self-improvement and changing yourself?
so that you can put on an act in front of others?
there's no need to market yourself or impress anyone lah. If your future bf dont like you for who you are it's gonna be hell for you.
at the same time, see people for who they are and through the bullshit they do so you wont find yourself confessing so often haha.
no need to rush yourself into a r/s. I spent 20 years as single(even when my younger cousins and all my friends change gf/bf like underwear and tease me) and when the time come its natural : )
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