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Hi.pls help if possible
In school,i like this one gal.She told mi she liked mi before and i was like YAY..She gave mi alot of promises,Like 21 years old she wan to be my wife.We start to hangout in school.More of a puppy love.We were sec4 at that time.
About 2 weeks later, She told mi she had to concentrate for her Ns lvl and ask mi to give her time.I did wad she told mi.
2 months after Ns level, she told mi she had to concentrate for her Os level and ask mi give her time.i was reluctant but give in again.After Os level, i tried to hint her about it. She act blurred.Jus recently i msg her and ask her directly,the message is 'do u still liked me?' she reply,'sry to tell you that,the feel for you is no longer there'.i was like WTF~All the promises were broken just by that 1 sentences.i started to lose faith on r/s.i m emo-ing all the time.
can anyone help mi to forget her.(practical and fastest way).
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Originally posted by ben10:
Hi.pls help if possible
In school,i like this one gal.She told mi she liked mi before and i was like YAY..She gave mi alot of promises,Like 21 years old she wan to be my wife.We start to hangout in school.More of a puppy love.We were sec4 at that time.
About 2 weeks later, She told mi she had to concentrate for her Ns lvl and ask mi to give her time.I did wad she told mi.
2 months after Ns level, she told mi she had to concentrate for her Os level and ask mi give her time.i was reluctant but give in again.After Os level, i tried to hint her about it. She act blurred.Jus recently i msg her and ask her directly,the message is 'do u still liked me?' she reply,'sry to tell you that,the feel for you is no longer there'.i was like WTF~All the promises were broken just by that 1 sentences.i started to lose faith on r/s.i m emo-ing all the time.
can anyone help mi to forget her.(practical and fastest way).
Dear ben10,
In the 1st place don't you think that the both of you are being impractical and immature to be seriously contemplating a r/s that will lead to marriage. In all, if you can look at a different angle, don't you think that it is too early for the both of you?
What do you think is your current responsibility? Studies? Learining about yourself and loving every minute of it? Build up your character? Plan your academic path? Aim for your career? What about responsibilties to your parents? They cannot be supporting you all the way, you know? Look around you, what do you think you need if you were going to start a family with her at the age of 21? (Had she not broke off with you.)
I hope that you will drop the idea of a r/s and/or brood over this episode and concentrate on what I have mentioned above. Making your parents happy would be tough enough and preoccupy you for now.
Just my 2 cents worth.
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That kind of situation is kind of normal. You can't expect much just from that few sentences. Both of you are still young at that time, and it's kind of early to say get married, etc.
Besides I think you're taking it as if r/s is your priority right now, which shouldn't be. Lastly, just one setback, and you're losing faith in relationships?
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