what do u do if someone u like is with another guy ! ... but she seem unhappy with the person ? ..
but when she break ... i don wanna be the rebound guy .. so any idea of getting her without being the rebound guy ^^ ~~~
be the rebound guy.
beat up the another guy and go jail
Then when she break she come to you , u let go her there nt rebound kia ler ^^
be rebound first, then slowly bound her in, and later made her strictly out of bound to all guys, solely bound for you only.
haha hhmm i don noe guys ... now ppl are saying im becoming the rebound guy ... she very close to me now >..< haiz
as her rebound guy, she's likely to become closer to you.
what you do after that, its up to you
hmm i hope she just don see me as a rebound guy ... some gurls tend to behave like that ... im having mixed feelings cause i noe her bf ... so which should i choose
? gain a gurl or lose a fren ( the problem is that maybe the guy will tell my other fren i steal his gurl ) ... u noe men egos ...
First of all, you are aware that she has just broke off a r/s and I am sure from the look of things she is actually in a rather unstable emotional state. You are now her shoulder both to lean and cry on. But that doesn't mean that you should take it that she is committing another r/s with. I think to accept anything from her at face value here and now is really asking for touble.
What is it to you if you're the rebound guy to you eventually? I just hope that your perspective of love would be one of unconditional type here. This is not a business venture where you can anticipate returns and if you are so mindful about that, then I am sorry to say that you have not reached a certain maturity and understanding of the term unconditional love.
Just my 2 cents worth here.
Originally posted by Shazzter:haha hhmm i don noe guys ... now ppl are saying im becoming the rebound guy ... she very close to me now >..< haiz
u second hand good mah
well aremis , the way u talk is like ur some kind of pro about love ( don mind me saying ) .. but first she have not broken off yet ...
and duh ... love ... u don noe what to expect ... im here asking for tips on how to avoid being a rebound guy ... cause rebound guy don get attach for too long ... (maybe im wrong but from what ive seen that happens )
getting a gurl for me is no problem but i kinda grown to like her and she is a close fren ... i might end up being her rebound guy cause of sympathy and i don want that feeling to exist ... i want to love her not to feel sorry for her ... so to avoid this is my question
Love know no boundaries, if you love her there shouldn't be rebound or bound all those stuffs, if u hv that kind of feeling, u are not in love.
what sia?
Originally posted by Shazzter:well aremis , the way u talk is like ur some kind of pro about love ( don mind me saying ) .. but first she have not broken off yet ...
and duh ... love ... u don noe what to expect ... im here asking for tips on how to avoid being a rebound guy ... cause rebound guy don get attach for too long ... (maybe im wrong but from what ive seen that happens )
getting a gurl for me is no problem but i kinda grown to like her and she is a close fren ... i might end up being her rebound guy cause of sympathy and i don want that feeling to exist ... i want to love her not to feel sorry for her ... so to avoid this is my question
shazzter, sorry if my contribution here sounded condescending to you here. I am just stating as a matter of fact from another perspective.
I think sometimes we need to realize that not all outcome can be expected and there is no way to control them as well. As you are aware and would not want sympathy to be the reason here but you and I will know and understand that we cannot really anticipate how the other party may look at it.
IMHO, there is no way to avoid what is to come. If you have accepted her then just be prepared for what is to come from the box. "Life is like a box of chocolates." Does this sound familiar to you?
If she love you more, she will break up with that guy.
You can openly court her then.
If she love you less, she will still continue to be with that guy.
Why fall in love with someone who don't love you as much?
Originally posted by aremeis:shazzter, sorry if my contribution here sounded condescending to you here. I am just stating as a matter of fact from another perspective.
I think sometimes we need to realize that not all outcome can be expected and there is no way to control them as well. As you are aware and would not want sympathy to be the reason here but you and I will know and understand that we cannot really anticipate how the other party may look at it.
IMHO, there is no way to avoid what is to come. If you have accepted her then just be prepared for what is to come from the box. "Life is like a box of chocolates." Does this sound familiar to you?
i understand what u mean .... i guess im getting confuse myself as for what to happen .... been hearing words from my fren .... but in the end i guess its really up to me ....
and about the box of chocolate ... yeah heard to many times
i guess im too jugdemental ...
anyway thanks for ur contribution of thoughts ^^
i think i kinda like this forum ^^
you shoud smack that
punch dat fellow in the face
then u go home and cry
kick that fellow below balls, then run back home feeling happy