My stupid way of thinkin replied by rainhawk87 @ Sun, 16 Mar 2008 00:19:18 +0800

rainhawk87 — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 00:19:18 +0800

zHuBa0bA087 suggest there may be impend there is a 3rd party involve?

My stupid way of thinkin replied by zHuBa0bA087 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 18:33:13 +0800

zHuBa0bA087 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 18:33:13 +0800

I think as a Boyfriend, you are making the effort into this relationship. But take this chance to evaluate her. If she kept giving ou the excuses that her Handphone is low bat, then I guess its better to have a talk with her because she might be doing something that you might never expect.

My stupid way of thinkin replied by browniebaobao @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 17:56:24 +0800

browniebaobao — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 17:56:24 +0800

sorry, but i juz find this funny..

din u ask who's her fren?

din u ask her to give u a call first thing when she reach home?

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Lost_Drift @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 16:37:06 +0800

Lost_Drift — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 16:37:06 +0800

Oh my gosh..

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Lorry` @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 15:47:56 +0800

Lorry` — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 15:47:56 +0800

the 'u hurt me alot i wont forgive u' part is because u pushed her huh?

anyway, you shouldnt wake ur dad up and made him drive around lookin for your girl!

should have settle yourself ma.... no spare cash how come

i think shes irresponsible here and childish.... tsk.

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Alucard101 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:00:50 +0800

Alucard101 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:00:50 +0800

Birds of same feather flock together.Who asked u to think in one of the many possibilities and reaffirm it?

u can't blame ur frnd alone.

My stupid way of thinkin replied by purpledragon84 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 11:59:38 +0800

purpledragon84 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 11:59:38 +0800

ur intentions were right, but ur way of handling the situation was wrong..

feeling worried for ur gf is one thing, but summoning ur parents was uncalled for.. if u din have money for cab, borrow from ur dad and let the poor man go back to his slp.. return him some other day.. 20yr old im sure u can repay him cab fare easily..

after dat u saw ur gf, u shud be relieved that she is unhurt, nth happen, u can go hm and slp peacefully wat.. y u angry for..? unless u mean at the end of all the fuss u wanna justify it by seeing that she was really hurt/harmed? cannot be right?

(possible) solns: apologize to her regarding the hand-pushing thingy.. but let her know that u were damn worried and her family was worried too.. den listen to what she feels regarding ur hand-pushing and see how she justifies it.. if she is really really pissed off, say sorry lo.. LLST.. u want gf de wat.. not army-issued one.. 女人就是得用哄的...

preventive measures: get a driving license..=)

My stupid way of thinkin replied by magical_wen @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:53:55 +0800

magical_wen — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:53:55 +0800

Originally posted by angel7030:

wha! older than me lor..kor kor

guai...

kor kor buy u sweets...

u how old

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Scania L113 lover @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:51:16 +0800

Scania L113 lover — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:51:16 +0800

Lame lor...

My stupid way of thinkin replied by angel7030 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:51:12 +0800

angel7030 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:51:12 +0800

Originally posted by magical_wen:

i 20 this year (:

wha! older than me lor..kor kor

My stupid way of thinkin replied by magical_wen @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:47:04 +0800

magical_wen — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:47:04 +0800

Originally posted by rlsh07:

i think she should learn to be more responsible though. but that's just my view. how old are you by the way ?

i 20 this year (:

My stupid way of thinkin replied by dcx @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:52:02 +0800

dcx — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 09:52:02 +0800

Tell her the story & say that you're disappointed to receive such irresponsible reply....

Most prob. eating out....

Normally, when guys or girls "eat" outside, will most prob. send a sms to their bf/gf/husband/wife that their hp no batt then after they off their hp & go happily "eating"....

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Ed11790 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 08:08:02 +0800

Ed11790 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 08:08:02 +0800

u good guy….worrying is good…..she just dont understand….

My stupid way of thinkin replied by cApitaland @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 04:03:17 +0800

cApitaland — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 04:03:17 +0800

Originally posted by rlsh07:

but can go missing though

heheheh

My stupid way of thinkin replied by rlsh07 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:47:08 +0800

rlsh07 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:47:08 +0800

Originally posted by gigabyte14:

nobody will die in singapore 1 la

but can go missing though

My stupid way of thinkin replied by gigabyte14 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:46:05 +0800

gigabyte14 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:46:05 +0800

nobody will die in singapore 1 la

My stupid way of thinkin replied by rlsh07 @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:34:15 +0800

rlsh07 — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:34:15 +0800

Originally posted by magical_wen:

my gf was at her fren house yst night.

as her phone running no batt,

she msg me at around 10.10pm and said she going home soon,

and will call me when reaches home.

her house is jus near-by.

THEN

i waited until 11.30pm.

no news.

knn...damn scared if anything happen to her lar!!

then her sis called me and ask whether she's with me...wth

i wait till 11.45.

no news.

knn WHO WILL NID 1HOUR 30MIN to travel within cck!

then i heard dat her mother was downstairs looking for her.

i woke my father up and told him maybe smth happened to her (as ive no spare cash to take cab)

and he drove me from kallang to cck.

in the end??

i reached and at 12.10 she called and said

"sorry, phone no batt"

WTF!!

so angry lar!!

and when she tried to pull my hand i pushed her away gently in anger.

then when i reached home my mother kbkp even throw chair at me say becos of a ger i nid to disturb the whole family at midnight.

WTF!!! and she msg me say

"u hurt me alot, i wun forgive u!"

...............

si bei sian :'(

i think she should learn to be more responsible though. but that's just my view. how old are you by the way ?

My stupid way of thinkin replied by mancha @ Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:31:15 +0800

mancha — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 03:31:15 +0800

Wait a while lah, when things cool down, it will be alright. But you must be the one to call her first. Don’t be too proud, and insist she be the one to call you.

My stupid way of thinkin replied by xavier1979 @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 22:18:23 +0800

xavier1979 — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 22:18:23 +0800

Wahahaha... Pardon me, but I think you're just so unlucky, though your intention was good.

You did the RIGHT thing as a bf. Cheer up!

My stupid way of thinkin replied by FYLBA @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 18:16:31 +0800

FYLBA — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 18:16:31 +0800

you damn stupid...

My stupid way of thinkin replied by angel7030 @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:59:44 +0800

angel7030 — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:59:44 +0800

Change gf lor, i can recommend u.

My stupid way of thinkin replied by Shazzter @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:54:58 +0800

Shazzter — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:54:58 +0800

Buy a beer ... and hang with ur frens ... and chill XD maybe she got something to do xD so u do ur own stuff sometimes without tell her XD

Chill

My stupid way of thinkin replied by annoy-you-must @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:51:37 +0800

annoy-you-must — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 17:51:37 +0800

My goodness, another couple quarrelling because of lame reasons again. Aren't you suppose to be glad that nothing bad happened to your gf? Her handphone no batt also not her fault mah...

My stupid way of thinkin replied by gunner77 @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 16:12:43 +0800

gunner77 — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 16:12:43 +0800

who ask u to tink so much ?

My stupid way of thinkin replied by aremeis @ Fri, 14 Mar 2008 16:11:29 +0800

aremeis — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 16:11:29 +0800

I think she is utterly irresponsible here. Did you forget to mention to her that her family members had called you in the 1st place? Not once but twice? Also, not forgetting the fact that you had your dad accompanying you all the way to CCK, and all she did come up with is a totally lame and irresponsible excuse that her cell is out of cell waves??!!

Where is her sense of responsibility to her family members? LOL What age are we living in now? As if her friend's place does not have a phone and that she is in some remote forsaken place. I felt that she had really taken things for granted.

Now, having said that I understand your end of the story and I do stand for you. But anger cannot resolve issues here and I feel that you should cool down and listen to her side of the story. Let her explain before you let your emotions get the better of you. It could be that she is in a difficult situation and who knows that the phones at the other end is heavily in use. So let's just cool down and let her explain, I can understand why she may say that she is hurt - as she may not be fooling around as what other stereo types might be thinking here.

As you are aware that r/s is a 2 way traffic so perhaps it is time to drop our differences and have a heart in giving the other party a chance to explain.

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