getting her to be my girl replied by jojobeach @ Fri, 28 Mar 2008 05:41:16 +0800

jojobeach — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 05:41:16 +0800

Originally posted by cApitaland:

while waitin for her reply go after other gals.

when she see tht u doin tht she will gan cheong and faster wan be ur gf.

Cappy..

What kinda crappy advise is this ???!!!!

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getting her to be my girl replied by cApitaland @ Fri, 28 Mar 2008 03:06:24 +0800

cApitaland — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 03:06:24 +0800

while waitin for her reply go after other gals.

when she see tht u doin tht she will gan cheong and faster wan be ur gf.

getting her to be my girl replied by val. @ Fri, 28 Mar 2008 02:17:32 +0800

val. — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 02:17:32 +0800

Originally posted by lpx88:

eh update leh!

okok i update. er went out with her to the beach the other day, walked and held her hand along the beach then sat down to see the waves all those at a shady spot. despite not being in a relationship we still like sit down and she'll lie down on my shoulder, but no lip to lip kisses, just pecks on the foreheads and cheek. I think its pretty much there already probably give her a couple of weeks more. haha

getting her to be my girl replied by lpx88 @ Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:36:52 +0800

lpx88 — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:36:52 +0800

Originally posted by val.:

going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

eh update leh!

getting her to be my girl replied by Miss Tiny @ Tue, 25 Mar 2008 16:08:11 +0800

Miss Tiny — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 16:08:11 +0800

Do things that will make her feel so touched until she cannot resist you! Good luck~

getting her to be my girl replied by magical_wen @ Tue, 25 Mar 2008 10:11:15 +0800

magical_wen — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 10:11:15 +0800

Originally posted by val.:

going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

but dun take things too slow kkz..

sometimes, it will backfire

getting her to be my girl replied by val. @ Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:29:09 +0800

val. — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:29:09 +0800

going out with her this week probably on wed to the beach.. go for a stroll hold hands etc. then maybe pop the question. but then like a bit weird to ask her to be my girlfriend. are these things better left unspoken? but then i concur with you all about the taking things slow part. the ride would be more enjoyable if we take things slow. I plan to look hold her hands, look deep in her eyes, fang some dian then ask her while sitting down on a bench or sth. woohoo

getting her to be my girl replied by lpx88 @ Mon, 24 Mar 2008 17:03:23 +0800

lpx88 — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 17:03:23 +0800

Originally posted by Alucard101:

Slow and steady wins the race.

If there's no competitor?

getting her to be my girl replied by magical_wen @ Mon, 24 Mar 2008 16:53:38 +0800

magical_wen — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 16:53:38 +0800

i oso ask by sms...

haha...scared being rejected mah...

so TS, hows the situation liao?

getting her to be my girl replied by Muackiex @ Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:20:08 +0800

Muackiex — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:20:08 +0800

Oh.. another thing is that try not to ask through sms or msn.. asking through phone is also not a very good choice. not very successful i think.. out of 10 times, 7 times failed.. (I think so).. you can bring her out for a dinner or go to the beach and ask her to be your gf.. isn't it much better? since you know she likes you already, i guess she wont reject u too straight right. You can also see her expression and how she reacts... how nice, fun also right.. you can see how she blush..

my bf asked me to be his gf in the cinema.. not a very romantic place but i think its much more better than msn or sms..

getting her to be my girl replied by Muackiex @ Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:11:15 +0800

Muackiex — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:11:15 +0800

yeah.. dont so fast.. no point rushing.. she has already let u hold her hands, so just wait for afew more weeks or so. =D

getting her to be my girl replied by onlooker123 @ Sun, 23 Mar 2008 16:46:15 +0800

onlooker123 — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 16:46:15 +0800

terribly terribly unromantic to ask over sms.

buy her flowers, ask her face to face.

getting her to be my girl replied by stellazio @ Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:18:47 +0800

stellazio — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:18:47 +0800

you already holding her hands, just wait ahwile more la.. you too eager to kiss her is it? both of you like each otehr already so take it naturally la.

getting her to be my girl replied by Maith @ Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:06:52 +0800

Maith — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:06:52 +0800

i've been with my gf for 4 months before asking her to be my gf,and we also held hands before that. U're on the right track buddy,just dont rush. Haha and i asked her through sms..i shy la..but she agreed anyway :D

getting her to be my girl replied by j_dsowner @ Sat, 22 Mar 2008 23:02:59 +0800

j_dsowner — Sat, 22 Mar 2008 23:02:59 +0800

Listen to s.h.e Chu Dian song and u'll get what she means. it will truely be a very sweet experience for both of you.

getting her to be my girl replied by Xerxas @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:50:10 +0800

Xerxas — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 14:50:10 +0800

its better if both of u spend more time knowing and understanding each other better. afterall shes someone u picked up at your workplace, and who will reveal their ugly side within the first month of courtship? just like you, did you tell her about your bad points/habits etc? the same goes for her.. dont hurry into a courtship, find out shes actually not what you think she is.. and break up. by then the damage would already have been done.

getting her to be my girl replied by thehappybunny @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:31:38 +0800

thehappybunny — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:31:38 +0800

sometimes i feel really envious of couples who get together within mere days or a week of knowing each other.

some people do not have that kind of luck.

getting her to be my girl replied by _Justice_ @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:28:47 +0800

_Justice_ — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 12:28:47 +0800

hais...i experienced this exact same thing before...its very "arggh!!!!"...when u tot u r almost there she leaves u...

i also less than a mth n waited for a yr n asked..but was said tat she nt prepared yet..then 2yrs then i asked again..she rejected me...hais...

getting her to be my girl replied by FBI @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 07:12:33 +0800

FBI — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 07:12:33 +0800

since u 2 both held hands, i think its easier from now on.

getting her to be my girl replied by Alucard101 @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 05:34:15 +0800

Alucard101 — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 05:34:15 +0800

Slow and steady wins the race.

getting her to be my girl replied by val. @ Wed, 19 Mar 2008 00:07:42 +0800

val. — Wed, 19 Mar 2008 00:07:42 +0800

thanks for all the advices.. im bringing her out to east coast park soon. probably next week. havent contacted her for a few days already haha..

getting her to be my girl replied by thehappybunny @ Tue, 18 Mar 2008 23:45:57 +0800

thehappybunny — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 23:45:57 +0800

Originally posted by Chyeo1979:

Thought holding hands is already a confirmation to a relationship... no?

thats not always the case.

getting her to be my girl replied by Chyeo1979 @ Tue, 18 Mar 2008 23:44:57 +0800

Chyeo1979 — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 23:44:57 +0800

Thought holding hands is already a confirmation to a relationship... no?

getting her to be my girl replied by IamDavid @ Tue, 18 Mar 2008 17:00:15 +0800

IamDavid — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 17:00:15 +0800

Go slow don't rush :)

getting her to be my girl replied by Karma88 @ Tue, 18 Mar 2008 13:08:35 +0800

Karma88 — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 13:08:35 +0800

Just give her some more time lar duh.

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