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  • Quinsy's Avatar
    9,221 posts since Sep '04
    • If your child was dating a boy/girl of a different skin color.

      let’s say if the boy is Indian skinned, but more Chinese than Indian as he’s mixed blooded, would you judge him by his skin color?

      Or would you bother to find out more before discriminating?

      True, SG is multi racial, but that doesn’t mean traditional parents would still react strongly against differently colored people.

      Your Opinions would be greatly appreciated.

      Thanks.

  • Ed11790's Avatar
    986 posts since Feb '08
    • i hate those racist people but i must admit i would judge the person by their skin first…....even though there are certain races i dont like but i find that not all of them are bad

  • cApitaland's Avatar
    4,233 posts since Sep '05
    • no i wud nt do so since i unfortunately feel as though ive been on the recieving end of those racists remarks.

  • Yuki~!'s Avatar
    1,895 posts since Jan '08
    • It's love. *shurgs* What to do?
      But honestly, I think most parents are traditional & will say no to the r/s.

  • Ed11790's Avatar
    986 posts since Feb '08
    • most parents are from like the 1950s and at that time there was more racism so im guessing most parents nowadays are still racist

  • Quinsy's Avatar
    9,221 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by Ed11790:

      most parents are from like the 1950s and at that time there was more racism so im guessing most parents nowadays are still racist


      though I've met parents who were more acceptable to such stuff, I guess most parents are still generally racist. *sigh*

       

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    Kuali Baba's Avatar
    16,368 posts since Nov '03
    • I'm not a parent, but I wouldn't discriminate. People should not be judged by the colour of their skin but by the content of their character. (Brownie points if you know what was paraphrased there).

  • Ed11790's Avatar
    986 posts since Feb '08
    • maybe after this generation of people we wont be racists anymore…..........but i remember one of my teachers in chool said that racism will never end

  • Quinsy's Avatar
    9,221 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by Ed11790:

      maybe after this generation of people we wont be racists anymore…..........but i remember one of my teachers in chool said that racism will never end


      My parents said that racism will never end too. I guess its due to the kind of people of different color that they've seen in their life or the imbedded racism that was told to them since young.

  • soleachip's Avatar
    5,474 posts since Jun '07
    • Nope. In this day and age, color is no longer an issue. Tasmanian or Chilean also no problem. Most important factor is they're in love.

      And the fellow has his head screwed on the right places, his heart in the right places and a good sense of self worth, integrity.

      Heh, but that's just me. thumbs_up.png

  • onlooker123's Avatar
    323 posts since Jan '08
    • We try hard not to discriminate but deep-down inside there is always this uneasy feeling.

  • Paradise Lost's Avatar
    270 posts since Jun '07
    • Racism will never end simply because people will never stop stereotyping. It is through stereotyping that we form our prejudices and racism is the most extreme form of prejudice.

      Thus the only question to be asked here is to what methods can we limit such prejudice attitudes and thus promote tolerance.

      Edited by Paradise Lost 23 Mar `08, 4:47PM
  • Quinsy's Avatar
    9,221 posts since Sep '04
    • Originally posted by Paradise Lost:

      Racism will never end simply because people will never stop stereotyping. It is through stereotyping that we form our prejudices and racism is the most extreme form of prejudice.

      Thus the only question to be asked here is to what methods can we limit such prejudice attitudes and thus promote tolerance.


      HOW?

  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
  • Alucard101's Avatar
    405 posts since Aug '07
    • Racism is in the blood.U can cover it by a smile,but it's deep inside like an animal instinct and the real cause of it is hate.And trying to belong to a group.

  • MohamedF's Avatar
    4,020 posts since May '06
  • Short Ninja's Avatar
    4,331 posts since Jan '07
    • I wouldnt discriminate but would still warn my children (they are mixed blood) that there could be obstacles and people into interacial marriages would have to work harder than usual to make their marriage work.

  • Paradise Lost's Avatar
    270 posts since Jun '07
    • Originally posted by Quinsy:


      HOW?

      Busting stereotypes would be the key, definitely. But for the traditional parents of the respective parties to leave their streotypes at the door, the couple would really create a lasting impression if the different languages of their respective parties are learnt.

      For example, consider an indian and chinese pairing. The indian could learn how to speak mandarin whereas the chinese could learn how to speak in tamil. That would definitely eliminate some stereotypes associated with both parties.

  • caleb_chiang's Avatar
    6,889 posts since Jul '05
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    popikachu's Avatar
    13,158 posts since Dec '06
    • I wouldn't discriminate...

      IMO, race isn't a problem in between love...
      but the religious that is the problem...

  • 798's Avatar
    28,806 posts since Jun '03
    • call me selfish or racist, i will definitely not wanting my kids to marry someone wif diff race.

  • foxwalk's Avatar
    2,910 posts since Sep '04
    • What is meant by "indian skinned"? do you know indians come in different colours? and for god sakes' not all indians speak tamil.

  • Agenda's Avatar
    6,074 posts since Jan '06
    • If true love nvm, if my daughter dates a angmoh, i would try to break them up.. cause i scared she is a SPG

  • aiglosicicle's Avatar
    1,247 posts since Mar '06
  • ifish's Avatar
    2,142 posts since Dec '06
    • my parents are fine with colour as long as the met with certain conditions..

      this kind of scenario i always have problem with the gal's parent side

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