http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 en-US 60 <p>well it does happen in reality. we have got to be practical. it happens in sch and in the workplace. of course in the workplace it is more prevalent. i wont say everyone is putting one a false front ba. but when it comes to self interests, almost everyone will fend for themselves. there are of course some who are selfless.its up to one to judge for themselves.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>i totally agree with aremeis&nbsp; and wai leng on what&nbsp;they&nbsp;have&nbsp;said. instead of being skeptical,&nbsp;learn to deal with such situations&nbsp;and take&nbsp;them as valuable lessons learnt. after some time, u will be glad to find that u have grown to be a stronger person and deal with ppl ard u better. if one decides to close up becos of past painful experiences, it is only gg to place a strain on future relationships with ppl ard them. one will nvr be happy tt way. i have witnessed frens who are like tt. i myself have become more positive and optimistic over the years and i am happy most of the time without being affected by these issues.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Tue, 01 Apr 2008 13:50:59 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7977802 foodiez http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p class="">U shd be happy that they are wearing mask, else it will be just inhumane and torturous having to both work and looked at their face at the same time.</p> <p class="">U have to realise by now that not all horror shows passes the NG16 censorship if serve raw.</p> Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:37:38 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7977587 EarlNeo http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by rlsh07:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p><br /> humans are not perfect. even the closet of friends will hurt you with their words n actions sometimes.</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>This is the reason, why TS made the topic in the first place. We're absolutely pissed for the past few days.</p> Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:04:36 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7977541 Agenda http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I feel that everyone is putting a false image infront of u...</p> <p>Its like they will backstab&nbsp;u anytime.. Will say things that disappointing anytime.. Every small little things will lead to a quarrel..&nbsp;Having a feeling of betrayal now and then..</p> <p>Suddenly u find urself that u have no one to trust.. Living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> humans are not perfect. even the closet of friends will hurt you with their words n actions sometimes.</p> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 11:44:03 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7973035 rlsh07 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>At least u know backstabbed you rather than u die without knowing anything.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Nobody own u a living ya.</p> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 11:26:37 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972991 angel7030 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>Welcome.</p> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 02:43:10 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972714 purpledragon84 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>sometimes i dun trust myself...haha</p> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 00:15:12 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972341 fairlady_xoxo http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>People wears a mask&nbsp;to protect themselves, to please others, to avoid hurting others. etc.&nbsp;This is&nbsp;life&nbsp;but does not mean we can't&nbsp;create trustworthy relationship with people.&nbsp;There is always patterns and warning signs we can look out for. Keep your eyes open and trust your guts.</p> <p>Even if we&nbsp;have been&nbsp;let down by others, don't forget they are human and it is in their nature to err.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 00:13:42 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972337 ^C ^ http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Lorry`:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>thats why i only trust myself.. in poly it's already like that.. dont say workplace..<br /> just accept it the world is like that. <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/confused.png" alt= "confused.png" /></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> When you've&nbsp;lost faith/confidence in yourself... see if you still&nbsp;can&nbsp;trust yourself anymore... that's a test!!! <img src="/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/devil.png" alt= "devil.png" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:12:12 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972147 Wai Leng http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Ed11790:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>this is life and the that is the truth…..........all humans are selfish beings on this earth and u have to survive on ur own cause no one will really help u…..........................</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> Depends on situation,&nbsp;does it&nbsp;pay to be helpful in the first place, if it doesn't, what for still want to help?</p> <p>At my workplace, my colleagues (guys/men some more), they (store dept)&nbsp;always help me and I (sales dept)&nbsp;always help them... <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/smile.png" alt= "smile.png" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:08:28 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972138 Wai Leng http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>thats why i only trust myself.. in poly it's already like that.. dont say workplace..<br /> just accept it the world is like that. <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/confused.png" alt= "confused.png" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:02:31 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972125 Lorry` http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>I'm still learning to adapt in 'the real world'. <img src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_sad.gif" alt="icon_sad.gif" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:47:17 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972083 TrixCereals http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>working world's frens are not true frens. its only your school mates that are more of a true fren.</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:45:34 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972079 Y_Shun http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>this is life and the that is the truth…..........all humans are selfish beings on this earth and u have to survive on ur own cause no one will really help u…..........................</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:42:12 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7972065 Ed11790 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>When I step into the working world, I got this feeling also... but the grown-up process has mould me into a better and stronger person... I have learnt&nbsp;to have high EQ, stay cool, be careful what I&nbsp;say/do, be humorous, be positive, be forgiven, don't gossip, don't complain.... etc etc etc...</p> <p>Instead of saying putting a false image, why not put it the&nbsp;other way, they've to protect themselves from being hurt/betray/backstab...</p> <p>Feeling backstab/betrayed... forgive but don't forget, take it as a lesson learnt...</p> <p>No one to trust... make sure&nbsp;what you say to someone&nbsp;are of no secret one... which means they can tell to other people one... you've to learn to protect yourself...</p> <p>Good Luck to you!!! <img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/redones/angel.png" alt= "angel.png" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:16:36 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971988 Wai Leng http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>Welcome to the real world.</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 21:42:15 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971922 xavier1979 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>Everyone of us wears a mask. Some wear masks. The world is not a bed of roses.</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 19:39:42 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971682 小白脸 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Dead_Man_Inc:</div> <div class="quote_body"> <p>I feel that everyone is putting a false image infront of u...</p> <p>Its like they will backstab&nbsp;u anytime.. Will say things that disappointing anytime.. Every small little things will lead to a quarrel..&nbsp;Having a feeling of betrayal now and then..</p> <p>Suddenly u find urself that u have no one to trust.. Living in a society where every man is fighting for himself..</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /> this type of situation reminds me&nbsp;of workplace (especially office)</p> <p>haiz <img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_cry.gif" alt= "icon_cry.gif" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 19:31:02 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971672 Phoebie http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>Only a handful of people you know would not backstab you... Try to understand.. even if it was you... you would talk rot of even your bast friend behind their back...</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 19:25:27 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971665 Funass1 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>Trust is a universal struggle. All of us wrestle to some extent with trusting others because of painful experiences with betrayal. When the source of that betrayal is someone close to us, it can be especially devastating.</p> <p>Nowhere is this more true than when a person is betrayed by a family member, close family friend, close friend or some other trusted authority figure. Hence, you are not alone when you cannot help but feel suspicious to even a genuine good intention and deed.</p> <p>However, we ought to treat our past as a lesson and regard that as a history. Histories do not repeat unless we create and commit the same mistake. So just be more careful with your dealings with people at the same time looking after your own interest and well being. I think the saying : "Look before you leap"&nbsp; will be good to remember as you go about your decision trusting people.</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 16:28:31 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971367 aremeis http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>can't be more true, tis a harsh world</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 16:08:00 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971336 rafTiger http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>The only person u can trust is urself.. But sometimes u dun even trust ur own self..</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 12:43:05 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971136 Dead_Man_Inc http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>well, the real world is like a jungle.</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 12:11:20 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971101 798 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>We all grow up thinking the world is&nbsp;an oyster and everything is perfect. Turns out it's actually 'si hum'<img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/teeth.png" alt= "teeth.png" />&nbsp;Oh well, even sometimes oysters can turn out to be spoiled too. And in our modern and materialistic society everyone is for themselves only. It's call 'Survival of the fittest'. You don't backstab people, people backstab you. After some time you eventually will join in the game too just to survive. So welcome to the real world.<img src= "/images/emoticons/kde-3.5.8/KMess-Cartoon/devil.png" alt= "devil.png" /></p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 11:35:34 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7971009 BeautifulBetty http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740 <p>that means you have grown up and realised the truth of the world... congrats!!!</p> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 06:01:49 +0800 sgforums.com:12:312740:7970708 elementalangel http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/312740