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Have heard that one of my male colleague wanted to ask me out for a movie (heard only)... if let say, he really got the guts to ask me out (bcos other male colleagues keep pushing him to do so)... and I agree... but I don't like him one (I like another male colleague)... am I misleading him... or maybe I can take this opportunity to know him better???
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You seem to be answering your own question.
Well, I guess you would be running the risk or misleading him if you accept the date, but then again, as you said it yourself, its an opportunity to get to know him informally.
In addition, you won't know for sure whether the guy you fancy will reciprocate your feelings for him, right?
Since your single, its always better to keep your options open. I say accept if he asks you and enjoy the date!
Edited by Paradise Lost 30 Mar `08, 1:43AM
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Originally posted by Wai Leng:
Have heard that one of my male colleague wanted to ask me out for a movie (heard only)... if let say, he really got the guts to ask me out (bcos other male colleagues keep pushing him to do so)... and I agree... but I don't like him one (I like another male colleague)... am I misleading him... or maybe I can take this opportunity to know him better???
it might mislead but then theres reali nothing wrong giving him a chance... but wats so bad abt him? not ur idea looking hunk look?
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Originally posted by BrUtUs:
it might mislead but then theres reali nothing wrong giving him a chance... but wats so bad abt him? not ur idea looking hunk look?
He's a very nice temper guy... work here 7 mths already, never see him shout at/scold/talk loud to people... I still don't know what's bad about him as we talk very little (I don't know him well)... his look is acceptable to me... (too handsome, I feel insecure)...
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then dun go out for movie if u wanna know him better..U have other alternative = Yamcha 1st.
Goin out for a movie means your giving him a chance to date. If u guys are good friend, its ok. but u guys are stranger. He would say just wanna get to know u better, but then why go movie instead yamcha? Go for movie, u wasting your time watching. If u really wan to know him, then sit down n chat.
Dont mislead the guy. WHy? Cuz hes your collegue. U’ll create bad environment. and Collegue’s couple are not really recommended.
And happy april fool. Perhaps the guy just april-fooling u lol
Edited by Zarks 01 Apr `08, 10:48AM
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U r stressing urself by thinking too much into it. Take it easy, relax and enjoy the show, like u would with any friend. If there is chemistry between both, then let the magic do it thing. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. If not, kindly drop hints along the way with friendship as the intend. Dun be quick to judge or rush into anything.
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I'd just go, it's just a movie!
and an opprtunity to get to know him better like what you've said.
Who knows we might have similar interests.
You dont have to like a person to go out with him/her.
I'd say just go. After the date you can think if your up for the second date next time. (if both of you can click etc)
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