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if u had a very nice n good complexion and everyone knows it.
but one day u have a few pimples on ur face, then ur friends or even close friends will said ‘wah u also have pimples sia’ i dont mind having it but i mind ppl laughing and talking abt it.
then other ppl will talk behind my back saying ‘haha she got sia’ then worst is ppl will approach to u and said ‘whats that?’ then they said yesterday hamster crawl in ur bed bite u ar? they tot i would give such stupid reasons.
and they will point at ur face counting pointing ur here here here or one, two, three.the worst is when they did it in front of so many ppl.
becoz of this i m becoming introvent. less friends coz i dun wan them to laugh or say anything. so i will go out on my own instead of finding friends. and didnt dare to have a bf.
so can anyone teach me how to deal or ans back? i normally will said nobody is perfect or juz smile and walk away. or when im really upset i will said ‘at least im better than u’ but still i will cry thinking abt this i cant let it go.
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wa. ur friends seemed damn childish man.
anyway, pimples is a normal thing to have in ur teenage years ma. i also normally have a good complexion that don't have pimples one. den sometimes when i got pimples rite. damn malu cos it'll be like only one and it's damn big. my friends laugh at me, den i laugh even worst at them when they get it lor. but luckily my friends more understanding than urs. don worry. i'm sure u will meet a more mature friend in time. and rmbr, not only u have pimples. so no nid to be so scared of it. ur friends also have.. who knows! they can have a sudden pimple outbreak far worst than urs next time.
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Find something shortcoming of theirs and lauged doubly hard and long at them like if they have body odor or bad breath say they smell like rats or skunks. Or if they dress dirty or tattered say they are from the beggar clan ah or no money to send clothings to the laundry. Better still if their results are bad - assuming all of you are still studying - laugh at them say why they so stupid when simple exam like that oso bad result. Hurt them back! An eye for an eye ah!
Edited by BeautifulBetty 04 Apr `08, 9:12PM
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Originally posted by colourfulsmile:
if u had a very nice n good complexion and everyone knows it.
but one day u have a few pimples on ur face, then ur friends or even close friends will said ‘wah u also have pimples sia’ i dont mind having it but i mind ppl laughing and talking abt it.
then other ppl will talk behind my back saying ‘haha she got sia’ then worst is ppl will approach to u and said ‘whats that?’ then they said yesterday hamster crawl in ur bed bite u ar? they tot i would give such stupid reasons.
and they will point at ur face counting pointing ur here here here or one, two, three.the worst is when they did it in front of so many ppl.
becoz of this i m becoming introvent. less friends coz i dun wan them to laugh or say anything. so i will go out on my own instead of finding friends. and didnt dare to have a bf.
so can anyone teach me how to deal or ans back? i normally will said nobody is perfect or juz smile and walk away. or when im really upset i will said ‘at least im better than u’ but still i will cry thinking abt this i cant let it go.
Just shrug it off. It's normal for anyone to get teased throughout their teenage years.
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Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
just say "why why jealous ahh u want my pimples ahhh NAA NAA GIB U!!!"
haha. yea. tts the way to go. i did it a lot of times to my frens. so instead of feeling uncomfortable wif ur frens making comments abt it, then make a joke abt it. this will turn ur frens off cos they will then noe that it at least doesnt bother u n wun make the same comments agn. nt 100% ryte oso cos some ppl reli lke to annoy others by reminding u abt ur pimples every single second.
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Originally posted by DarkCrown:
haha. yea. tts the way to go. i did it a lot of times to my frens. so instead of feeling uncomfortable wif ur frens making comments abt it, then make a joke abt it. this will turn ur frens off cos they will then noe that it at least doesnt bother u n wun make the same comments agn. nt 100% ryte oso cos some ppl reli lke to annoy others by reminding u abt ur pimples every single second.
also aiya dont take it too seriously also lohi mean ... its such a small thing la... laugh it off and ownself also don't take it too much to heart lo!
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Ermm. Make a joke out of it? Say something like "Can you tell what constellation I have on my face this week?" You might end up loosening up.
(Seriously, dermatologists have
admitted to attempting to match constellations with the blemishes
on their patients' skin!)Learn to shrug it off... it's just a passing phase. Your friends are just being juvenile. There are lots of adults out there with acne on their face, but they're not afraid to dress up to look attractive (and attract attention) even when all the cosmetics in the world can't cover the zits up.
*pat*
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