how do u all deal wif ppl laughing at ur blemish?
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if u had a very nice n good complexion and everyone knows it. but one day u have a few pimples on ur face, then ur friends or even close friends will said 'wah u also have pimples sia' i dont mind having it but i mind ppl laughing and talking abt it. then other ppl will talk behind my back saying 'haha she got sia' then worst is ppl will approach to u and said 'whats that?' then they said yesterday hamster crawl in ur bed bite u ar? they tot i would give such stupid reasons. and they will point at ur face counting pointing ur here here here or one, two, three.the worst is when they did it in front of so many ppl. becoz of this i m becoming introvent. less friends coz i dun wan them to laugh or say anything. so i will go out on my own instead of finding friends. and didnt dare to have a bf. so can anyone teach me how to deal or ans back? i normally will said nobody is perfect or juz smile and walk away. or when im really upset i will said 'at least im better than u' but still i will cry thinking abt this i cant let it go.
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im proud of my pimples
shows that im still �春 -
fireice got cold and hot pimple
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maybe my thinking is moe to the negative side when i tot im always being positive. and sometimes i even try destroy my blemishes by making it worst. but fireice dun u feel hurtful inside?
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i got no childish bo liao frens like urs.
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is just pimples.. get over it
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looks doesnt really matter.. its just some pimples, not that u have chronic pimples rite? the pimples will get away soon, u just care too much on how ppl think of you.
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if u keep thinking bout all these petty issues nex time come out working society how? how do ya even handle bigger problems
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Jus tell them that u are young and shld have pimples and wats wrong with that?
2nd, cure your pimples.
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just say "why why jealous ahh u want my pimples ahhh NAA NAA GIB U!!!"
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wa. ur friends seemed damn childish man.
anyway, pimples is a normal thing to have in ur teenage years ma. i also normally have a good complexion that don't have pimples one. den sometimes when i got pimples rite. damn malu cos it'll be like only one and it's damn big. my friends laugh at me, den i laugh even worst at them when they get it lor. but luckily my friends more understanding than urs. don worry. i'm sure u will meet a more mature friend in time. and rmbr, not only u have pimples. so no nid to be so scared of it. ur friends also have.. who knows! they can have a sudden pimple outbreak far worst than urs next time.
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you and yr friends are equally childish.
grow up pls.
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say "you got them too dont u?"
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Find something shortcoming of theirs and lauged doubly hard and long at them like if they have body odor or bad breath say they smell like rats or skunks. Or if they dress dirty or tattered say they are from the beggar clan ah or no money to send clothings to the laundry. Better still if their results are bad - assuming all of you are still studying - laugh at them say why they so stupid when simple exam like that oso bad result. Hurt them back! An eye for an eye ah!
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Originally posted by colourfulsmile:
if u had a very nice n good complexion and everyone knows it.
but one day u have a few pimples on ur face, then ur friends or even close friends will said ‘wah u also have pimples sia’ i dont mind having it but i mind ppl laughing and talking abt it.
then other ppl will talk behind my back saying ‘haha she got sia’ then worst is ppl will approach to u and said ‘whats that?’ then they said yesterday hamster crawl in ur bed bite u ar? they tot i would give such stupid reasons.
and they will point at ur face counting pointing ur here here here or one, two, three.the worst is when they did it in front of so many ppl.
becoz of this i m becoming introvent. less friends coz i dun wan them to laugh or say anything. so i will go out on my own instead of finding friends. and didnt dare to have a bf.
so can anyone teach me how to deal or ans back? i normally will said nobody is perfect or juz smile and walk away. or when im really upset i will said ‘at least im better than u’ but still i will cry thinking abt this i cant let it go.
Just shrug it off. It's normal for anyone to get teased throughout their teenage years.
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Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
just say "why why jealous ahh u want my pimples ahhh NAA NAA GIB U!!!"
haha. yea. tts the way to go. i did it a lot of times to my frens. so instead of feeling uncomfortable wif ur frens making comments abt it, then make a joke abt it. this will turn ur frens off cos they will then noe that it at least doesnt bother u n wun make the same comments agn. nt 100% ryte oso cos some ppl reli lke to annoy others by reminding u abt ur pimples every single second. -
Originally posted by DarkCrown:
haha. yea. tts the way to go. i did it a lot of times to my frens. so instead of feeling uncomfortable wif ur frens making comments abt it, then make a joke abt it. this will turn ur frens off cos they will then noe that it at least doesnt bother u n wun make the same comments agn. nt 100% ryte oso cos some ppl reli lke to annoy others by reminding u abt ur pimples every single second.
also aiya dont take it too seriously also lohi mean ... its such a small thing la... laugh it off and ownself also don't take it too much to heart lo!
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Tell them u are selling it,
one for ten bucks.
Dont want buy jsut F off,
No money no talk .
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It's part of growing up.
Tag along with ur mom for facial sessions?
=]
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all in ur state of mind
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laugh together with them.
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Ermm. Make a joke out of it? Say something like "Can you tell what constellation I have on my face this week?" You might end up loosening up.
(Seriously, dermatologists have admitted to attempting to match constellations with the blemishes on their patients' skin!)Learn to shrug it off... it's just a passing phase. Your friends are just being juvenile. There are lots of adults out there with acne on their face, but they're not afraid to dress up to look attractive (and attract attention) even when all the cosmetics in the world can't cover the zits up.
*pat*
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erm it's just pimples no big deal?
"whats that?" pimples la!
"my baby keeps kissin me day and night now i got pimples, even on my neck" make a joke, whatever. laugh togetherpimples shouldnt get in ur way in making friends and hooking guys. whatsmore, everyone has got pimples.
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Say "I got pimples on my face also look better than ur face 'cos u r too ugly"
See wad else ur friend has to say.
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For a moment I thought that TS's friends are still in primary school. Ts, don't let these little things affect your confidence. There are more important things to worry about than being laughed at.
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dont be too bothered by them. when they count yrs, start counting theirs too and laugh about it la. or change it into a casual friendly topic like when and hw often u get pimples etc, wad brand of pimple cream u use. etc