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its perfectly all right to me, cos i din have any quarrels with my ex for years. but we broke up in the end.
some pple said that to have arguements and quarrels in a relationship is healthy as it helps to understand your partner better. i dont really agree with it though. so depends alot on your level of tolerance and mutual understanding.
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friction is bound to arise, but it depends on the character of both.
if both are headstrong and stubborn, quarrels will be quite frequent and the r/s is less likely to last
that's why in the long run, especially if you look at succuessful marriages, there will always be one of the spouse who is more more submissive and accomodating.
friction is bound to arise in a r/s, and it can be as quickly cooled down as long as someone is willing to give in
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friction is bound to arise, but it depends on the character of both.
if both are headstrong and stubborn, quarrels will be quite frequent and the r/s is less likely to last
that's why in the long run, especially if you look at succuessful marriages, there will always be one of the spouse who is more more submissive and accomodating.
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Originally posted by casshern:
its perfectly all right to me, cos i din have any quarrels with my ex for years. but we broke up in the end.
some pple said that to have arguements and quarrels in a relationship is healthy as it helps to understand your partner better. i dont really agree with it though. so depends alot on your level of tolerance and mutual understanding.
I think otherwise though, being in a quarrelsome relationship, there are some things that you will only know/learn from a quarrel.Your spouse might splurt out what she feels but does not wish to say before because she knows it'll hurt you. For example your bad habits or the things you do that she does not like. But in some cases, by hurting you, you learn some of the things that will improve your relationship and understanding of your spouses' needs/wants.
Oh, I didn't quarrel with my girlfriend for the first 4 months then it got quarrelsome due to our differences both character-wise as well as thinking. There's not much to do except to keep an open mind about his/her thinking and blend it with yours, and logically equate it. In a way, you have to put yourself in his/her shoes and understand why he/she feels that way.
PS: By the way I broke up already. Because I simply could not understand the rationale behind her smoking(Oh, i accepted it later, and started myself, but I'm quitting or at least trying to quit)
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Originally posted by casshern:
its perfectly all right to me, cos i din have any quarrels with my ex for years. but we broke up in the end.
some pple said that to have arguements and quarrels in a relationship is healthy as it helps to understand your partner better. i dont really agree with it though. so depends alot on your level of tolerance and mutual understanding.
same.
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:
honeymoon period now
if u 2 can communicate nicely...dun have to quarrel in fact
then come menstrution period, gal get moody and guy dun understand, then both can start quarrel or even boxing ya.Communicating nicely doesn't mean it is a good communication, politeness and nice stuff doen't bring out the truth that bring about separation in years to come.
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