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Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....
So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan
Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx
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Originally posted by 4794:
Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....
So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan
Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx
Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.
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Originally posted by 4794:
Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....
So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan
Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx
then be a bad person be kind to people lo smile to them girl,boy also can eat.help people when people need help.donate to less fortunate people.
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Originally posted by me_a_clone:
when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.
try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.
just my 0.02 cents.
i see,my sentence always start and end with vulgarities,my voice always been loud....what u mean by don act hero or don act smart?
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Some ppl said I got guai lan face cos I seldom smile, but they dunno my character well at all. Damnit.
But since they said that the way u spoke is guai lan, then maybe when u speak, u dun spare feelings for that person. Be more tactful, in other words, think before u speak, even if it's meant to be a joke.
It may be a joke to u but ppl may think otherwise.
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