How not to be guai lan? replied by tyx93 @ Sat, 17 May 2008 19:05:49 +0800

tyx93 — Sat, 17 May 2008 19:05:49 +0800

hmm , just try not to say anything stupid remarks . offend anyone . =D

How not to be guai lan? replied by SiMiLaiEh* @ Sat, 17 May 2008 16:40:43 +0800

SiMiLaiEh* — Sat, 17 May 2008 16:40:43 +0800

just change sch

How not to be guai lan? replied by Shinjichan @ Sat, 17 May 2008 16:22:40 +0800

Shinjichan — Sat, 17 May 2008 16:22:40 +0800

post ur picture then we know le lo

How not to be guai lan? replied by Rejected @ Sat, 17 May 2008 14:04:42 +0800

Rejected — Sat, 17 May 2008 14:04:42 +0800

think before you talk, seriously.

How not to be guai lan? replied by Midlusionz @ Sat, 17 May 2008 13:51:28 +0800

Midlusionz — Sat, 17 May 2008 13:51:28 +0800

Just gotta know when to speak and wat to speak.. lol

How not to be guai lan? replied by xavier1979 @ Sat, 17 May 2008 00:21:51 +0800

xavier1979 — Sat, 17 May 2008 00:21:51 +0800

Maybe your sense of humour doesn't agree with the rest of the human population?

How not to be guai lan? replied by SquarePants @ Sat, 17 May 2008 00:20:21 +0800

SquarePants — Sat, 17 May 2008 00:20:21 +0800

u must be an arrogant sarcastic fool

How not to be guai lan? replied by Midlusionz @ Fri, 16 May 2008 12:47:58 +0800

Midlusionz — Fri, 16 May 2008 12:47:58 +0800

Joke at the right time ..

How not to be guai lan? replied by Lefti68 @ Fri, 16 May 2008 11:42:28 +0800

Lefti68 — Fri, 16 May 2008 11:42:28 +0800

Be urself. So what? U r guai-lan, then be it. Be nice 2 those who are nice 2 u. The rest can be ignored....

How not to be guai lan? replied by Eragon @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 17:00:47 +0800

Eragon — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 17:00:47 +0800

hazi, a spoiled brat...

How not to be guai lan? replied by Yuki~! @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:51:05 +0800

Yuki~! — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:51:05 +0800

Nothing nice to say, stfu, srsly

How not to be guai lan? replied by gunner77 @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:29:44 +0800

gunner77 — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 16:29:44 +0800

be more sia lan

How not to be guai lan? replied by dumbdumb! @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:44:23 +0800

dumbdumb! — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:44:23 +0800

the only way to be guai lan is to be sarcastic lor. think b4 u talk?

How not to be guai lan? replied by Hanagata @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:26:34 +0800

Hanagata — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:26:34 +0800

diam diam let pple eat roh...

How not to be guai lan? replied by Miss Tiny @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:21:55 +0800

Miss Tiny — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:21:55 +0800

Some ppl said I got guai lan face cos I seldom smile, but they dunno my character well at all. Damnit.

But since they said that the way u spoke is guai lan, then maybe when u speak, u dun spare feelings for that person. Be more tactful, in other words, think before u speak, even if it's meant to be a joke.

It may be a joke to u but ppl may think otherwise.

How not to be guai lan? replied by Zarks @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:06:20 +0800

Zarks — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:06:20 +0800

no need to think la..

just ask them why dont like u.. then u said u hope u can change..

then u finally said. CB u all, dont like, dont like la..I know u jealous of my cb face

How not to be guai lan? replied by seotiblizzard @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:00:47 +0800

seotiblizzard — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:00:47 +0800

If u cant say or think of 3 good things of a person.

Shut up and dun say something bad.

Cos its harder to say something good then something bad.

How not to be guai lan? replied by magical_wen @ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 11:49:15 +0800

magical_wen — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 11:49:15 +0800

sometimes,

jus shut ur mouth

How not to be guai lan? replied by 4794 @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 21:12:38 +0800

4794 — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 21:12:38 +0800

Originally posted by me_a_clone:

when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

just my 0.02 cents.

i see,my sentence always start and end with vulgarities,my voice always been loud....what u mean by don act hero or don act smart?

How not to be guai lan? replied by me_a_clone @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 21:08:03 +0800

me_a_clone — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 21:08:03 +0800

when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

just my 0.02 cents.

How not to be guai lan? replied by guaiboiboi @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 20:41:49 +0800

guaiboiboi — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 20:41:49 +0800

Originally posted by 4794:

Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

then be a bad person be kind to people lo smile to them girl,boy also can eat.help people when people need help.donate to less fortunate people.

How not to be guai lan? replied by 4794 @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:20:37 +0800

4794 — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:20:37 +0800

Originally posted by LatecomerX:

Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

Maybe...guess now i have to really think hard on what i am going to say to my frens

How not to be guai lan? replied by caleb_chiang @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:15:39 +0800

caleb_chiang — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:15:39 +0800

You don't talk at all?

How not to be guai lan? replied by YuutoFlow @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:12:14 +0800

YuutoFlow — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:12:14 +0800

Mayb its nt ur fault mayb its ur friends fault ...

How not to be guai lan? replied by LatecomerX @ Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:10:19 +0800

LatecomerX — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:10:19 +0800

Originally posted by 4794:

Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

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