What should I do?

• henshin

  8 Apr 08, 23:50

  I got a friend, who I know by my buddy introducing to me. She wasn't attractive, but somehow caught my attention. Despite that, I thought we are just going to be good friends, nothing more than that. She got a bf anyway and I don't want to be a third party if I ever to like her. We went out with that buddy and her bf a couple of times, we got closer after so many outings we have, but still just good friend. I think everything starts about a week ago, her bf broke up with her because of one thing, no more feeling. I was ridiculously angry about her bf, I even got the urge to punch him, but I don't know where he lives. She was very down, I mean, she was such a cheerful girl and now she is gone, fuck that bf. Here is my problem, why am I so angry about it? I mean, even my buddy faced something, at most I just advice him. Why I'm so angry about it? Does it mean that I like her?

• thehappybunny

  8 Apr 08, 23:52

  yes. you do harbour a crush on her

• cApitaland

  9 Apr 08, 00:01

  the end. wow that was easy.

• ultranova3

  9 Apr 08, 00:31

  I thought you should see the opportunity to get here. Why do you need to punch her bf?

   

• cApitaland

  9 Apr 08, 00:43

  strike while the iron is hot. gogogo!

• jojobeach

  9 Apr 08, 02:20

  People break or not.. is their problem.. not your problem.

   

  If they not happy together they will break.. what.. you want them to be together issit ? Get a grip ya ?

   

  You want this girl.. you take this girl.

   

  Don't try to act hero go punch up other people's ex.

  Girls don't like violent guys.

   

   

   

• Midlusionz

  9 Apr 08, 09:45

  /agree wat jojo said.

• henshin

  9 Apr 08, 11:02

  what should I do? I'm totally clueless when comes to this kind of problem, I don't know how to confess. Some more I think she is still depress from the breaking up, what should I do?

• BabyRex

  9 Apr 08, 11:21

  Originally posted by henshin:

  what should I do? I'm totally clueless when comes to this kind of problem, I don't know how to confess. Some more I think she is still depress from the breaking up, what should I do?

  Just be by her side when she needs it. As for the rest, let nature takes its course.

   

• magical_wen

  9 Apr 08, 11:30

  eh hero..

  people broke up is their problem..

  if u go punch dat guy or wad i will really look
   down on u..

  if u unsure whether u like this girl anot,

  wait.

  and time will tell

• Zarks

  9 Apr 08, 12:11

  nop, u just concern bout the new fren of yours. Its just your attitude and thinking to punch any guy who's been a jerk to gals. its not bcuz u love her. not yet for now.. right now. i think its her cheerfulness that attracted u.

  Instead of goin to punch the bf, why dont u use that time to accompany her and as a fren , help her go thru this tough life. Take her out and have fun. But dont overconcern. she might have mistaken that u liked her and perhaps she might wanting u to be her bf even though she never mean it. Got wat i mean?

  I will also desire to punch guys who treating my gals fren like that. Well, its just me. I just hate guy whos being a jerk to gals. No need to say for guys who take advantage as a guy and think that nothing to lose.

• purpledragon84

  9 Apr 08, 12:49

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  I will also desire to punch guys who treating my gals fren like that. Well, its just me. I just hate guy whos being a jerk to gals. No need to say for guys who take advantage as a guy and think that nothing to lose.

  HAHA! u referring to the other thread! lol..

  to TS.. accompany her lo.. cheer her up and stuff.. be the man that is there when she is down.. score point..

• shade343

  9 Apr 08, 14:58

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  People break or not.. is their problem.. not your problem.

   

  If they not happy together they will break.. what.. you want them to be together issit ? Get a grip ya ?

   

  You want this girl.. you take this girl.

   

  Don't try to act hero go punch up other people's ex.

  Girls don't like violent guys.

   

   

  
  Yea agree, they only like violent effeminate guys.

• Y_Shun

  9 Apr 08, 15:10

  the chance is here, go for it! rawr!

• henshin

  9 Apr 08, 15:30

  What should I do if I were to bring her out? Movies? I never had this experience before, until this point of time in my life. I'm a total retard on this, it would be a great help if I can get advice from you people.

• shaunlaw

  9 Apr 08, 15:39

  At the moment, maybe you should just be a friend who stays be her side and comfort her. Let her and help her get over the hurt and loss.

  Show your care and concern for her. Since she has jsut gone through a break up, give her some time to recover then maybe you think about chasing her and telling her your feelings.

  Just my 2 cents worth of thoughts. =) Jia you!

• gunner77

  9 Apr 08, 16:31

  tis is ur chance.

• xaih

  9 Apr 08, 17:37

  just be there by her side.cause i don't think she's in the mood for a new relationship

• henshin

  9 Apr 08, 20:39

  So getting her out and bring her somewhere to make her happy?

• elementalangel

  9 Apr 08, 21:49

  ask her if there is anyting she needs u to do.. if she says nuttin.. den share wif her how much u hate unfaithful guys.. ( this always works .. duno y ) ..

• henshin

  9 Apr 08, 22:22

  what if she is still sensitive when talking about that ex?

• BabyRex

  9 Apr 08, 22:30

  Originally posted by henshin:

  what if she is still sensitive when talking about that ex?

  Then don't talk about that. Just be there and lend a listening ear and a shoulder for crying on.

• dcx

  9 Apr 08, 22:37

  why so many "why, if, what"?

   

• henshin

  10 Apr 08, 00:39

  I don't know why, some time will just worry for nothing. So basically that is what I should do for now?

• bb_mm

  10 Apr 08, 01:58

  follow your heart. no need to worry about anything. just concern her like you concern for a friend lor. no more "what ifs...."