how to keep a good fren ?

ViceEdge

9 Apr 08, 15:34

i met a girl last year .. same age in poly ... though different course but we do hang out alot ... we both a good fren .. but i worry tat after army i might lose contact with her ... any ideas how to keep a good fren by ur side ? though i no good frens shd withstood the test of time

purpledragon84

9 Apr 08, 17:33

constantly keep in contact?

u got girlfriend? if no girlfriend then book out can go out with ur good fren..

got girlfriend then very hard.. coz u should accompany girlfriend..

ViceEdge

10 Apr 08, 10:03

no gf at the moment .. shes just a good fren

rafTiger

10 Apr 08, 22:23

she's just a friend!!

don't be so possessive

Edifire_

10 Apr 08, 23:46

True.. Respect her 'space' and you might just be the good friend she's looking for..

It's like holdin the sand logic.. The tighter you grasp it.. More sand will fall out..

icYwATeR

11 Apr 08, 00:11

Always keep her updated of the stuff that you're doing and of course get her to update you whats she's doing also.

Froz3nFir3

11 Apr 08, 00:15

Hah.. Try chat about what's goin on in each other life's.. Haha.. Update sounds so..... No offence ar.. haha

agnelli

11 Apr 08, 23:38

Originally posted by ViceEdge:

i met a girl last year .. same age in poly ... though different course but we do hang out alot ... we both a good fren .. but i worry tat after army i might lose contact with her ... any ideas how to keep a good fren by ur side ? though i no good frens shd withstood the test of time

If shes a gd friend of yours then u need not worry about losing her mah...just do the usual stuff that gd frens do, msg each other often, try to meet up when u bk out from camp loh..sad to say though once shes attached things might be different

yourfavouritefriend

13 Apr 08, 15:54

You have only a goof lady friend only?

rlsh07

13 Apr 08, 15:57

just maintain contact lo. spend some time.

mistyblue

13 Apr 08, 19:49

call once in a while, go out to lah kopi when free. catch up with friends is normal... but she must mean something to you to bother to keep in touch with her....

darknessfall

13 Apr 08, 23:55

dont keep thinking about how to keep this friendship. Rather, true friends stay together even though they are apart...chim? haha....when you have true friends, you will understand this.

ultimatenolifer

14 Apr 08, 19:39

I beg to differ. I have seen so many close frens drift apart when they pursue their own individual goals and aspirations in life. But i tink its ok not to brood over such a trivial matter lah. Friends come and go in life. Depends on fate lor. U dunnid to sell yourself too much when it comes to frenship i tink