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Loginhaiz, can advice not?
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im facing a real problem now, pls do not flame mi, this may seem childish, but i hope u people can advice. im almost 18 year old tis year. i meet this gal when i play maplestory, she also play maplestory. so we r lik online frens lah. den we got closer and we start to talk on msn lor, we talk on msn for few months liao and i really got interest in her. nowadays, i log on maple and dun see her, i will feel very sian and just log off. i come online just to tok to her. we already plan to meet up but i scared meet liao things will change, she will dun talk to me or dun like me as a fren anymore. i noe all this sound like rubbish, but will u meet her not if u r mi. cause the situation now, my frens told me, i should try, but i really scared in the end, end up with nothing. please advice. xie xie.
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Up to her standard or not... let her decide lor.
What.. you want to be her Final Fantasy ah ?
If you don dare to face reality.. then you can continue to live in the maplestory and continue to deceive yourself lor.
Maybe you can set up your family in the virtual world and have a virtual baby.
Grow some courage....rejection is part of life.
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u are 18, haven't even serve NS, u are in the prime of ur youth.. seriously.. she's not the last girl u are going to meet in ur whole life..
if she turns out to be damn chio and hot and stuff and she dun like u, den forget it, move on, find a better girl who likes and wants u.. if u fear rejection, den u are not going to get out of ur little comfort zone.. and when ur comfort zone gets burnt one day, u are going to die.. so u better learn to buck up and face ur fears..
there is a reason why all the replies here to u are so hostile.. because u need to be told the truth, that like jojo said, rejection is part of life.. ppl are going to have expectations of u in the future, and u are going to get fucked if u dun meet that expectations.. being rejected is not something to be ashamed of.. who here is an expert in love? a Dr. Love? everybody falls and learn.. what is happiness without sadness?
i wun say more, u think about it urself.. i just look forward to ur reply here AFTER u meet up with her and realise that it isn't the end of the world if she rejects u..
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