haiz, can advice not?
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im facing a real problem now, pls do not flame mi, this may seem childish, but i hope u people can advice. im almost 18 year old tis year. i meet this gal when i play maplestory, she also play maplestory. so we r lik online frens lah. den we got closer and we start to talk on msn lor, we talk on msn for few months liao and i really got interest in her. nowadays, i log on maple and dun see her, i will feel very sian and just log off. i come online just to tok to her. we already plan to meet up but i scared meet liao things will change, she will dun talk to me or dun like me as a fren anymore. i noe all this sound like rubbish, but will u meet her not if u r mi. cause the situation now, my frens told me, i should try, but i really scared in the end, end up with nothing. please advice. xie xie.
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meet up with her and take it from there
are you afraid that shes ugly?
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Meet meet loh.
Not like will die liddat.
Have faith and courage k.
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Both of u got show ur pics to each other anot?
Just meet lor.. U are the guy leh.. She should be the one who's more afraid..
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Self-explained.
You know its rubbish, and rubbish it is.
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
Both of u got show ur pics to each other anot?
Just meet lor.. U are the guy leh.. She should be the one who's more afraid..
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
meet up with her and take it from there
are you afraid that shes ugly?
no i realli scared i ugly for her -
Originally posted by xianghai01:
no i realli scared i ugly for her
Self-pwned again...In that case, she would freak out, not you...
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Originally posted by Ferret:
Meet meet loh.
Not like will die liddat.
Have faith and courage k.
wat if meet liao really game over? haiz -
den dun meet lo
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Originally posted by xianghai01:
wat if meet liao really game over? haizif u scare here n scare there then dun meet.
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If really game over then game over lor..
Never meet then u wanna wait for her until when? How to progress ur relationship with her?
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haiz u all dun like tat can not? plz teach mi wat to do
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what are we supposed to teach you?!
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Originally posted by xianghai01:
haiz u all dun like tat can not? plz teach mi wat to do
Teach u what? Teach u how not to get rejected by the girl when she meets u? -
You should expect her to be ugly. That way if she is you'll go "Hah! I knew it!" and you won't be disappointed. If she's not then hooray for you.
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you obviously want some sort of assurance that she is up to your expectations if not your dreams go poof.. well none of us know her so we can't tell you
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no, i really scared im not up to her standard. plz dun get me wrong.
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right. how do we teach you to be her standard...
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Up to her standard or not... let her decide lor.
What.. you want to be her Final Fantasy ah ?
If you don dare to face reality.. then you can continue to live in the maplestory and continue to deceive yourself lor.
Maybe you can set up your family in the virtual world and have a virtual baby.
Grow some courage....rejection is part of life.
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Aiya simple la juz meet her up. For freaking sakes big a MAN do the right thing. Be of good courage young man! If the girl steady meet you out liao den dun tink too much, coz she believe in you den she willing to come out, if not she wont even reply to ur call liao. So jiayou!
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u are 18, haven't even serve NS, u are in the prime of ur youth.. seriously.. she's not the last girl u are going to meet in ur whole life..
if she turns out to be damn chio and hot and stuff and she dun like u, den forget it, move on, find a better girl who likes and wants u.. if u fear rejection, den u are not going to get out of ur little comfort zone.. and when ur comfort zone gets burnt one day, u are going to die.. so u better learn to buck up and face ur fears..
there is a reason why all the replies here to u are so hostile.. because u need to be told the truth, that like jojo said, rejection is part of life.. ppl are going to have expectations of u in the future, and u are going to get fucked if u dun meet that expectations.. being rejected is not something to be ashamed of.. who here is an expert in love? a Dr. Love? everybody falls and learn.. what is happiness without sadness?
i wun say more, u think about it urself.. i just look forward to ur reply here AFTER u meet up with her and realise that it isn't the end of the world if she rejects u..
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and if u really want us to TEACH u, there's only one thing u can do.. thats to be urself.. thats all.. if u are gonna fake it and be something u aren't, u are gonna regret it.. its just a meet up.. nothing much..
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just swallow your fears and try try lah...no harm. if not to your liking then just be friends lor...go see amor latte forum the stories sticky,there got one story similar to yours about meeting up.
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ok lah game over den game over. tis time i jus whack and no regret, thanks all