my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by faith07 @ Tue, 29 Apr 2008 07:12:25 +0800

faith07 — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 07:12:25 +0800

don worry, u will pull thru this.. so jus take it as a lesson to learn for now.. everyone will make mistakes. Most impt now, u must handle this problem well and talk things out with her..

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Rock_Sugar @ Tue, 29 Apr 2008 00:44:36 +0800

Rock_Sugar — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 00:44:36 +0800

Moderator,
I thank you for offer to have this topic closed but my apology for turning it down.

Anyway, let them bark as much as they want, it doesn’t even hurt me a single bit.

Give a cheer for “faith07” for understand exactly what I mean.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:28:12 +0800

Midlusionz — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:28:12 +0800

GG TS. U just got yourself a "reputation" here.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by dcx @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:33:17 +0800

dcx — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:33:17 +0800

Why Mod of AA no sign up for P-membership?

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Yunhaier @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:28:41 +0800

Yunhaier — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:28:41 +0800

Aiyo - all the fumes and smoke.

I understand that some of you people feel very strongly about this issue, but please do not be overwhelmed by your emotions and start blasting it out through your posts. Not that I am agreeable with his mindset, but I hate to lock topics because of flames. I will always prefer self moderation by individual forumer.

Anyway, I reckoned the discussion is going nowhere. TS if you want to close this topic, please drop me a PM.

Cheers

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:46:26 +0800

Midlusionz — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:46:26 +0800

Originally posted by faith07:

Ya lah, he was desperate for a relationship, but then at that point of time the gal said she was 19 what.. so thats how the problems began as he thinks she is younger and now he knows she is so old, he can't accept the gap in age which is clearly understandable..

The problem is he jump start the r/s too fast. And then, now she is using suicide to keep him from breaking up with her which is not right..

LOL ..

1. Desperate for r.s? U must be kidding .. 21yo and u are desperate? Why? kan chiong to keep on family line ah? Dun bullshiet us.

2. The problem start with the TS .. No fuking desperate desires no one get hurt

3. He descibe how the girl look is the way to go? Oh plss.. . He just slap his own face with his own dork.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:43:07 +0800

Midlusionz — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 17:43:07 +0800

Clone alert! Even u are not .. U are not helping u are making things worst fyi.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Hello Kitty @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:27:09 +0800

Hello Kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:27:09 +0800

hong gan lah.

u clone si boh.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by faith07 @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:00:11 +0800

faith07 — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 15:00:11 +0800

Ya lah, he was desperate for a relationship, but then at that point of time the gal said she was 19 what.. so thats how the problems began as he thinks she is younger and now he knows she is so old, he can't accept the gap in age which is clearly understandable..

The problem is he jump start the r/s too fast. And then, now she is using suicide to keep him from breaking up with her which is not right..

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by BeautifulBetty @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:45:29 +0800

BeautifulBetty — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:45:29 +0800

Originally posted by faith07:

Hi

Actually rock sugar is actually a victim also.. because if the gal did not lie to him about her age, do u think the relationship would have a start? I am sure he would not date her out if he had known the truth about her age.. so the gal also has some part to play in this.. Actually she also play u out by lying abt her age.

Secondly, the gal shldn't threaten to suicide, if she does this, she is too immatured for her age.. u could have tell her, what will you do, if there is this man u don't like but he threaten to suicide if u break with him? it is jus like forcing u to be with her, which isn't correct..

u shld jus break up clean and for all.. let her takes time to forget about u. u can't force yourself to be with her coz she threaten to suicide.. y did she use this tactic to keep u at her side, if she really loves u, she will wan u to be happy too.

Take it as a lesson lor.. next time know the gal better before u date her lor..

Unker, did you really carefully went through TS original post or not? He himself said he was desperate for a relationship that was why he went ahead with the girl (woman 30 liao)despite her shortcoming like this...

"Anyway, she doesn’t even look pretty as well, a thick eyebrown, rabbit tooth and a short curly hair, i guess you guys can imagine about it. Out of desperation for a partner, I force myself to be with her even though my type of girl isn’t her. I mean I try to develop some feelings for her..."

The above was exactly TS words. So? Who is to blame? He victim? LOL. As I've said both also desperate. Both try to cheat one another and themeselves. And TS must be soooooo blind that he couldn't see from his gf appearance to determine her age. Or in this case sooooo desperate that 'no fish prawn oso can lah situation. So...advice for TS - suck it up.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Hello Kitty @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:05:29 +0800

Hello Kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 14:05:29 +0800

wahhh, ur 1st post ah.

welcome to sgforums.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by faith07 @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:58:12 +0800

faith07 — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:58:12 +0800

Actually rock sugar is actually a victim also.. because if the gal did not lie to him about her age, do u think the relationship would have a start? I am sure he would not date her out if he had known the truth about her age.. so the gal also has some part to play in this.. Actually she also play u out by lying abt her age.

Secondly, the gal shldn't threaten to suicide, if she does this, she is too immatured for her age.. u could have tell her, what will you do, if there is this man u don't like but he threaten to suicide if u break with him? it is jus like forcing u to be with her, which isn't correct..

u shld jus break up clean and for all.. let her takes time to forget about u. u can't force yourself to be with her coz she threaten to suicide.. y did she use this tactic to keep u at her side, if she really loves u, she will wan u to be happy too.

Take it as a lesson lor.. next time know the gal better before u date her lor..

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Hello Kitty @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:41:55 +0800

Hello Kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:41:55 +0800

u wan advice rite?

i can gib u.

marry her.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Hello Kitty @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:41:09 +0800

Hello Kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 13:41:09 +0800

until nw u stil yaya.

u cm post ur pic lah.

we c u leali too gd for her anot.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 10:31:24 +0800

Midlusionz — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 10:31:24 +0800

Originally posted by SquarePants:

eh .. always use a plastic bag on her if gf cannot make it ..

Cheers

If u meant it as a joke. It's cool.. But if u meant it otherwise ......

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by SquarePants @ Sun, 27 Apr 2008 06:01:11 +0800

SquarePants — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 06:01:11 +0800

eh .. always use a plastic bag on her if gf cannot make it ..

Cheers

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by kaeden @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 22:50:26 +0800

kaeden — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 22:50:26 +0800

Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:

Girls age of course hard to guess, in fact everybody else. Some lady may look chao lao but she is maybe onli 20+? If a female lecturer in ur school walks into your lecture room, she dress in tube, mini skirt and a high heel with a reborn long hair. You might think she is in her early 20s or mid? Maybe she is already married with 4 kids? a middle age woman? How to spot the different? Maybe there are some theory in it, perhaps you can show me?

then what ? you stop attending her lecture after knowing her age ?

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by escadaraindrops @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:42:33 +0800

escadaraindrops — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:42:33 +0800

How can a 30 year old look like a 19 year old? Were you blind in Decmember?

Anyway... I feel that you should talk to her and tell her to stop bothering you because you feel there is no future for you two. But make sure there isn't any knives and that your not on level 6 and higher (:

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Xephone_xenon @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:18:58 +0800

Xephone_xenon — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:18:58 +0800

Empty Threats.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by 16/f/lonely @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:43:22 +0800

16/f/lonely — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:43:22 +0800

PWNED!

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by dcx @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:40:49 +0800

dcx — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:40:49 +0800

Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:

Then what you wan me to do now? Instead of giving me advises, I see all kind of insult? If let's say everyone here is my classmate, I confirm sure beaten to death am I right to say that?

What else are you expecting?

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by jojobeach @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 04:19:31 +0800

jojobeach — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 04:19:31 +0800

Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:

Then what you wan me to do now? Instead of giving me advises, I see all kind of insult? If let's say everyone here is my classmate, I confirm sure beaten to death am I right to say that?

If I am her parent, I'd beat you to death for using her and dumping her like this.

If you want a good fark with no strings attached.. pay some farking money to a prostitute. U understand ?

(no matter how ugly) NO girl, deserves to be treated like what you did to her.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:44:55 +0800

Midlusionz — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:44:55 +0800

Damn .. He left pfft.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Midlusionz @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:37:01 +0800

Midlusionz — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:37:01 +0800

Originally posted by Detached:

Humorously put

LOL, i am still pretty at cool lvl ya now.

my gf is pathetic....plz guide! replied by Detached @ Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:35:48 +0800

Detached — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:35:48 +0800

Originally posted by Midlusionz:

This aint Carebear forum ya know? U post wrong things get ready for some action, u got two choice.. Get solutions or insults.. Like hell i realli care. If u get beaten to death .. U sure deserve it, period.

Humorously put

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