lostlostlost

• ORIGAMIST

  26 Apr 08, 16:45

  "lostlostlost" was my colleagues when he lost his girlfriend.  While we tried to help him, I advised him to join Sgforums as I know there are many kind souls here will help him.  He was much better then.  I left the company 6 months ago and now I just heard he is in hospital in a coma.  His blood vessel burst at his back of his head and it had been two weeks.

  I am very sad and know not what to do.  I just hope those who had chatted with him and even met him will join me to pray for his recovery .. 

  I just wanted to post here to let those who " knew " to at least know what is happening to him ...  sigh ...

• ifish

  26 Apr 08, 17:03

  what was his nick?

• xavier1979

  26 Apr 08, 17:41

  Oh no... Hope he get well soon.

• T E M P O

  26 Apr 08, 17:43

  Originally posted by ifish:

  what was his nick?

  
  lostlostlost

• Isis

  26 Apr 08, 18:51

  Originally posted by xavier1979:

  Oh no... Hope he get well soon.

  
  x 2

   

• Midlusionz

  26 Apr 08, 18:55

  God bless your friend..

• caleb_chiang

  26 Apr 08, 19:30

  hmm... Why blood vessel burst? Read too much negative posts?
• Isis

  26 Apr 08, 19:36

  Is his life in danger ?

• Maith

  26 Apr 08, 20:06

  bar forum too intense for him?

• gunner77

  26 Apr 08, 20:19

  Originally posted by Maith:

  bar forum too intense for him?

  
  

   

  thats wat i wanted to say

• annoy-you-must

  26 Apr 08, 21:16

  Originally posted by Maith:

  bar forum too intense for him?

  
  people sick already you all still make joke about it

• ORIGAMIST

  26 Apr 08, 23:14

  Originally posted by Maith:

  bar forum too intense for him?

  
  I don't know whether he spent time at bar forum but I knew he was really desperate.  You should see him when his girlfriend broke off with him...  he was so lifeless..  he is only 23 years old and I don't think he deserve all these..  he was very positive and that why I spent a lot of time trying to council him . .  he would had be fired from his job and I thought that would had been worst.   I refuse to let him go and that had caused a lot of problem at work place.   Anyway, I heard that the doctor need to cut a hole in the throat to help him breath ..  I haven't gone to see him ..   I don't know if I can take it ...   

• 16/f/lonely

  26 Apr 08, 23:21

  Originally posted by annoy-you-must:

  
  people sick already you all still make joke about it

  
  x2.

• derrick1979

  27 Apr 08, 00:13

  Is he real name Eric?

• rlsh07

  27 Apr 08, 00:15

  so how is he now? which hospital is he staying? hmm... blood vessel burst very serious though. he is having a stroke now?

• BEARZAIS

  27 Apr 08, 00:16

  ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

  my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

  never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

  i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

  u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

  so my advise is best that u go and see him

  check whether his condition stable anot???

  ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

  because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

  sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

  i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

   

• rlsh07

  27 Apr 08, 00:17

  Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

  ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

  my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

  never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

  i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

  u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

  so my advise is best that u go and see him

  check whether his condition stable anot???

  ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

  because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

  sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

  i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

   

  are you alright?

• BEARZAIS

  27 Apr 08, 00:21

  at first i was very devasted.............but i realised that i must accept it and move on..............

  now ok already .........but the only thing i regreted was that i never spend enough time with her

• rlsh07

  27 Apr 08, 00:24

  Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

  at first i was very devasted.............but i realised that i must accept it and move on..............

  now ok already .........but the only thing i regreted was that i never spend enough time with her

  life still goes on  i guess

• ORIGAMIST

  27 Apr 08, 00:39

  Originally posted by derrick1979:

  Is he real name Eric?

  
  ya, how you know ?

   

• ORIGAMIST

  27 Apr 08, 00:40

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  so how is he now? which hospital is he staying? hmm... blood vessel burst very serious though. he is having a stroke now?

  
  he is in Tan Tock Seng.  He is still in coma ...

• ORIGAMIST

  27 Apr 08, 00:41

  Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

  ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

  my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

  never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

  i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

  u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

  so my advise is best that u go and see him

  check whether his condition stable anot???

  ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

  because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

  sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

  i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

   

  my condolence to you... I understand how you feel..  I had witnessed same thing.. my brother passed away from cancer too ...  sigh ...  

   

• derrick1979

  27 Apr 08, 00:53

  Yes ,Eric i know him....his blood vessel burst due to its complex structure...it is a very rare case...I very upset about it when his sister informed mi abt it. Well lets all pray for him to recover or regain consciousness.

• ORIGAMIST

  27 Apr 08, 00:59

  Originally posted by derrick1979:

  Yes ,Eric i know him....his blood vessel burst due to its complex structure...it is a very rare case...I very upset about it when his sister informed mi abt it. Well lets all pray for him to recover or regain consciousness.

  
  oh you are his friend....  have you seen him ?  I had not for the last six monthe after I started my new job. . .

• Miracles&Prophecies

  27 Apr 08, 07:46

  Sad he's still 23.

  His life is still plenty ahead of him.

  I hope he gets better and recover.