"lostlostlost" was my colleagues when he lost his girlfriend.  While we tried to help him, I advised him to join Sgforums as I know there are many kind souls here will help him.  He was much better then.  I left the company 6 months ago and now I just heard he is in hospital in a coma.  His blood vessel burst at his back of his head and it had been two weeks.

I am very sad and know not what to do.  I just hope those who had chatted with him and even met him will join me to pray for his recovery .. 

I just wanted to post here to let those who " knew " to at least know what is happening to him ...  sigh ...

what was his nick?

Oh no... Hope he get well soon.

Originally posted by ifish:

what was his nick?

lostlostlost

Originally posted by xavier1979:

Oh no... Hope he get well soon.

x 2

God bless your friend..

hmm… Why blood vessel burst? Read too much negative posts?

Is his life in danger ?

bar forum too intense for him?

Originally posted by Maith:

bar forum too intense for him?

thats wat i wanted to say

Originally posted by Maith:

bar forum too intense for him?

people sick already you all still make joke about it

Originally posted by Maith:

bar forum too intense for him?

I don't know whether he spent time at bar forum but I knew he was really desperate.  You should see him when his girlfriend broke off with him...  he was so lifeless..  he is only 23 years old and I don't think he deserve all these..  he was very positive and that why I spent a lot of time trying to council him . .  he would had be fired from his job and I thought that would had been worst.   I refuse to let him go and that had caused a lot of problem at work place.   Anyway, I heard that the doctor need to cut a hole in the throat to help him breath ..  I haven't gone to see him ..   I don't know if I can take it ...   

Originally posted by annoy-you-must:

people sick already you all still make joke about it

x2.

Is he real name Eric?

so how is he now? which hospital is he staying? hmm... blood vessel burst very serious though. he is having a stroke now?

ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

so my advise is best that u go and see him

check whether his condition stable anot???

ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

so my advise is best that u go and see him

check whether his condition stable anot???

ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

 

are you alright?

at first i was very devasted.............but i realised that i must accept it and move on..............

now ok already .........but the only thing i regreted was that i never spend enough time with her

Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

at first i was very devasted.............but i realised that i must accept it and move on..............

now ok already .........but the only thing i regreted was that i never spend enough time with her

life still goes on  i guess

Originally posted by derrick1979:

Is he real name Eric?

ya, how you know ?

Originally posted by rlsh07:

so how is he now? which hospital is he staying? hmm... blood vessel burst very serious though. he is having a stroke now?

he is in Tan Tock Seng.  He is still in coma ...

Originally posted by BEARZAIS:

ur fren in icu unit? then  all the best to him.........................

my mother was in the same simillar as ur fren........her cancer cells spread to the brain and then she fell in a coma....after tat we need to place her on life support...................................................

never to wake out again...........................................she passed away last month

i spend 2 weeks in the ica and witness 3 deaths..............................all of them very tragic and sad...i remeber a little girl tat have heart problem...............her mother was with her until the end..................................

u should go and see him...............maybe his time is out already.........sorry but i dun wanna sound negative but..............u know those tat experience such serious condition some times they cannot make it ...

so my advise is best that u go and see him

check whether his condition stable anot???

ask docter hows his chance of survival...................and lastly maybe u could offer his family some sort of support???

because..........during my spend in the icu unit.....can see tat when people see their love ones suffering tat time....is the time tat they needed support....

sometimes medical bills can be expensive.............my mother spend abt 60k in icu..............so maybe u could help his family finanically?????????

i think tats all....but in my opinion its best tat you go and see him.....as there are very limited ways in which u can help him..................because he is all on his own now...................good luck and all the best to him

 

my condolence to you... I understand how you feel..  I had witnessed same thing.. my brother passed away from cancer too ...  sigh ...  

Yes ,Eric i know him....his blood vessel burst due to its complex structure...it is a very rare case...I very upset about it when his sister informed mi abt it. Well lets all pray for him to recover or regain consciousness.

Originally posted by derrick1979:

Yes ,Eric i know him....his blood vessel burst due to its complex structure...it is a very rare case...I very upset about it when his sister informed mi abt it. Well lets all pray for him to recover or regain consciousness.

oh you are his friend....  have you seen him ?  I had not for the last six monthe after I started my new job. . .

Sad he's still 23.

His life is still plenty ahead of him.

I hope he gets better and recover.