It has been a long time since I hit the forums. I usually do that only when I feel extreme loneliness.

Today, I found out my exbf has found a new girl. It has been almost half a year since we broke up, but I cant seem to get over him. We were together for more than two years. As I type this, tears cant stop flowing down my cheeks. Everyday I am kept busy with school and outing with friends. But everything I do seems to remind me of him. I still yearn for him to come back to me. I always thought there will be a chance, but now, I feel so crushed. So depressed.

I hate this feeling. I am scared. 

u chio?

i shall be ur new bf

If he is gone for good.. Let it go. Crying wun get him back

try to get him out of yr mind & life

mixed ard with frens & enjoy every moments with them

in few yrs time, u be wondering y u doing this & feel it's really not worth it  

There was once a princess who had a small eye problem that she felt was really bad. Being the king's daughter, she was rather spoiled and kept crying all the time. When the doctors wanted to apply medicine, she would invariably refuse any medical treatment and kept touching the sore spot on her eye. In this way it became worse and worse, until finally the king proclaimed a large reward for whoever could cure his daughter. After some time, a man arrived who claimed to be a famous physician, but actually was not even a doctor.

He declared that he could definitely cure the princess and was admitted to her chamber. After he had examined her, he exclaimed, "Oh, I'm so sorry!" "What is it?" the princess inquired. The doctor said, "There is nothing much wrong with your eye, but there is something else that is really serious." The princess was alarmed and asked, "What on earth is so serious?" He hesitated and said, "It is really bad. I shouldn't tell you about it." No matter how much she insisted, he refused to tell her, saying that he could not speak without the king's permission.

When the king arrived, the doctor was still reluctant to reveal his findings. Finally the king commanded, "Tell us what is wrong. Whatever it is, you have to tell us!" At last the doctor said, "Well, the eye will get better within a few days - that is no problem. The big problem is that the princess will grow a tail, which will become at least nine fathoms long. It may start growing very soon. If she can detect the first moment it appears, I might be able to prevent it from growing." At this news everyone was deeply concerned. And the princess, what did she do? She stayed in bed, day and night, directing all her attention to detecting when the tail might appear. Thus, after a few days, her eye got well.

I enjoy every moment I am outside. But when I am home, the feeling is so different already..

I'm sorry to hear about your loss but don't you think it is also time for you to move on with life ?  

One day when you're long over it, you'll find these memories again and you'll most likely be able to look at them and think of fond memories or experiences that you've been changed by. You can always take something positive away from it so that you can apply into the next relationships to come.

 It is okay to let it all out but don't take it too far and for too long.

I have also taken a yr plus to get over my grievance of an emotional loss. It is normal for a human being to feel that loss for a period of time. Take care ok :)

 

 

Cool. me available, pm me. Good looking asswipe for sale

Originally posted by Dongybell:

It has been a long time since I hit the forums. I usually do that only when I feel extreme loneliness.

Today, I found out my exbf has found a new girl. It has been almost half a year since we broke up, but I cant seem to get over him. We were together for more than two years. As I type this, tears cant stop flowing down my cheeks. Everyday I am kept busy with school and outing with friends. But everything I do seems to remind me of him. I still yearn for him to come back to me. I always thought there will be a chance, but now, I feel so crushed. So depressed.

I hate this feeling. I am scared. 

So your ex-bf has got a few gf. He's probably happy hanging out with his gf now. So why are you still crying? The guy you love is happy, aren't you suppose to be happy for him too?

Perhaps you have to seriously and truefully ask yourself this question: do you truely love him, or do you just yearn for him to be by your side? do you rather he stay with you and be unhappy, or be happy with other girls?

Love, my dear, is about selflessness.

Acceptance. It takes time. 

Don't stay in the pity-me land and don't ask why. Some things are not just meant to be.

 

You've centred too much of your life around your ex. It's time to let it go, no matter how tough it may be.

Have you lost sight of your family, your friends? They're still there for you. Or have you been so blinded by your memories, that you didn't notice that special someone who has been rooting for you all along?

Give yourself a chance to have a fresh start. What's in the past is gone. Look forward again.

Hmm ..... puppy love ?

Ah Girl , this is destiny la , do believe in destiny .

He is destined not yours , why cry for someone destined not yours ?

God is fair one la ..... God will arrange someone better than him , at the meantime , just wait a bit .

Gets on with your life , no point crying .

Buck them yourself , have a deep breathe , get a life .

One day ..... one fine day , that special one will arrive into your life , and u just have to thank God u did the right thing .

 

 

It's too late to apologize ...

I say it's too late ....

 

Originally posted by SquarePants:

It's too late to apologize ...

I say it's too late ....

 

knn im listening to tis song now!

Dear, posting here will increase yr fear further, lots of sicko, pyscho, wolf, crocodiles and even alligators here u know.

 

So, keep to yourself. Study hard and do yr parents proud, unlike jie jie me never study, so loiter in joo chiat street ya, me regretted.

 

Next time, u get older and sucessful, there will be more alligator and crocodiles going after you, even godzilla and king kong may join in, and by that time, u think back what you posted here, you  will laugh over it

Originally posted by Dongybell:

It has been a long time since I hit the forums. I usually do that only when I feel extreme loneliness.

Today, I found out my exbf has found a new girl. It has been almost half a year since we broke up, but I cant seem to get over him. We were together for more than two years. As I type this, tears cant stop flowing down my cheeks. Everyday I am kept busy with school and outing with friends. But everything I do seems to remind me of him. I still yearn for him to come back to me. I always thought there will be a chance, but now, I feel so crushed. So depressed.

I hate this feeling. I am scared. 

Albeit it has been almost half a year, you have not moved an inch.

You merely delay resolving the outcome until a later date.

Now that that second verdict is out (first is when the both of you broke up), it seemed that you have reiterated this crisis a second time, like rewinding the entire episode once again within your psyche.

Then problem doesn't lies with the time that has passively passed you by; rather, it's the inability to accept your situation that is causing you great misery.

You have two choices: to continue with denial tactics or to dissolve this pain through higher understanding.

Until the day you become gain acceptance, only then, recovery can begin its work.

Cheers

Now u feel crashed becoz he has a new gf right.. jus think abt it.. he already has a new gf.. what use is it of thinking abt him.

Life is only this short. nobody knows tml will bring. Why don u use all your strength to pick yourself up

First step, u must know u have to move on. Everyday also got pple breaking up. But the earth also keep spinning.. u can do this.. u know, this is only temporary, after a while, u will get over him.

Secondly u must believe u will get over him.. then give a bit time.. then u can do it.

当你快乐时，你要想，这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时，你要想，这痛苦也不是永恒的.

Two words.. Move on.

Originally posted by Isis:

当你快乐时，你要想，这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时，你要想，这痛苦也不是永恒的.

There is no joy without pain. But really, you should move on Miss Dongybell.