do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by lenore @ Thu, 08 May 2008 13:02:15 +0800

lenore — Thu, 08 May 2008 13:02:15 +0800

Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:

but hor libra is flirtatious....

go to www.lilycat.net to find out more bout horoscope

hmmm, i'm a gemini so i've read up on it. and flirtatious doesn't limit to one sign only i guess.

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by popikachu @ Wed, 07 May 2008 21:11:54 +0800

popikachu — Wed, 07 May 2008 21:11:54 +0800

hai yo...

you want to limit all her friends to just a tiny small circle nia meh?

trust her...

although relationship isn't just trusting, but relations cannot do without this thing call trust...

Cheer ^^

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by ItchyArmpit @ Wed, 07 May 2008 20:33:15 +0800

ItchyArmpit — Wed, 07 May 2008 20:33:15 +0800

Originally posted by lenore:

horoscope readings say that those under the gemini sign are flirts and fall in love easily. so i guess that's why sebo say shld be careful. i'm not sure for aquarius though.

but hor libra is flirtatious....

go to www.lilycat.net to find out more bout horoscope

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by lenore @ Wed, 07 May 2008 09:27:04 +0800

lenore — Wed, 07 May 2008 09:27:04 +0800

Originally posted by Lorry`:

if gemini or aquarius why must be careful leh?

horoscope readings say that those under the gemini sign are flirts and fall in love easily. so i guess that's why sebo say shld be careful. i'm not sure for aquarius though.

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Midlusionz @ Tue, 06 May 2008 23:57:42 +0800

Midlusionz — Tue, 06 May 2008 23:57:42 +0800

Originally posted by cuddles:

is he trying to say you naggy? lol.. just kidding..

He's not naggy but a very nice person to talk to.. Trust mi lol HE IS!

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Midlusionz @ Tue, 06 May 2008 23:57:09 +0800

Midlusionz — Tue, 06 May 2008 23:57:09 +0800

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

So is that a good or a bad thing?

Cheers

I dunno how to answer ler :lol: xD

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by cuddles @ Tue, 06 May 2008 23:41:44 +0800

cuddles — Tue, 06 May 2008 23:41:44 +0800

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

So is that a good or a bad thing?

Cheers

is he trying to say you naggy? lol.. just kidding..

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Yunhaier @ Tue, 06 May 2008 23:39:23 +0800

Yunhaier — Tue, 06 May 2008 23:39:23 +0800

Originally posted by Midlusionz:

Ur post forever take mi mins to read >.> but its very true..

So is that a good or a bad thing?

Cheers

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Lorry` @ Tue, 06 May 2008 23:38:38 +0800

Lorry` — Tue, 06 May 2008 23:38:38 +0800

Originally posted by sebosebo:

if shes gemini or aquarius (esp gemini!) u gota be careful luh, if shes scorpio or libra, shud be safe. but even if shes gemini, the more u try to possess her, the more she wud wana break free.

if gemini or aquarius why must be careful leh?

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by kcockicht @ Tue, 06 May 2008 21:34:13 +0800

kcockicht — Tue, 06 May 2008 21:34:13 +0800

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Karma88 @ Tue, 06 May 2008 20:58:13 +0800

Karma88 — Tue, 06 May 2008 20:58:13 +0800

haha i was just like you .

a few months back when my girl friend just became my girlfriend .

I was super jealous whenever we go club together she would play with her guy friends dance and a lot of guys would want to dance with her ask her go drink and all . But who could blame her ? Shes a model .

But then now i got used to it . Cause she told me that she really love only me . And gave me something . hehe

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by kcockicht @ Tue, 06 May 2008 19:11:04 +0800

kcockicht — Tue, 06 May 2008 19:11:04 +0800

my boyfwen gets jealous easily. when he sees my galfwen fukin me he want to join in so suggesting a threesome. i say no i want my galfwen for myself so he always suk thumb sit one corner watch. somex he bian tahan he suk his own crok

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by ukillgy @ Tue, 06 May 2008 15:24:51 +0800

ukillgy — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:24:51 +0800

Originally posted by Nikar 3:

my advice to you now is to play it cool like you don't give a darn to her. even if you're crying inside, just pretend like you don't care even if other guys **** her.

the more you pamper and care for a girl, the more she'll want to search for other guys. it's like that.

pretend to lose interest in her, dramatically reduce the number of times you see her etc. this will make her feel intrigued as to what happened to you and make her come back to you.

basically, what you do is that you let her know that you're aware that she's having fun with other guys and using her ex-boyfriend's password etc., but keep the tone really cool(not sarcastic!)

e.g:

1) whoa! yesterday you went to pool to play with those hunks eh? so which part of your body they touch?

hell, we can even have orgy together! 5 guys and you!

(laugh naturally, loudly at this point)

2) (laugh) he he! the laptop you use your ex-boyfriend's handphone no. ar? all numbers not really safe meh, must add in a bit of alphabets....how about combining his name into the password?

basically, you get the meaning. just adapt it to your own situation since you know better.

the core is there.

you may think this method will let her have more chance with other guys....but think: if she really no reaction even if you ignore her etc., will she make a good wife in future? is this the kinda girl u want to marry and bring home to show your parents?

given your current situation, you'll only add fuel to the fire if you quarrel with her or show more concern for her.

remember that nice guys finish last. it's time to play the good jerk.

the above method above will guarantee that her mind will start thinking "why he don't care about me?" and "how come his reaction like this one? he treat me as toy is it"?

and what happens next? we see Smooth12 getting the last laugh in the end.

If it was ger who get jealous like TS, will the girls do this?? From what i feel, it was always the guy who keep bluffing themselves using this kind things

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by shade343 @ Tue, 06 May 2008 15:03:04 +0800

shade343 — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:03:04 +0800

Originally posted by Nikar 3:

my advice to you now is to play it cool like you don't give a darn to her. even if you're crying inside, just pretend like you don't care even if other guys **** her.

the more you pamper and care for a girl, the more she'll want to search for other guys. it's like that.

pretend to lose interest in her, dramatically reduce the number of times you see her etc. this will make her feel intrigued as to what happened to you and make her come back to you.

basically, what you do is that you let her know that you're aware that she's having fun with other guys and using her ex-boyfriend's password etc., but keep the tone really cool(not sarcastic!)

e.g:

1) whoa! yesterday you went to pool to play with those hunks eh? so which part of your body they touch?

hell, we can even have orgy together! 5 guys and you!

(laugh naturally, loudly at this point)

2) (laugh) he he! the laptop you use your ex-boyfriend's handphone no. ar? all numbers not really safe meh, must add in a bit of alphabets....how about combining his name into the password?

basically, you get the meaning. just adapt it to your own situation since you know better.

the core is there.

you may think this method will let her have more chance with other guys....but think: if she really no reaction even if you ignore her etc., will she make a good wife in future? is this the kinda girl u want to marry and bring home to show your parents?

given your current situation, you'll only add fuel to the fire if you quarrel with her or show more concern for her.

remember that nice guys finish last. it's time to play the good jerk.

the above method above will guarantee that her mind will start thinking "why he don't care about me?" and "how come his reaction like this one? he treat me as toy is it"?

and what happens next? we see Smooth12 getting the last laugh in the end.

haha

farnie

so childish.

LOL

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by gunner77 @ Tue, 06 May 2008 14:31:13 +0800

gunner77 — Tue, 06 May 2008 14:31:13 +0800

the 1st part -> confirm plus chop u get jealous easily

the 2nd part -> errr, i donno wat to say

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by caleb_chiang @ Tue, 06 May 2008 14:18:47 +0800

caleb_chiang — Tue, 06 May 2008 14:18:47 +0800

Ai yo... you too possessive liao lah... you and her might be an item but she do not belong to you...

for the password thingy, ask her not to lock her computer since everyone is using it then no need password liao lor...

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by richong 3216 @ Tue, 06 May 2008 12:10:45 +0800

richong 3216 — Tue, 06 May 2008 12:10:45 +0800

What abt checking with google the term "morbid jealousy" & c if it rings a bell in u.

I m saying this with no bad intention but only wish u well & all the best.

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by sebosebo @ Tue, 06 May 2008 10:53:07 +0800

sebosebo — Tue, 06 May 2008 10:53:07 +0800

if shes gemini or aquarius (esp gemini!) u gota be careful luh, if shes scorpio or libra, shud be safe. but even if shes gemini, the more u try to possess her, the more she wud wana break free.

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by BotaHead @ Tue, 06 May 2008 09:13:32 +0800

BotaHead — Tue, 06 May 2008 09:13:32 +0800

love has make u weak and insecure?

handle the relationship well and u will have the relatiopnship.

handle the relationship badly and u will lose the relationship.

in any relationship, trust and confidence is very important, if u doesn’t have any of it, go figure how to build it

good luck

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Hanagata @ Tue, 06 May 2008 08:58:18 +0800

Hanagata — Tue, 06 May 2008 08:58:18 +0800

you think too much liao lah... if you dun trust your gf... then break lor...

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Fatum @ Tue, 06 May 2008 08:05:33 +0800

Fatum — Tue, 06 May 2008 08:05:33 +0800

a woman's heart is frail ......

if you don't get jealous at all, that means she doesn't mean that much to you ....

and if you trust her too much ..... she WILL cheat on you .....

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by Midlusionz @ Tue, 06 May 2008 07:11:32 +0800

Midlusionz — Tue, 06 May 2008 07:11:32 +0800

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

There isn't a thing as the prerogative to be jealous; we merely justify this feeling as a result of some external events that we did not how to resolve or interpret emotionally, hence we classify it as jealousy. There isn't an absolute line to draw, other than independent self regulation to minimize feeling crappy.

The password thing, imho, is completely nonsense. CloUdiSm classify it as symbolic jealousy, where people are affected because they compose meaning to an act or behavior that by itself has no other implication other than its functional meaning. You unconsciously suspect that there 'must' be something going on within her, since she is using her ex-bf mobile number, but hell, that probably represents none of your speculation.

What happens is that you are likely:

1) You are an insecure person.

2) Sees love as a form of possession. (Unconscious perception belongs to a lower plane in love - CloUdiSm).

As for her playing a fool, are you expecting her to wear a stern face and go through the camp as if the world owes her a great deal? Of course she would want to make merry and have fun. Your emotions are a trigger of your defensive mechanism - when you find it difficult to accommodate the new found knowledge internally and resolve it (probably worst if you are a Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius or Taurus).

Everyone generally suffers various degree of jealousy - the only cause for concern lies when jealousy adversely affects the relationship, be it whether it is justified or not. One myth about jealousy is that some people believed that it only manifest through triggering from the external environment - but the truth is that it's almost 100% an inside job. Jealousy is a self demon - the people around you cannot feel the intensity of your emotion, unlike anger or fear, and it is often insidious.

Like some hideous phantasmal forces, it feeds on your gnawing inferiority, gaining strength as your self esteem fades from the lack of holistic understanding in love. If you want to work on 'jealousy', you got to work on your insecurity - by patching the emotional vulnerabilities that allow this 'demonic emotions' to exploit your inner self.

The causes of insecurity are myriad and it isn't easy to pinpoint the exact root; even more arduous to implement changes.

But I will just leave you with a simple thought to ponder:

You can't stop love from leaving on its own accord, but you have every span of control to prevent yourself from pushing love away. Ironically, most people understood this only when they understood regret. Perhaps enlightenment and regret is but two side of the coin, derived from the same product.

Cheers

Ur post forever take mi mins to read >.> but its very true..

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by smooth12 @ Tue, 06 May 2008 01:36:25 +0800

smooth12 — Tue, 06 May 2008 01:36:25 +0800

thanks guys, now i know what to do =)

now i see how anynomous third party views can help haha

*cheers* =D

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by bryanw @ Tue, 06 May 2008 00:58:10 +0800

bryanw — Tue, 06 May 2008 00:58:10 +0800

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Yah.. I did..and that was the happiest day of the relationship.

When I walked away.. I feel alive again.. a sense of relief overwhelms me.

I feel free....

gd 4 u. u r now free.

do i get jealous too easily? =( replied by jojobeach @ Tue, 06 May 2008 00:55:30 +0800

jojobeach — Tue, 06 May 2008 00:55:30 +0800

Originally posted by bryanw:

so selfish. he is not ready for relationship. leave him.

Yah.. I did..and that was the happiest day of the relationship.

When I walked away.. I feel alive again.. a sense of relief overwhelms me.

I feel free....

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