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Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....say you're attached, who come first? Friends or your partner? I've seen guys and girls treat their partner rather badly but not their friends. I don't think this is proper, you should treat your partner with respect and make him/her feels important...
balance. treat gf too important also not good. treat friends too important makes the gf looks redundant. so best is balance.
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Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:
.....well, if I know the "obvious" I wouldn't be asking here. so your "obvious" is..?sheesh.. you have a girlfriend and you don't treat her better than your normal friends then what the hell kind of boyfriend are you?
wah lau eh... if you have a girlfriend in the future, i would pity her...
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
balance.
have time for both parties, dont neglect your gf for friends and vice versa.
by 'treating' here, i would assume companionship.im with cuddles.
I didn't balance well in the past. thus it dragged for quite a while. in the end when I try to balance, it's already too late. not only I'm not myself anymore, I'm also nowhere.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
There's no need to choose.
If you are a nice person, you can treat both your friends AND your bf/gf well.
If you can only be nice to one and nasty to the other.. you're just a hypocrite.
This I agree........and friends are the ones who will be by your side through breakups.
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