no string attached r/s
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hi.
my gf who has broken up w me few days back told me today that she is unable to let go. feel lost without me.
i was so miserable. i couldnt let go too.
she asked me to be with her, still be thr for her, be around in her life but not in r/s. cuz she thinks that having a rs stresses her.. the word rs makes her feel tied down.
asked me consider.
should i??
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??????
Very confusing.
So, she wants you to be her fark buddy issit ?
What is no string attached relationshiP?
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Originally posted by pyjamasgirl:
hi.
my gf who has broken up w me few days back told me today that she is unable to let go. feel lost without me.
i was so miserable. i couldnt let go too.
she asked me to be with her, still be thr for her, be around in her life but not in r/s. cuz she thinks that having a rs stresses her.. the word rs makes her feel tied down.
asked me consider.
should i??
up to u... since u cannot let go yet then stick to it but gradually breakoff or if ur tactics worked then can be back fulltime.... -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
??????
Very confusing.
So, she wants you to be her fark buddy issit ?
What is no string attached relationshiP?
probably means uh, non-monogamy? free to date around?
to pyjamasgirl: very much depends on your feelings towards her.... doesnt mean that if she said shes returning, cant let go and you have to accept. Is she the one who initiate the breakup or is it you? I guess she just wants somebody to be around.... to ahem ahem when bored but dont relate it as r/s
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When she find someone new, u get jealous then u are in the wrong. I can tell u this type of r/s won't have any outcome and dun expect anything out of it.
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break off already still can be good friends.
if you can take it ... just ignore her. coz she is just another inmature kid.
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lesbian rs...of cos stressed
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wah free piak piak buddy....
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lol... lesbo or wht ar.
anyways .. no strings just means hanging out .. doing things couples do but no attachments of feelings and all right ? lol..
i dun mind actually , but i feel that its a bit warped some how. lol
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piak piak her and she will stick to you
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From wat i observed.."No String Attached" kindda r'ship are 'adult games' tat involves great deal of maturity so tat one is able to handle/control the emotions tat may comes with it. Moreover, "No String Attached" r'ship is STILL a r'ship.
No advisable, really..She onli wants to play ard, it's a pretty irresponsible attitude i must say.
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Boey/spare tire~
When a ship comes... she will not even remember you.. -
cool shiet.
give her one time gou li gou li.
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she wants the good part of the relationship, but not the bad parts
tell her to wake up.
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jus fark her and dump her
remember dun wear condom !
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R u lesbian?Girls r good in manipulating.
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well done! u have just gotten urself a potential fark buddy
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She's flying you like a kite, tugging you close when she needs you, only to let you go later when she finds a better one.
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NVM
I am available.
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if both of u are on the same page... then it is ok that u have a NSA relationship....
however, if not, then a nsa r/s is not advisable....
same page, means that you guys can define what you mean by a nsa relationship.. does it mean that you can date other people? or what??
Are you both in the same state of mind... in that both parties know that it is 'impossible' long term for both of u... or is one party harbouring thougghts or getting back with each other...
also have the both of you thought about what to do when one party found another partner... and want to be exclusive to her/him?
if u can both agree to the above..... then nsa is 'wonderful' and is the most ideal solution.
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yea, agree with spencer
i mean, if both of you are of the same frequency, both allow the other party to date around, then it's good to go.. like why not. Just have a talk and discuss
but if your not, you prefer to have 1 partner only, and you couldnt take it that she swings around, then nope, it's not for you.