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ask her out for a drink lor. if she accepts, means she don't see you as a threat. if she rejects you, means she don't want you to think that she likes you more than an acquantance.
then after that, ask her out for dinner, if she accepts, means she sees you as a friend, if she rejects, means u're rushing it and she feels threatened.
after that, ask her out for movie, if she accepts, means she is available emotionally, if she rejects, same as above.
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sorry for not going into details,
dinner wise ive been dating her quite often, whenever i ask her out she jus agrees.
movies r always dinner isnt it ? but yes to it too.
thing is, i dun wnana rush or seen trying too hard to woo her, and she once said that many guys tried to ask her out for a date but she's always with me - what does this sentence supposed to mean ?
it sounds like kinda close/buddy friend dinner isnt it ? or who knows, im kinda confused.
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
sorry for not going into details,
dinner wise ive been dating her quite often, whenever i ask her out she jus agrees.
movies r always dinner isnt it ? but yes to it too.
thing is, i dun wnana rush or seen trying too hard to woo her, and she once said that many guys tried to ask her out for a date but she's always with me - what does this sentence supposed to mean ?
it sounds like kinda close/buddy friend dinner isnt it ? or who knows, im kinda confused.
alone with her? any reason involve like help her do smth then she agree to go out with u??
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
sorry for not going into details,
dinner wise ive been dating her quite often, whenever i ask her out she jus agrees.
movies r always dinner isnt it ? but yes to it too.
thing is, i dun wnana rush or seen trying too hard to woo her, and she once said that many guys tried to ask her out for a date but she's always with me - what does this sentence supposed to mean ?
it sounds like kinda close/buddy friend dinner isnt it ? or who knows, im kinda confused.
lol. 2 words: CHIONG AH!!
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
sorry for not going into details,
dinner wise ive been dating her quite often, whenever i ask her out she jus agrees.
movies r always dinner isnt it ? but yes to it too.
thing is, i dun wnana rush or seen trying too hard to woo her, and she once said that many guys tried to ask her out for a date but she's always with me - what does this sentence supposed to mean ?
it sounds like kinda close/buddy friend dinner isnt it ? or who knows, im kinda confused.
that's a hint... i thk really can chiong.
Edited by tripsky 16 May `08, 12:12PM
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ifsh : no reason.
but sometimes there's a hot/cold feeling she's playing towards me, thts why i cant be certain.
haha, chiong for it ? i feel like its kinda rushing leh, must be certain then can chiong what. now is like 50/50.
any other way to "test water" rather than be straightforward with her ? the only thing thats bothering me is the thin line between good friends/feelings for me ?
many thanks.
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Advice on confession depends on her age, character and her relationship experience.
Logically, nothing wrong in expressing your feelings.
Emotionally, continue dating and let you or her emotions burst.
Witty, ask her questions that indirectly lead her to express her feelings to you. You can talk your way out if it does not turns out well
Agressively, start shower gifts and attention to her. Gradually, let her feel that she is special.
Subtilely, I hate this method. Make use of jealousy to test her reaction
There are many methods depending on your target's character. You just need to brainstorm.
Used them if you are interested in her. Or else, dont bother using.
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Erm this is one of the thread that i would say the TS is not self-dillusioned at least. xD(Refer to the 10001 thread on guys tinking girls haf a crush on him just coz the ger accidently made eye contact and smiled
)I tink the lady maybe a lil interested in u based on all that u haf said so far provided u nv overdramatise anything. Continue to stand by her la. I'll say u have quite a good chance! =D
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
thing is, i dun wnana rush or seen trying too hard to woo her, and she once said that many guys tried to ask her out for a date but she's always with me - what does this sentence supposed to mean ?
u waiting for feb 29th ah? or feb 30th? lol.. go for it man.. if that sound like a hint to u, i duno what's "telling u the truth".. lol..
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
yea, im kinda like her too..
so now what ? jus be frank to her and confess my feelings to her or jus date her more often till she confess her feelings to me ? lol..
date some more.. abit more, ascertain it, den confess lo.. it shud come naturally, dun force it.. how long haf u been going out wif her..?
but u must oso confess correctly leh.. dun screw it up.. try to sit her down and stuff.. den say how u feel abt her..
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^^ haha, thts why im afraid to screw things up, i was hoping it will come naturally but like somebody said dont stay at the same spot for too long, who knows which guy will jus pop in.
oh yah 1 more thing, does calling / sms - ing u mean anything ? she will often call me, jus to ask what im doing and stuff, chat for awhile then hang up.
jus a normal call ? that leaves me clueless sometimes.
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Originally posted by sorrorofstars:
^^ haha, thts why im afraid to screw things up, i was hoping it will come naturally but like somebody said dont stay at the same spot for too long, who knows which guy will jus pop in.
oh yah 1 more thing, does calling / sms - ing u mean anything ? she will often call me, jus to ask what im doing and stuff, chat for awhile then hang up.
jus a normal call ? that leaves me clueless sometimes.
i think thats normal..
guys need to think about their day while gals actually need to talk it out..
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When a lady is in love with a man,
her prone weakness is 'jealousy'! >.< but u must be
sensitive enough to detect her jealousy wor! 
she gone out gai gai liao 
L
