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I liked a ger (H) again recently, I say again cos I liked this ger during my poly days but she eventually went on a relationship with my classmate. I nvr told anybody abt this during my poly days, not even my best friend and I call him D here. Suddenly, during 1 of our class outing after we graduated, D told mi tat he knows that i liked H.
Fast forward to now, I liked H again but i was not sure if she is single. I finally found out she is single and i started my pursuing, this time i told H's gd friend Q and she acts as an advisor to mi. Recently, I went out with H, D and another friend and i was observing the interaction between H and D. I can feel tat D is also interested in H cos D is doing all the things tat i had done like wat i done to pursue her. I told Q abt this and she told mi tt she is not sure, but after hearing my observations she also tink tat D is interested in H.
I really liked this ger, cos i tink tat this is a 2nd chance given to mi after the chance tat i missed during poly days. The problem is tat i had to compete with my best friend in poly and i dun believe in letting the other people have the ger due to our friend relationship. I feel inferior to D cos from the outing recently, i can see tat they are keeping in contact regularly and D knows H more than i do: her life, work and family. I am a person with low confidence in myself, but i dun tink i should give up the ger and I dun wan my relationship with D becoming bad due to both of us liking H. I need some comments.... Thanks
Edited by daniu82 23 May `08, 4:01PM
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I tink i should not give up until i noe the final decision made by her..... I just went out with her and i feel tat the feeling shown by her is not very negative.... I was told by other people that i should just continue to pursue and dun care abt my gd friend D. They also say that i can only decide if my 1st date with her is successful if i asked her out a 2nd time and see her response....
Edited by daniu82 23 May `08, 4:13PM
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Originally posted by daniu82:
Should I go and ask D if he is interested in H also or just keep quiet???
don't need to make everything so straight and clear. spoils the relationship. just be yourself. if he knows her more than you, u're probably losing already. accept it as a fair and square thing. just do what you should do..
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Yo dude, nothing is confirm till ROM ok, every guys have his right to go after gals who is not married or ROM.
You dun be so lame can or not, we gals also like to choose, we need to wait and see, cos marrying a man is not like playing with hamster ok, doesn't mean we talk or spend more time with the other guy, we will go for him...no no no...! You guys are so narrow minded, be more open to accept thing lah.
Let me tell you the true, if u are my bf and i knew that you hv no confident in me and yet you love me, i will ask you to go fly kite.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Yo dude, nothing is confirm till ROM ok, every guys have his right to go after gals who is not married or ROM.
You dun be so lame can or not, we gals also like to choose, we need to wait and see, cos marrying a man is not like playing with hamster ok, doesn't mean we talk or spend more time with the other guy, we will go for him...no no no...! You guys are so narrow minded, be more open to accept thing lah.
Let me tell you the true, if u are my bf and i knew that you hv no confident in me and yet you love me, i will ask you to go fly kite.
It is not tat i dun have confidence in the ger, but i got no confidence in myself as i am more introvert than my friend and my "kuo chai" is not gd.... I know the ger now have a choice, it is not tat i am the only suitor... Even if i am the only suitor, if she tink we are not compartible she wun choose mi also.... I can only hope she is still in the considering part and see which guy she likes more....
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Bro...
they say life is like a straight road...
you keep on walking and you will meet people who will change your life, at the same time you will also meet the girls whom you might like and would love to spend your life with her. However dun be sad if this girl reject you even if you try, who knows she might be the stepping stone for you to find the 'one' who is destined for you in the future?
one word...live your life like theres no tomorrow, jus TRY...you will not regret in the future..
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this kind of thing hard to say de.. mayb she waiting for u to initiate... forgo the friendship for love, if things really need to go this way... u like her, ask her out more... dun like her, den dun care about D n H.. easy rite.. hav more self-confidnece.. go do more running, weight trainings... tsk tsk
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