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if being stupid a second time will not kill my friendship with this guy, i would tell me my feelings again. i did try to let him know a year ago, and it was to my disappointment at that time. he has done many things that has made me feel that it was not impossible for the both of us. shouldnt guys make the first move? should i tell him again??
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this guy i like is like my very good friend. everyone sees us as a pair. last year i tried to tell him my feelings, and he didnt really give me an answer, we just continued going out and being normal friends. now it has been a year, and i was wondering if i should tell him a second time. but i dont wanna be stupid a 2nd time.
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actually i know that may work, but i have difficulty asking that common friend to ask, cuz she has so many probs of her own. sometimes i really wished i could forget about him and move on. but i cant. the thought of not leaving for my education overseas crossed my mind before, and its all cuz of him. i wonder if its worth all these.
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I think you should .
Gather all yhour courage and ask him one last time . Like seriously sit down with him and talk about it .
If he still like act blur and all then it`s time you move on and just take him as your friend . After all 10 years of friendship hard to come by .
It`s gonna be hard to move on but trust me when u have finally got over him , your life would be much better . Cause u didnt lose a friend and at least you wont regreat not tell him your true feelings .
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haha, everytime i want to say it, the words dont seem to come out. and i dont know if our friendship wil be like before if i really told him straight. the other time was just a msg, and we pretended nothing happened. this time wil be so much more risky.
i cant stand myself being so stubborn about him too. i really dont know where to find that courage.
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this was what happened a year ago. i sent him a msg to tell him my feelings, and he just act blur. after that we continued to go out. and i was just waiting for an ans. about 1 mth later, after he sent me home one day, i received a msg, he said he actually liked another girl, and sorry he took so long to tell me. i was fine, and even encouraged him to tell that girl. so he did, and that girl rejected him.
for the past one year, we just pretended that everything has never happened, and continued being good friends. he was slightly depressed and with my encouragement, he got back on his own feet, he told me he had me to thank.
im always the one who intiates going out, so one fine day i realised i should stop it so i stopped myself from calling him. a month later he called. during this one mth that we lost contact, he feel back to depression again, and many things happened.
now we are normal, and all these time i thought i could tell myself to get over this guy. am i just stubborn or what?
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tat being e case, is history in e making