enough

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 22:38

  if being stupid a second time will not kill my friendship with this guy, i would tell me my feelings again. i did try to let him know a year ago, and it was to my disappointment at that time. he has done many things that has made me feel that it was not impossible for the both of us. shouldnt guys make the first move? should i tell him again??
• seotiblizzard

  28 May 08, 22:47

  Huh? I dont really understand wad u say.

• FireIce

  28 May 08, 22:47

  你哪一�呀?

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 22:52

  this guy i like is like my very good friend. everyone sees us as a pair. last year i tried to tell him my feelings, and he didnt really give me an answer, we just continued going out and being normal friends. now it has been a year, and i was wondering if i should tell him a second time. but i dont wanna be stupid a 2nd time.
• ifish

  28 May 08, 22:53

  how old are you?

• rain-coat

  28 May 08, 22:55

  tell now lah...its never too late

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 22:57

  19 going on 20. i knew him since we were 9, i dare not risk the friendship.
• seotiblizzard

  28 May 08, 22:58

  Oh ic. Now liddat better.

  Hint him again.

  If not then Tell him.

• rain-coat

  28 May 08, 22:59

  if you tell its a 50 -50 chance. if you don tell its really no chance

• ifish

  28 May 08, 23:02

  some guys,

  even though like that gal also wont dare say one..

  especially for a very very long time friendship..

  cause they dont want to lose a friend..

   

   

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 23:05

  sometimes he will do really little things to surprise me like buy me something when he goes overseas, or bring supper to my house, other times he dont even reply my msgs or stop contacting me for weeks. i really dont know whats in his mind. how to hint?
• seotiblizzard

  28 May 08, 23:14

  I thought girls were good at dropping hints. -.-" LOL.

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 23:22

  maybe i did hint or maybe he showed signs but i dont get it. so what are the signs, i heard so many and im really confused. im not the sensitive kinda girl who gets all these things. and im so tired trying to guess his thoughts now.
• rain-coat

  28 May 08, 23:23

  maybe he also likes you but wants to be sure or something like that?

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 23:29

  why cant he make a move then. when i told him my feelings the other time, i used up all my courage. and hes the guy. why do i have to make the move again.
• seotiblizzard

  28 May 08, 23:32

  Ifs thats the case, get someone to ask.

  Like his Good friend, or ur mutual friend.

  Try to probe la.

  If All else fails, then ASK.

• iwishiwilliwould

  28 May 08, 23:46

  actually i know that may work, but i have difficulty asking that common friend to ask, cuz she has so many probs of her own. sometimes i really wished i could forget about him and move on. but i cant. the thought of not leaving for my education overseas crossed my mind before, and its all cuz of him. i wonder if its worth all these.
• Karma88

  29 May 08, 00:09

  I think you should .

  Gather all yhour courage and ask him one last time . Like seriously sit down with him and talk about it .

  If he still like act blur and all then it`s time you move on and just take him as your friend . After all 10 years of friendship hard to come by .

  It`s gonna be hard to move on but trust me when u have finally got over him , your life would be much better . Cause u didnt lose a friend and at least you wont regreat not tell him your true feelings .

• lenore

  29 May 08, 00:15

  he nv reciprocate that feeling the first time, maybe he just dun see you as more than a friend but dunno how to tell you?

• iwishiwilliwould

  29 May 08, 00:16

  haha, everytime i want to say it, the words dont seem to come out. and i dont know if our friendship wil be like before if i really told him straight. the other time was just a msg, and we pretended nothing happened. this time wil be so much more risky. i cant stand myself being so stubborn about him too. i really dont know where to find that courage.
• iwishiwilliwould

  29 May 08, 00:28

  this was what happened a year ago. i sent him a msg to tell him my feelings, and he just act blur. after that we continued to go out. and i was just waiting for an ans. about 1 mth later, after he sent me home one day, i received a msg, he said he actually liked another girl, and sorry he took so long to tell me. i was fine, and even encouraged him to tell that girl. so he did, and that girl rejected him. for the past one year, we just pretended that everything has never happened, and continued being good friends. he was slightly depressed and with my encouragement, he got back on his own feet, he told me he had me to thank. im always the one who intiates going out, so one fine day i realised i should stop it so i stopped myself from calling him. a month later he called. during this one mth that we lost contact, he feel back to depression again, and many things happened. now we are normal, and all these time i thought i could tell myself to get over this guy. am i just stubborn or what?
• xavier1979

  29 May 08, 07:52

  This guy doesn't want to tie himself down in a relationship.

• Uncertain

  29 May 08, 08:35

  Haha, isn't the answer obvious TS? Stop deceiving yourself cos ur heart is ruling ur mind now.

• newcomer

  29 May 08, 08:39

  y dun u hook up wif another guy and test his reaction? 1 stone kill 2 birds.

• iwishiwilliwould

  29 May 08, 08:57

  he feel back to depression because i ignored him for a month. because he told me i was the reason he recovered the first time. he really cant tell how i feel for him? if i could fall in love with someone else, i think i would, but i cant help it.