Should I be self-fish?
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recently there is a girl that I like, but it seems that she got someone she likes. Me and her are pretty close, what should I do? Should I be self-fish and try to jio her or treasure the friendship and not doing anything?
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do or die
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Originally posted by henshin:
recently there is a girl that I like, but it seems that she got someone she likes. Me and her are pretty close, what should I do? Should I be self-fish and try to jio her or treasure the friendship and not doing anything?
Selfish and trying to go after her is two different matters....get your facts right
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love is selfish...
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respect her decision
give them ur blessings -
wait 1st
look left and right
maybe gt more ppl.
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if you can breathe under water and you have the choice, go ahead, be any fish you want - aswell as self fish there's tuna fish, cod fish... shelf fish isn't wise cos then you get eaten anyhoo go for it lol bit of a no brainer really - you like her, she's single... just be subtle so you don't blow the whole friendship
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It all start out this way:
Boy likes girl >> Girl likes other >> Other rejects girl >> Girl
breaks >> Boy comfort girl >> Girl touched >> Boy girl together.As long as she's not attached, you can initiate the courtship.
My 2 cents. Good luck!
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Court her or give up the thoughts.
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Originally posted by Q.C.Pak:
Selfish and trying to go after her is two different matters....get your facts right
I thought so too.
I'd go with.... Jezmeister's solution.... Jio but be subtle.... If failed, then respect her decision lor.
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You might want to factor in the loss of a close friend in the worse case scenario or even being in an awkward friendship which you eventually want to break away from.
Time and judge your chances, if you don't stand a chance; you can try, but if it were me I might stay as friends - until the time is right(which might not come or she might be woo'd by others)
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that is what happened to me last time, now I am traumatised and don't dare to confess or to court her.
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go for it man .
If she rejects you at least u wont have any regrets .
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Well while I'm caught on the fish line (oh I'm bad lol) tell her you're hung like a blue whale (mammal technically, but it still lives in water) that'll get you right in there disclaimer: this post is a really really really bad idea, i'm just on a roll with very bad puns based on your misspelling of 'selfish'
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Do you people had any idea how to confess? I'm really stupid at that.
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Originally posted by henshin:
Do you people had any idea how to confess? I'm really stupid at that.
dun listen to those guys, me a gal, i understand the feeling of a gal, you do not confess to a gal, your action tell a thousand words, we gal are more sensitive than you do, DO u not think she sense you like her?? sure she does. Do more of loving action like, gives her gifts, send her back, call her often and care for her with no string attach, know her habits and her likings, work on it and you will find you are gaining her heart.
We gal like to be taken care of, pamper, feel warm and protected, feel assured and will alway go for a guy who care for us, listen to us and know our heart.
So, dun hv to confess, just do the neccesary homeworks and she will be in your heart in not times, and for us gals, once we love someone, we love him forever even if thing may go wrong.
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So all I have to do is care for her?
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How should I hint to her that I like her?
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A quote from someone to me in the past...
"Love is selfish...
However love is not possession" -
if you two are close, how do you know that she do not have any feelings for you?
go for it. do not miss the opportunity while you still have it
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I don't know a girl's heart, I'm quite insensitive to these. What should I do to hint her?
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If u want something badly, solutions wll create & flood ur brain.
But hint? I find it being too subtle..I still want a direct approach so that the gal does not hav the chance to avoid the question. Oh well, different pple hav different preferences. U shall act accordin to how well u know her.
Either u do it & the chances of succeedin is higher or avoid it & miss the chance forever. Gambate! p
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