My Girlfriend
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
but truthfully.. sian la. if want gf, lose good friend, and vice versa, and it's because of irrational paranoia, which can be solved if the girl is abit more rational.
but i'm speaking under the assumption that TS isn't fooling around on his part etc.
2 solutions...
be friends with gf's girl-friends...definitely cannot fool around with them cause on the other hand the girl-friend would know that you are her good friend's bf...would be a bit*h to break up one's good friend relationship...(IMO)
have a common good friend between you two...meaning she and you know friend A even before you two got together...
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Rainee dear showed me this thread and after reading it I decided to post some of my thoughts :3
I am/was sort of in a similar situation as TS, where my SO sometimes will tend to over-think matters between me and another girl. (whom is my friend now, she was my ex-crush sometime back before I met Rainee.)
Like what Rainee dear posted, it will be best for the TS and his gf to be rationale, look at things as one big picture and reach a compromise on this matter. Leaving it as it will complicate things further. Have empathy and see in each other's shoes. A relationship will not work if it's just one party who is making all the compromisation, it takes 2 hands to clap.Hope TS will resolve this matter :3, as I hope too with mine hehe. 17more days wor Rainee, and hopefully by then you wun be pricked as much by this thorn as now liaoz XD~
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Originally posted by NekoRin:
Rainee dear showed me this thread and after reading it I decided to post some of my thoughts :3
I am/was sort of in a similar situation as TS, where my SO sometimes will tend to over-think matters between me and another girl. (whom is my friend now, she was my ex-crush sometime back before I met Rainee.)
Like what Rainee dear posted, it will be best for the TS and his gf to be rationale, look at things as one big picture and reach a compromise on this matter. Leaving it as it will complicate things further. Have empathy and see in each other's shoes. A relationship will not work if it's just one party who is making all the compromisation, it takes 2 hands to clap.Hope TS will resolve this matter :3, as I hope too with mine hehe. 17more days wor Rainee, and hopefully by then you wun be pricked as much by this thorn as now liaoz XD~
u marrying her? congrats!! she so nice!
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
u marrying her? congrats!! she so nice!
I am not nice all the time one k...
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I guess the effort has to come from the both of us. She really wants this relationship to work. But she says she won't force me to think the same.As of now she is just happy being mine.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
u marrying her? congrats!! she so nice!
Thanks :3