Originally posted by thebunny:I'm trying hard to move on as well. Lolx. You can keep yourself occupied. When u feel like emoing or start thinking about her, watch funny video clips/ drama.
ya, or alternatively, u can watch bugs bunny show or go my place at geyland to eat bunny porridge.
let her "breathe" bah..
the more u try 2 hold on 2 her..the further she might drift away from u..
Originally posted by ShuttleX:My ex just broke up with me about 1 and a half week ago. Her reason was that love was fading and she don't feel love for me anymore. I asked her if there was a 3rd party and she reassured me that there is no one and i trust her about that.
Then i asked if the problem was me or if there is any problems between us that i didnt notice. She said no, she just said that her love for me was fading and it wasn't fair for her to lead me on. Well, everything was so sudden, just days before the break up, i still surprised her with flowers and she also surprised me. We always led a very loving life together.
I know that many will ask me to move on, but i have still a lot of feelings for her. And i have always seen her as a potential life partner. I don't wanna lose her, especially for unknown reasons or problems. I don't know if her lost of feelings are temporary. I wanna get back together with her because i still see a lot potential in this relationship.
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After she broke up with me, i tried to ask her out and date her out. She went out with me for 2 times but after then she is very reluctant to. I know that the line is drawn and i have been treating her respectfully as a friend during these outings.
I have raised the issue about getting back together, but she rejected me politely. When i asked her if it is still possible in the future for us to get back, she says "I really dont know :("
Since then, she had been obviously avoiding me. More i try to contact her, the more she draws away from me. It has been very hurting but i have holding on to it. My friends are advising me to give her some time out first. Thats what i'm doing right now, i haven't been contacting her (neither did she contact me) for the past few days.
According a common friend, she is living life normally, and been trying to engage in various activities.
bad. idea.