Just a jiejie?

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:02

  Hi folks, im new to this forum so i guess i'll just post the first one of my problem.

  I am 17 this year and like all of u guys out there. i have someone i'm interested in. Just one small problem, she is my jiejie. Fake one. I always talked to her and we're really close frens.

  It came to this stage that i made my feelings clear to her. She told me that she likes another guy and always sees me as her DiDi. She added that she wants to be there for me always and care and concern for me like a special sister.

  I dont want this. I wan her instead. but i know i cant force this kinda thing. well to love a person is to let her be happy right?

  well she is happy but i dont feel happy still.

  Just to share my story. I believe many people have some similiar experience right?

• Agenda

  13 Jul 08, 15:10

  Ask her for incest.

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:12

  u ah beng rite?

  hw old is she?

  got pic anot?

• thehappybunny

  13 Jul 08, 15:14

  if she is your jie jie then story end liao.

• Agenda

  13 Jul 08, 15:14

  Hehe, this boy is from my ex sec-school and I think I know who the girl is.

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:18

  who who who?

  eh tell us leh!

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:22

  Hello Kitty im not ah beng larhs. Lol. And Agenda. WHO R U. LOL

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:22

  so ur jiejie pretty anot?

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:28

  LoL. i have to wait 5 min interval between each reply =.="

   

  Yea to me she definately is pretty

• Agenda

  13 Jul 08, 15:34

  Post pics post pics!

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:35

  agenda, u tell us lah.

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:36

  Lol. Must be strictly confidential. Later whole world know. Its not a very honourable thing u know? =D

• Agenda

  13 Jul 08, 15:36

  I don't know, I talk cock only.

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:39

  nvm, agenda.

  we pm & tok.

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:43

  Lol. Hello Kitty why u wanna know?

• Hello Kitty

  13 Jul 08, 15:44

  y canot.

  u tell oso tell us le leh.

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 15:49

  True true. But im in poly. If e whole poly know its not a good thing. Haha.

• burg

  13 Jul 08, 16:02

  be persistent but be careful not to be overbearing. if you are really into her than you shouldn't have a problem in waiting for her. patiece. wait it out. have faith that if she is the one for you than it will happen.

• rain-coat

  13 Jul 08, 16:46

  ok in times like this, pray. good luck have fun, at least you still can talk to her... by the way which poly are you in?

• Evangel

  13 Jul 08, 16:49

  Maybe she finds you too immature. Think about it.

• Daisuke-kun

  13 Jul 08, 17:14

  not me hor!

  i is oso got sch-jie but no special feelings 1.

• FusionWave

  13 Jul 08, 17:31

  To burg: Yea i guess waiting should not be a a problem thanks.

  To rain-coat: im a non-believer. =X haha. nyp.

  To Evangel: i guess im. My ex said so.

  Thx guys for the replies.

• Karma88

  13 Jul 08, 17:39

  Move on .

  There are many other girls out there .

• Prophecy_Master

  13 Jul 08, 18:53

  aiya this kind of wad god sister / brother all fake one la. i see it as an excuse to get close to someone.

  aiya u just be her di di lor, sooner or later will have chance one la, i mean feelings grow over time, meanwhile don't behave like a didi in front of her lor.

  instead of her for a penny for your thoughts, u ask her la, just reverse the "role" .

• 00king00

  13 Jul 08, 19:00

  she juz can't see u as a bf, might be due to various reasons, like not mature enough etc

  feelings can't be forced, so juz relax and in the meantime keep yr options open, there are so many gd gals out there too