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  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
    • Hi folks, im new to this forum so i guess i'll just post the first one of my problem.

      I am 17 this year and like all of u guys out there. i have someone i'm interested in. Just one small problem, she is my jiejie. Fake one. I always talked to her and we're really close frens.

      It came to this stage that i made my feelings clear to her. She told me that she likes another guy and always sees me as her DiDi. She added that she wants to be there for me always and care and concern for me like a special sister.

      I dont want this. I wan her instead. but i know i cant force this kinda thing. well to love a person is to let her be happy right?

      well she is happy but i dont feel happy still.

      Just to share my story. I believe many people have some similiar experience right?

  • Agenda's Avatar
    5,984 posts since Jan '06
  • Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs
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    19,074 posts since Dec '99
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    4,217 posts since Aug '07
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    5,984 posts since Jan '06
  • Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs
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    19,074 posts since Dec '99
  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
  • Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs
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    19,074 posts since Dec '99
  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
    • LoL. i have to wait 5 min interval between each reply =.="

       

      Yea to me she definately is pretty

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  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
    • Lol. Must be strictly confidential. Later whole world know. Its not a very honourable thing u know? =D

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    5,984 posts since Jan '06
  • Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs
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    19,074 posts since Dec '99
  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
  • Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs
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    19,074 posts since Dec '99
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    28 posts since Jul '08
  • burg's Avatar
    31 posts since Jul '08
    • be persistent but be careful not to be overbearing. if you are really into her than you shouldn't have a problem in waiting for her. patiece. wait it out. have faith that if she is the one for you than it will happen.

  • rain-coat's Avatar
    405 posts since Sep '07
    • ok in times like this, pray. good luck have fun, at least you still can talk to her... by the way which poly are you in?

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    549 posts since Sep '05
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    10,195 posts since Jun '07
  • FusionWave's Avatar
    28 posts since Jul '08
    • To burg: Yea i guess waiting should not be a a problem thanks.

      To rain-coat: im a non-believer. =X haha. nyp.

      To Evangel: i guess im. My ex said so.

      Thx guys for the replies.

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    951 posts since Mar '08
  • Prophecy_Master's Avatar
    775 posts since Jun '04
    • aiya this kind of wad god sister / brother all fake one la. i see it as an excuse to get close to someone.

      aiya u just be her di di lor, sooner or later will have chance one la, i mean feelings grow over time, meanwhile don't behave like a didi in front of her lor.

      instead of her for a penny for your thoughts, u ask her la, just reverse the "role" .

  • 00king00's Avatar
    79 posts since Jun '08
    • she juz can't see u as a bf, might be due to various reasons, like not mature enough etc

      feelings can't be forced, so juz relax and in the meantime keep yr options open, there are so many gd gals out there too

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