so recently a guy asked me out. we went out 2 times. i barely know him because hes a friend’s friend, and one fine day, after making sure i was single, he just asked me to go for a movie, so i did.

the first time was kinda weird cuz we didnt really know each other and there wasnt alot to talk about. but the second was better. hes funny and gentlemanly, and hes starting to make me feel comfortable ard him. he would occasionally msg me to ask me how my day was, what i was doing, or whether i was interested to catch a movie and stuff. or just to tell me what he was doing.

the other day he told me that he feels only really happy hanging out with me.

so is he interested in me?

hmm  . ..     sounds like he is interested.   Good news for you!  

You two have a good start.    What he is doing now may path a way for further development in the relationship.   What do you expect from this present relationship (friendship) with him?

Perhaps, a more pertinent question would be "are you interested in him?"

Then again, interpreting cues behind those acts might vary for folks of different ages. How old are the both of you?

1.) Have sex with him
2.) Take a video of it
3.) ?????????
4.) Profit

Originally posted by rey619:

1.) Have sex with him
2.) Take a video of it
3.) ?????????
4.) Profit

YOu  made the above suggestion, so did you or have you been doing it?   YOu want to be the Edison Chen of Singapore?   

YOU are sick.  

Originally posted by Fantagf:

YOu  made the above suggestion, so did you or have you been doing it?   YOu want to be the Edison Chen of Singapore?   

YOU are sick.  

good morning eric cartman

Epic Fail

Originally posted by rey619:

good morning eric cartman

Epic Fail

eric cartman is yourself.    YOu use a new nick.    so unreasonably horny.     if you need help, go geylang.   

Originally posted by Fantagf:

eric cartman is yourself.    YOu use a new nick.    so unreasonably horny.     if you need help, go geylang.   

Epic Fail

Epic fail Epic fail.    parrot.   

Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:

so recently a guy asked me out. we went out 2 times. i barely know him because hes a friend’s friend, and one fine day, after making sure i was single, he just asked me to go for a movie, so i did.

the first time was kinda weird cuz we didnt really know each other and there wasnt alot to talk about. but the second was better. hes funny and gentlemanly, and hes starting to make me feel comfortable ard him. he would occasionally msg me to ask me how my day was, what i was doing, or whether i was interested to catch a movie and stuff. or just to tell me what he was doing.

the other day he told me that he feels only really happy hanging out with me.

so is he interested in me?

all guys say and act liddat...before they confirm makan u....in whichever way u want to think of it.

why dun jus simply treat it as any outing...why mus think of it as a commited relationship thingy....let nature run its course......if everybody has a motvie in doing something...then u cud jolly well end up very disappointed...heart broken...and in the end ..come back to tis forum crying your heart out when that fella stop going out wif u.......so relac and enjoy it as it is...dun think too much into it

Originally posted by Cowbaycowboo:

all guys say and act liddat...before they confirm makan u....in whichever way u want to think of it.

why dun jus simply treat it as any outing...why mus think of it as a commited relationship thingy....let nature run its course......if everybody has a motvie in doing something...then u cud jolly well end up very disappointed...haeratbroeken...and in the end ..come back to tis forum crying your heart out when that fella stop going out wif u.......so relac and enjoy it as it is...dun think too much into it

You insert the banana into your partners ass and then proceed to fuck them and mash it up real nice. Finally add a nice skeet-skeet topping inside and let it mix. Afterwards lay down on your back and receive the puddin in your mouth and enjoy.

hes 25, and im 20. the prob is i dont think im interested in him yet. i use the word yet cuz i dont wanna be so sure abt anything. i go out with him with the mindset of hanging out with a friend. its just scary cuz i dont think i really know him. it takes time.

we come from really different backgrounds, and maybe i havent gotten used to it yet.

yes, i admit im enjoying the attention he gives me. but im pretty sure we are just friends in the mean time.

Hey take your time. He is def interested in you 100%. I'm a guy so I know that what he is doing is all pointing towards interest. Not all guys are into just getting into your pants, like some people are saying on the board. It is possible that he is after a real relationship so don't think all guys are sleazy.

However if you are not interested in him, then don't take advantage of him. I'm sure you don't want your heart broken, neither does he. So my suggestion is for you to decide what you want.

My advice is that he really is intersted in you. Guess its up to you whether you would like to takt the next step with him to a new level.

i tink the question u should be asking urself is ARE U INTERESTED IN HIM?

Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:

hes 25, and im 20. the prob is i dont think im interested in him yet. i use the word yet cuz i dont wanna be so sure abt anything. i go out with him with the mindset of hanging out with a friend. its just scary cuz i dont think i really know him. it takes time.

we come from really different backgrounds, and maybe i havent gotten used to it yet.

yes, i admit im enjoying the attention he gives me. but im pretty sure we are just friends in the mean time.

I suppose only you can answer the root cause of the ambivalence that seems to hold you back somewhat.

You don't think you're interested in him yet you're enjoying the attention from him? With due respect, are you sure your claim of not being interested in him is not a mode of living in denial so that you won't feel letdown if nothing comes of this?

Either way, I suppose you'd get a better idea of where this is heading if you could be certain of your romantic interest (or lack of) in him.

Good luck!

actually its wrong to say let natural do its cause

even when natural come and help u, but if u yrself dont do something its wont help at all wat .

u yrself eventurally msut do something to let something happen

come meet me, u sure interested de

 He likes you haha, give it time and see what happens ;)

For goodness sake, TS just got to know the guy.  Give them time to know each other then they will decide they want more from the present relationship or not.    Don't stress TS.

Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:

so recently a guy asked me out. we went out 2 times. i barely know him because hes a friend’s friend, and one fine day, after making sure i was single, he just asked me to go for a movie, so i did.

the first time was kinda weird cuz we didnt really know each other and there wasnt alot to talk about. but the second was better. hes funny and gentlemanly, and hes starting to make me feel comfortable ard him. he would occasionally msg me to ask me how my day was, what i was doing, or whether i was interested to catch a movie and stuff. or just to tell me what he was doing.

the other day he told me that he feels only really happy hanging out with me.

so is he interested in me?

Are you a guy or a girl? Can't imagined you don't know this simple question if he's interested in you.

So you are a guy trying to post your scenario here to find out what's your next time right?

Let her know how you feel, so she can start to take you seriously.

If you think not, then keep waiting until someone better comes along and confess to her first. You are always welcome to return here and post again, but please be honest and don't lie, I hate liars.

Are you a guy or a girl? Can’t imagined you don’t know this simple question if he’s interested in you.

So you are a guy trying to post your scenario here to find out what’s your next time right?

Let her know how you feel, so she can start to take you seriously.

If you think not, then keep waiting until someone better comes along and confess to her first. You are always welcome to return here and post again, but please be honest and don’t lie, I hate liars.

parn:im not lying. im a girl okay. trying to find out what are the intentions of him doing all these.

i usually go out with guys im really familiar with, like my direct friends. this guy happens to a friends friend, and this is my first ever time going out with a guy i think i barely know. thats y im uncertain of his thoughts.

Originally posted by iwishiwilliwould:

Are you a guy or a girl? Can’t imagined you don’t know this simple question if he’s interested in you.

So you are a guy trying to post your scenario here to find out what’s your next time right?

Let her know how you feel, so she can start to take you seriously.

If you think not, then keep waiting until someone better comes along and confess to her first. You are always welcome to return here and post again, but please be honest and don’t lie, I hate liars.

parn:im not lying. im a girl okay. trying to find out what are the intentions of him doing all these.

i usually go out with guys im really familiar with, like my direct friends. this guy happens to a friends friend, and this is my first ever time going out with a guy i think i barely know. thats y im uncertain of his thoughts.

YA? So what makes you willing to go out with this guy whom you barely know?

Please share, Girl.

very obviously, he's interested in you, if not why would a guy do all the stuff u mentioned??

relax and just enjoy his company, nothing to lose anyway.. gd luck, whatever it is, doesn't it just feel gd to know that at least noe that u are charming enough to attract guy's attention?

when he asked me if i felt weird about going out with him. i told him i was okay, cuz i didnt know how to say no. and i really didnt mind going for a movie with a friend. so since my other friends wanted to catch that movie too, i asked them along. but he didnt turn up cuz he had something on.

then after that he wanted to make up for it. so he asked me out again. my friends were not in singapore, so i went alone.