How not to be possessive

• cApitaland

  24 Jul 08, 18:18

  Any tips.

• purpledragon84

  24 Jul 08, 18:37

  trust?

• Daisuke-kun

  24 Jul 08, 18:37

  mine!

• Fs4751

  24 Jul 08, 18:44

  stay calm and cool...hehe

• cApitaland

  24 Jul 08, 20:58

  Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys.  Must be more mature in my thinking !

• fairlady_xoxo

  24 Jul 08, 20:59

  Its like learning to fly the kite...

• purpledragon84

  24 Jul 08, 21:05

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys.  Must be more mature in my thinking !

  wait.. is she ur gf already?

  why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?

  u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?

  when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..

  1. u don't trust her.

  2. u don't have faith in yourself.

  food for thought: how will u feel if she gets worked up everytime u talk to a girl? no matter how ugly the girl u talked to was? she's just irritated u are talking to a girl.. can u tolerate someone like that?

• cApitaland

  24 Jul 08, 21:11

  Originally posted by purpledragon84:

  wait.. is she ur gf already?

  why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?

  u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?

  when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..

  1. u don't trust her.

  2. u don't have faith in yourself.

  food for thought: how will u feel if she gets worked up everytime u talk to a girl? no matter how ugly the girl u talked to was? she's just irritated u are talking to a girl.. can u tolerate someone like that?

  erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

  gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D

• Karma88

  24 Jul 08, 21:41

  A pcc a day keeps possessiveness away .

• 00king00

  24 Jul 08, 22:18

  it's natural when u hav a crush on someone, cos u only want her for yrself

  the best way to overcome it... make her yours

• BeRt^.^

  24 Jul 08, 22:21

  'brand' her

• Chyeo1979

  24 Jul 08, 22:55

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

   nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

   

  that's jealous, not possessive

• wonderamazement

  24 Jul 08, 22:56

  trust. 'nuff said.

• ispyyy

  25 Jul 08, 01:13

  Redirect yr focus to other things( like yr career, like some hobbies that both of u share, like blah blah)

   

• maskedangel

  25 Jul 08, 01:29

  IMO, its human nature.
  
  for my case, i don wanna lose someone i like, but by doing so, and putting restriction on the other party, it made it worst.
  
  What u can do is actually nothinh. juz swallow it all and like what others say, trust her.

• purpledragon84

  25 Jul 08, 01:33

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

  gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D

   

  and just go talk to her lo.. she single issit? if yes, of coz will talk to any guy that talks to her.. free speech leh lol..

  at this point in time, when not steady, still crush, confirm will jealous one la.. coz u feel the urge to want to have her attention and stuff.. just don't overdo it haha..

• maskedangel

  25 Jul 08, 01:36

  be a pickup artist. . . song bo

• Darrenchoo

  25 Jul 08, 11:14

  someone told me relationships are like food. and jealousy is the chilli that spices up the relationship. sometimes its painful, but overall, it tastes good. if u really like the dish, u will bear with the spice. hope this helps?

• RedizAlertz

  25 Jul 08, 11:17

  To prevant possessiveness...one must have

  1) Faith in the r'ship

  2) Confident in ownself

  3) Trust for ur partner.

  But wait!  She's not even urs?  Then it's not possessive lar, it's simply jealousy.  Anyway, being possessive is a best way to kill a r'ship.