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trust?
mine! ![]()
stay calm and cool...hehe
Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys. Must be more mature in my thinking ! ![]()
Its like learning to fly the kite...
Originally posted by cApitaland:Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys. Must be more mature in my thinking !
wait.. is she ur gf already?
why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?
u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?
when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..
1. u don't trust her.
2. u don't have faith in yourself.
food for thought: how will u feel if she gets worked up everytime u talk to a girl? no matter how ugly the girl u talked to was? she's just irritated u are talking to a girl.. can u tolerate someone like that?
Originally posted by purpledragon84:wait.. is she ur gf already?
why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?
u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?
when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..
1. u don't trust her.
2. u don't have faith in yourself.
food for thought: how will u feel if she gets worked up everytime u talk to a girl? no matter how ugly the girl u talked to was? she's just irritated u are talking to a girl.. can u tolerate someone like that?
erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.
gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D
A pcc a day keeps possessiveness away .
it's natural when u hav a crush on someone, cos u only want her for yrself
the best way to overcome it... make her yours
'brand' her ![]()
Originally posted by cApitaland:nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.
that's jealous, not possessive
trust. 'nuff said.
Redirect yr focus to other things( like yr career, like some hobbies that both of u share, like blah blah)
IMO, its human nature.
for my case, i don wanna lose someone i like, but by doing so, and putting restriction on the other party, it made it worst.
What u can do is actually nothinh. juz swallow it all and like what others say, trust her.
Originally posted by cApitaland:erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.
gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D
and just go talk to her lo.. she single issit? if yes, of coz will talk to any guy that talks to her.. free speech leh lol..
at this point in time, when not steady, still crush, confirm will jealous one la.. coz u feel the urge to want to have her attention and stuff.. just don't overdo it haha..
be a pickup artist. . . song bo
someone told me relationships are like food. and jealousy is the chilli that spices up the relationship. sometimes its painful, but overall, it tastes good. if u really like the dish, u will bear with the spice. hope this helps?
To prevant possessiveness...one must have
1) Faith in the r'ship
2) Confident in ownself
3) Trust for ur partner.
But wait! She's not even urs? Then it's not possessive lar, it's simply jealousy. Anyway, being possessive is a best way to kill a r'ship. ![]()