Why is he?
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I have this friend, known him since primary school, close to him since sec 3... We quarell alot too... You see, he's very feminine type of guy...
After Os, he took his 6 months private diploma and waited for NS...
He's character is usually listen to others when they talk and be sensitive to how others feel... (some times) and he has a huge ego...
After he joined NS for a few months, he became a little manly... But he became insensitive to others, and is the most self-absorbed person I know... He got into medic and likes to brag about it... My sis is a nursing student, if she wasnt aware of a little information or something that medics know and nurses dont, he would say," that one also you dunno?"..
And when I SMS him, he never reply...
WTF right?
anyways, what's wrong with him? NS can make someone to become an ASS?
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bang his ASS
banging people is my solution to everything
read my other posts
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influenced by his peers inside NS la.. my friend also e same.. every sentence will have at least 3 vulgarities.. at least it made him more man right? lol..
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Originally posted by mamamamama:
influenced by his peers inside NS la.. my friend also e same.. every sentence will have at least 3 vulgarities.. at least it made him more man right? lol..
even if he is more 'manly', it would be useless if he turns into a jerk... -
Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
even if he is more 'manly', it would be useless if he turns into a jerk...
???being a jerk is better than being sissy
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
???being a jerk is better than being sissy
hell no... at least being a sissy he has a heart... being a jerk got what??? -
Its normal i guess. In NS, the culture is such that if you do anything that is wrong in the eyes of your peers, you will get humiliated. "Tio suan" in army lingo. So it just gets into a person after awhile, and you start to berate people who seem inferior to you without knowing it. And sometimes, you simply want to be alone during the weekends because you have been seeing so many people everyday, you just want to blank out. At least that is my case.
I do get insensitive to other peoples feelings. It is only when somebody told me about it that i realise I am being such an ass. But thankfully I am discharged from service, officially a free man. Wahaha
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Originally posted by CenturionMBT:
Its normal i guess. In NS, the culture is such that if you do anything that is wrong in the eyes of your peers, you will get humiliated. "Tio suan" in army lingo. So it just gets into a person after awhile, and you start to berate people who seem inferior to you without knowing it. And sometimes, you simply want to be alone during the weekends because you have been seeing so many people everyday, you just want to blank out. At least that is my case.
I do get insensitive to other peoples feelings. It is only when somebody told me about it that i realise I am being such an ass. But thankfully I am discharged from service, officially a free man. Wahaha
should i tell him that he's acting like an ass?
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Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
hell no... at least being a sissy he has a heart... being a jerk got what???
maybe he is a jerk with a heart? -
Originally posted by ChiBet:
maybe he is a jerk with a heart?
being a jerk got heart meh? -
Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
being a jerk got heart meh?
well, i consider myself a jerk but i still care about the people i am mean to -
people changes when they go into army.
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Originally posted by BangHong:
people changes when they go into army.
shouldnt they change to the better? -
Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
shouldnt they change to the better?That happens ONLY near, or after their ORD Date.
we're all still arses before that. :P
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Tell him how you feel
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Originally posted by ChiBet:
well, i consider myself a jerk but i still care about the people i am mean to
Thats being selfish. Not somebody with a heart. -
Originally posted by JasonC:
That happens ONLY near, or after their ORD Date.
we're all still arses before that. :P
hahaha... I hope so...=)
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Tell him how you feel
well, i am not that close to him... I dont want him to have the impression that i care for him... -
Not close ?? .. then dont bother talk to him
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since u are not close to him. then why are u bothering about him?
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i used to... Until now..
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Well ... u have known him for a long time, so i guess it's harder to let him go ?
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
Well ... u have known him for a long time, so i guess it's harder to let him go ?
kinda... Anyways, I dont get it,.. Why does he always like bragging to me?Does he feel inferior or something? -
Talk to a mutual friend that both of you know and is on better terms with him and tell him about his attitude problem?
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Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
kinda... Anyways, I dont get it,.. Why does he always like bragging to me?Does he feel inferior or something?Maybe he's trying to impress you ? .. some guys can be like that