Do you agree that Sg guys and girls are having a hard time?
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Originally posted by parn:
"Clever or not is depend on the person.. how the parents taught the kids to grow up.." --------> Don't be naive can or not?
Nobody is born with equal intelligence, do you need to seek a second opinion to agree?
At least it seems to me that you have a higher possibility to have ugly kids as of this moment.
at least they will be happlier then your kids.. you are those ppl whos children that will jump off a roof cause they can't meet your demands..
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Originally posted by thoughts123:
I also believe that one person need to step out of his/her comfort zone to experience breakthroughs. Therefore it is the mindset of the person that determines that future
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Originally posted by CrabbyShaSha:
Singaporeans are generally complacent. The danger of this is that it affects us not only in our career advancement, but also in terms of our romance i.e. our bgr.
Example:
In the world of work, a lot of big companies lose their competitive edge that comes from hard work, research, planning, taking risks, because they become too comfortable and and stop looking for innovative ways to stay ahead of competition.
In a relationship, a couple loses that spark they get when they first started off a romance because they get too comfortable as time goes by. They stop wanting to get to know each other better and stop trying out new things, hence their relationship stale and instead of looking into their relationship, they mistakenly think that the "pasture is greener on the other side." Therefore, the vicious cycle of unfulfillment no matter what relationship they land themselves in.
Do you agree?
TS you what age ah?
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Originally posted by youyayu:
at least they will be happlier then your kids.. you are those ppl whos children that will jump off a roof cause they can't meet your demands..
Oh...such negative thoughts about your future. You should learn to be more positive.Unlike your scenario which will probably be relevant to your future, my children be positive and overcome to be a better person than your children.
They will probably be giving your children similar advice too.
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Originally posted by parn:
Oh...such negative thoughts about your future. You should learn to be more positive.Unlike your scenario which will probably be relevant to your future, my children be positive and overcome to be a better person than your children.
They will probably be giving your children similar advice too.
i don't think your understand what i am saying.. you just don't get it don't you?
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In short its because of the damn terrorist that bombed the world trade center.
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In a relationship, a couple loses that spark they get when they first started off a romance because they get too comfortable as time goes by. They stop wanting to get to know each other better and stop trying out new things, hence their relationship stale and instead of looking into their relationship, they mistakenly think that the "pasture is greener on the other side." Therefore, the vicious cycle of unfulfillment no matter what relationship they land themselves in.
that's what those christians say they will do when they get to heaven. every day they found new wonders about their God that they will worship him for eternality.
There are always two sides to a situation; won't you agree that familarity may also breeds contempt? The spark get doused by new discoveries of a less combustible element in your other half. the world gets dimmer. then you realise that the spark that evolve from curiousity takes the backseat after confirming your curiousity. Relationships don't stale when you get too comfortable. No. relationship stales when one/both of you is comfortable enough to say "no" to each other. rejection stales relationship, not comfort.
Some of us likes the compound of comfort; others looks for new challenges in their lives; then there are those who looks for new challenges to maintain their current comfort zones.
What you are suggesting is an ideal world where there are always new possibilties readily available; no boundaries, no restriction, no obligations or responsibilities. if we can be obvilious to the changes that surrounds us, then i do concur with you.
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But the spark has to be sustained by other elements which require effort, commitment and respect. All relationships will have their fair share of rejections when both parties are in their comfort zone. A relationship thrives only if it can withstand the rejections and achieve an understanding between both parties.
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Originally posted by youyayu:
i don't think your understand what i am saying.. you just don't get it don't you?
I don't think you understand what I'm saying, do you get it do you? -
Originally posted by product.deviant:
In a relationship, a couple loses that spark they get when they first started off a romance because they get too comfortable as time goes by. They stop wanting to get to know each other better and stop trying out new things, hence their relationship stale and instead of looking into their relationship, they mistakenly think that the "pasture is greener on the other side." Therefore, the vicious cycle of unfulfillment no matter what relationship they land themselves in.
that's what those christians say they will do when they get to heaven. every day they found new wonders about their God that they will worship him for eternality.
There are always two sides to a situation; won't you agree that familarity may also breeds contempt? The spark get doused by new discoveries of a less combustible element in your other half. the world gets dimmer. then you realise that the spark that evolve from curiousity takes the backseat after confirming your curiousity. Relationships don't stale when you get too comfortable. No. relationship stales when one/both of you is comfortable enough to say "no" to each other. rejection stales relationship, not comfort.
Some of us likes the compound of comfort; others looks for new challenges in their lives; then there are those who looks for new challenges to maintain their current comfort zones.
What you are suggesting is an ideal world where there are always new possibilties readily available; no boundaries, no restriction, no obligations or responsibilities. if we can be obvilious to the changes that surrounds us, then i do concur with you.
Some ppl wanna show off religion again.
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Originally posted by KungPaoChicken:
Some ppl wanna show off religion again.
mr-the-sky-is-falling, for your info, i'm an atheist.some people goes for the insignificance.
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Originally posted by product.deviant:
mr-the-sky-is-falling, for your info, i'm an atheist.some people goes for the insignificance.
wow south park atheist club?
I didn't know you like to shit out of your mouth and eat things with your asshole...
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Originally posted by product.deviant:
In a relationship, a couple loses that spark they get when they first started off a romance because they get too comfortable as time goes by. They stop wanting to get to know each other better and stop trying out new things, hence their relationship stale and instead of looking into their relationship, they mistakenly think that the "pasture is greener on the other side." Therefore, the vicious cycle of unfulfillment no matter what relationship they land themselves in.
There are always two sides to a situation; won't you agree that familarity may also breeds contempt? The spark get doused by new discoveries of a less combustible element in your other half. the world gets dimmer. then you realise that the spark that evolve from curiousity takes the backseat after confirming your curiousity. Relationships don't stale when you get too comfortable. No. relationship stales when one/both of you is comfortable enough to say "no" to each other. rejection stales relationship, not comfort.
Originally posted by Extinguished:But the spark has to be sustained by other elements which require effort, commitment and respect. All relationships will have their fair share of rejections when both parties are in their comfort zone. A relationship thrives only if it can withstand the rejections and achieve an understanding between both parties.
Interesting... where did you get that rejection theory from? May I know? -
It dropped from the sky?
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Think from personal experience ba ;)
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our PM got things to say...
coz what he say is always correct de