Love/Money, which to choose?
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juz wonder which to choose
A. Guy i Really Deeply in Love with( n luv me 2), dependable but poor n jobless struggling for daily life
B. Guy whom i dont luv but really luv me a lot, with bright future, $$, stable job but nt so dependable.???
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Girl,
Please forget about the two.
Go find someone who got bright future.. loves you alot.. and dependable.
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if u r chinese, got this phase "love cannot be eaten as a meal"...
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A scene from TV dramas??
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LOL... so easy 2 find those luv me a lot, $$$ and dependable meh?
sigh... if its s ez then i wont b so "troubled"... coz both guys are really nice 2 me... haizz.... ,
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if realli had to choose, i'll choose A la. .
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r u male or female lol
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none
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Human are materialistic so no one will blame you if you would to choose money instead if love, and no one can help you answer your question but only yourself.
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me....
coz i am both lovable and very dependable... :P
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... actually i choose luv... but then its like the world opposing my decision... ,they all ask me to reconsider......., tats y i confused
they said nw gt luv... all things seems gd when u in luv, but when its gone......, $$ more impt in real world..................????..........
think i go bcome nun better ...... (=T_T=)
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is A going to look for a job or is he always like this doing nothing.
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satay, i think it's wonderful for you the choose love, i dont know much but i think money can be earn by true love can be..
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tats the prob with A... he ALWAYS idling ard..., the longest he can stay in 1 job is 3 mths then he will idle few mths til no more $$$ left then find another job..
he gt 0 saving, some debts and always spent $$...
yes money can be earn but... will live in suffer coz he basically dun earn $$...
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Originally posted by sataygal:
tats the prob with A... he ALWAYS idling ard..., the longest he can stay in 1 job is 3 mths then he will idle few mths til no more $$$ left then find another job..
he gt 0 saving, some debts and always spent $$...
yes money can be earn but... will live in suffer coz he basically dun earn $$...
go for B then... its obvious... the security a gal needs -
B, dun feel happy when with him.. more like best fren than bf....
(*_*") me greedy...... (X_X)
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Originally posted by sataygal:
B, dun feel happy when with him.. more like best fren than bf....
(*_*") me greedy...... (X_X)
then, A then... everyday eat rice + soy sauce for 2 meals a day, occasionally with fried eggs and vegetables. -
i m greedy gal =((
i wan both..
combination of both..wahahahaha
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money duh.
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Originally posted by sataygal:
tats the prob with A... he ALWAYS idling ard..., the longest he can stay in 1 job is 3 mths then he will idle few mths til no more $$$ left then find another job..
he gt 0 saving, some debts and always spent $$...
yes money can be earn but... will live in suffer coz he basically dun earn $$...
If he really love you, he will work and suffer for you no matter how hard it is. For suffering for one you love contain elements of happiness too. Happiness that you are able to suffer for the one you love and do thing for him.her.
Choose A but, change A personality. Force him to work. I guess his weakness of not wanting to work is causing more unhapiness then not having money itself.
If both parties are working hard to help the other party, i am sure even though both are suffering, both are happy.
This is Love.
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Originally posted by popikachu:
If he really love you, he will work and suffer for you no matter how hard it is. For suffering for one you love contain elements of happiness too. Happiness that you are able to suffer for the one you love and do thing for him.her.
Choose A but, change A personality. Force him to work. I guess his weakness of not wanting to work is causing more unhapiness then not having money itself.
If both parties are working hard to help the other party, i am sure even though both are suffering, both are happy.
This is Love.
^^:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D
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Originally posted by sataygal:
:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D
It is very hard to change a guy's personality. Unless something really drastic happens...
And don't let others influence you into determining which one you want to be with. Listen to your heart. The world is not you. You are the one who is going to be with the guy you choose.
So choose wisely and most importantly, no regrets afterwards :)
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i had a feeling the A is a irresponsible person, he is a happy go lucky kind of guy, and no no why this type of guy are always good looking and very sweet to girls, me also fall for one once..but damn, everyday said no money, no money..and sometime go missing in action. But we young gals sometimes like this type of guy, cos it feel like free and easy, they are not so strict on us, not thrifty and pathetic type as to always ask where are you, or who are you with..it is like a free love, so nice. But for long term, guess it is not going to be good, so i give up, break off.
I had also met B type of guy, abit straight forward, serious and worrying type, not good in sweet talk, like a nerd, but they are good in planing, and alway talk about the future,..advise me to study further, upgrade..and plan. Hell, what a date. But they are good guy with responsibility. Most young gals like me will not appreciate it, we just like to have fun.
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Originally posted by sataygal:
:D thanks... gd advice.. clears my mind a bit... (=^_^=), think i'll tok 2 him n c hw :D
u open legs for both already? -
neither