likes a girl who doesn't know.
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I like this girl who is, I guess a rather close friend of mine. She doesn't know about it. Well, reason being she's really really busy with her As recently (never keep in contact, not much) which is why I don't wanna add onto her heavy load, and also we're great as good friends; kinda afraid to ruin all this by having the risk of freakin her out after letting her know.
To be honest, I don't know how she feels bout me either. Sometimes she really gives me the impression that she likes me, sometimes; well, not at all. Somehow I think it's related to her stress with As and all that CCA stuffs, or? I don't know, sometimes I feel like knowing what's goin on and all. yep, confused bout what she really sees me as.. just hope that we'll be back to normal after all that ends.
Anyway, her birthday is coming up and I want to come up with a lil surprise. Knowing her she'll probably stay at home to study, though there's a tiny bit of chance that she might go out for a celebrations. Either way, I thought of gettin her a bouquet of her fave flowers and a lil cake with a candle for her to, you know, make her birthday wishes. On top of that a gift, which I haven't thought bout just yet. Bring all those and ring her door bell? *surprise!*
What do you think? some of my friends say it's a nice idea while some say it would probably back fire.
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jus do it ....this people here r not going to enjoy or suffer the consequence...only u
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dont go her house surprise her la..she might not like it..just ask her out,buy a birthday cake and go somewhere eat can alr. Oh and get a gift instead,nxt time when dating alr then give flowers
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Her family will be in for a surprise as well.
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Originally posted by LeBear:
I like this girl who is, I guess a rather close friend of mine. She doesn't know about it. Well, reason being she's really really busy with her As recently (never keep in contact, not much) which is why I don't wanna add onto her heavy load, and also we're great as good friends; kinda afraid to ruin all this by having the risk of freakin her out after letting her know.
To be honest, I don't know how she feels bout me either. Sometimes she really gives me the impression that she likes me, sometimes; well, not at all. Somehow I think it's related to her stress with As and all that CCA stuffs, or? I don't know, sometimes I feel like knowing what's goin on and all. yep, confused bout what she really sees me as.. just hope that we'll be back to normal after all that ends.
Anyway, her birthday is coming up and I want to come up with a lil surprise. Knowing her she'll probably stay at home to study, though there's a tiny bit of chance that she might go out for a celebrations. Either way, I thought of gettin her a bouquet of her fave flowers and a lil cake with a candle for her to, you know, make her birthday wishes. On top of that a gift, which I haven't thought bout just yet. Bring all those and ring her door bell? *surprise!*
What do you think? some of my friends say it's a nice idea while some say it would probably back fire.
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Originally posted by LeBear:
I like this girl who is, I guess a rather close friend of mine. She doesn't know about it. Well, reason being she's really really busy with her As recently (never keep in contact, not much) which is why I don't wanna add onto her heavy load, and also we're great as good friends; kinda afraid to ruin all this by having the risk of freakin her out after letting her know.
To be honest, I don't know how she feels bout me either. Sometimes she really gives me the impression that she likes me, sometimes; well, not at all. Somehow I think it's related to her stress with As and all that CCA stuffs, or? I don't know, sometimes I feel like knowing what's goin on and all. yep, confused bout what she really sees me as.. just hope that we'll be back to normal after all that ends.
Anyway, her birthday is coming up and I want to come up with a lil surprise. Knowing her she'll probably stay at home to study, though there's a tiny bit of chance that she might go out for a celebrations. Either way, I thought of gettin her a bouquet of her fave flowers and a lil cake with a candle for her to, you know, make her birthday wishes. On top of that a gift, which I haven't thought bout just yet. Bring all those and ring her door bell? *surprise!*
What do you think? some of my friends say it's a nice idea while some say it would probably back fire.
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no pain no gain
tell her straight
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Oh right, I forgot to say that the surprise will be from and as a good friend.. cause her exams will be still on then. Thought of leaving the confessions after her exams.
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Originally posted by LeBear:
I like this girl who is, I guess a rather close friend of mine. She doesn't know about it. Well, reason being she's really really busy with her As recently (never keep in contact, not much) which is why I don't wanna add onto her heavy load, and also we're great as good friends; kinda afraid to ruin all this by having the risk of freakin her out after letting her know.
To be honest, I don't know how she feels bout me either. Sometimes she really gives me the impression that she likes me, sometimes; well, not at all. Somehow I think it's related to her stress with As and all that CCA stuffs, or? I don't know, sometimes I feel like knowing what's goin on and all. yep, confused bout what she really sees me as.. just hope that we'll be back to normal after all that ends.
Anyway, her birthday is coming up and I want to come up with a lil surprise. Knowing her she'll probably stay at home to study, though there's a tiny bit of chance that she might go out for a celebrations. Either way, I thought of gettin her a bouquet of her fave flowers and a lil cake with a candle for her to, you know, make her birthday wishes. On top of that a gift, which I haven't thought bout just yet. Bring all those and ring her door bell? *surprise!*
What do you think? some of my friends say it's a nice idea while some say it would probably back fire.
You know hor....all these things that you are planning to do for her, has all already been done and over with by all her stalkers and potential rapists.
Would you like her to treat you like her stalkers and potential rapists?
If NOT, then make sure you are REALLY her close friend first before you do that kind of stunt on her.
Not every girls loves a surprise you know, most girls wished some random guys better don't show up at her doorstep to disturb and irritate them further.
Unless you're Brad Pitt look-alike, then there is a possibility of pulling off that surprise stunt alive. Else, you need to be her close friend and 100% KNOW that she won't mind you showing your face at her doorstep on her birthday, especially on her birthday.
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get the flowers delivered to her and judge her reaction! then pops up under her block with cake, gift and guitar to seranade her in hand.
then u play by it from there, if it goes well, ask her to be ur gal. if its awkward, then just be sincere to help her loosen up a little and celebrate her birthday.
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i like the idea
like wat cowbaycowboo say, just do it.
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The idea sure is sweet, but I really dunno what her family will say. Haha, will surely tease and ask plenty of questions about you. Maybe it'll be better to go with a group of friends?
If you want to make your feelings known, there are better ways then to show up alone at her front door.
But hey, who am I to talk. Just as long as you don't regret, feel free to try. But do take note A's are coming soon, and a r/s isn't exactly what she'll want to have in mind. Can save the more romentic stuff till after A's. (Yes, this is done by couples, not normal friends)
just my 2 cents, best of luck. =)
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lol TS... same same...
lol ty for starting this thread... save me the trouble..
IA
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Originally posted by sebosebo:
get the flowers delivered to her and judge her reaction! then pops up under her block with cake, gift and guitar to seranade her in hand.
then u play by it from there, if it goes well, ask her to be ur gal. if its awkward, then just be sincere to help her loosen up a little and celebrate her birthday.
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yeah, now that most said it. I think it could be too much of a surprise for her to accept, considering we're only good friends. I guess I'll just try my luck askin her out on that day first, if not I'll just get flowers delievered to her instead? How's that sound?
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That's the problem with guys huh? Not knowing if she regards me as a good fren or romantic interest. And then deciding to risk frenship by doing something big to express interest.
Perhaps I may share some tips on how one can deduce romantic interest from girls:
1) when u tease her, does she give u the occasional slap on ur arms or shoulder?
2) does she laugh a lot when with u?
3) when having a conversation face to face over dinner, u sit back...does she lean forward?
4) when u grab her hand to cross the road, does she shy away?
I personally never liked the idea of doing something sensational, never worked for me. It may work for others though. I would prefer to go step by step, making one transition to another smooth. If u want to jump the phases when she isn't ready yet, it may backfire. If all your answers to the above are yes, i'd say give it a shot! Cheers and hope it has helped.