headaches from love
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Originally posted by parn:
This is one good example why you should be BANNED.This is really a no-class behaviour.
Try to help and advice TS if you really wishes to post here. It's only polite to do so.
Transexual, you are the worst one with no class,don't point finger. Many forumers dislike you from the way you treat people. You really mei jia jiao. Transexual like you choose to come here to attract attention.
Ban? There are many more good reasons to ban you than any of the forumers here.
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Originally posted by parn:
Okok(Aren't you a guy??? OMG....you're really one of the ah kua escapees from Changi)
Should I educate a fool like you? You are ah kua yourself and view others the same as you. No 30k diamond ring for you. No real man want to marry an ah qua, transexual. -
Originally posted by nisi:
hi,
i've decided to as most of you suggests, take things slowly... he ended a few years relationship a few months back and i have to take that into consideration as well...
Good. All you can do now is wait, observe, and decide. It is fair to give him reasonable time.All the best to you.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
Transexual, you are the worst one with no class,don't point finger. Many forumers dislike you from the way you treat people. You really mei jia jiao. Transexual like you choose to come here to attract attention.
Ban? There are many more good reasons to ban you than any of the forumers here.
You're maskedangel too?Fantagf == Beautiful951 == maskedangel
You really need to create so many clones to gather support for your own retarded opinions?
Are you a loser in real life?
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Originally posted by parn:
You're maskedangel too?Fantagf == Beautiful951 == maskedangel
You really need to create so many clones to gather support for your own retarded opinions?
Are you a loser in real life?
Only loser like you talk and behave such. So predictable, when you can't win you use your stupid brainless logic to link people.
According to your logic you must be: parn = = angel7030! Fool like you don't deserve 30k diamond ring, wait long long! Until upon your deathbed also no man wants to give you 30k diamond ring, ha ha ha!
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Originally posted by parn:
You're maskedangel too?Fantagf == Beautiful951 == maskedangel
You really need to create so many clones to gather support for your own retarded opinions?
Are you a loser in real life?
You did link fireice to hellokitty, too. ha ha ha, stupid fool! -
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Only loser like you talk and behave such. So predictable, when you can't win you use your stupid brainless logic to link people.
According to your logic you must be: parn = = angel7030! Fool like you don't deserve 30k diamond ring, wait long long! Until upon your deathbed also no man wants to give you 30k diamond ring, ha ha ha!
How can you say something according to my logic? You must be a retarded retard to do something like this.So you agreed to my logic that you're a retarded retard?
I would advise you to get a hold of your anger and calm down first, so that you can come up with a more rational replies.
At least you won't be replying like a retarded retard once have successfully calm yourself down.
Maybe you need more help from other forumers?.....If only, they want to help you too.
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Originally posted by nisi:
he was sweet in his gestures? sometimes when we talk he'll say like he used to do this or that... or like there was one time, what would happen...
that kind of conversation?
If he says that then the more you should watch out for him.. He's been through so many funny relationships, and to a certain extent he knows what you're thinking, what step you're going. Do not be a part of his plans.
Another thing is, do ask yourself if it's infatuation or is it really LOVE. Sometimes even you don't know about it. But for what I'm reading, it is still or rather now, Infatuation.
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Originally posted by parn:
How can you say something according to my logic? You must be a retarded retard to do something like this.So you agreed to my logic that you're a retarded retard?
I would advise you to get a hold of your anger and calm down first, so that you can come up with a more rational replies.
At least you won't be replying like a retarded retard once have successfully calm yourself down.
Maybe you need more help from other forumers?.....If only, they want to help you too.
hey fucktard retard you are simply talking about yourself. U have such narrow mind, small brain and ugly heart from the way you treat and view people.
YOu simply have no IQ, anyone who has IQ read the post I sent you know that I don't agree with your logic.
YOu are a destroyer. YOu love going round to create nuisance in other's threads.
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Originally posted by nisi:
Hi,
well I'm not exactly in agony but would like people to talk me through this to make me think better.
I think everybody has their fair share of nasty relationships and I've been hurt very badly before that I don't trust anymore.
I'm currently with a guy who makes me feel like believing in love all over again. The thing is although he's very sweet to me so far, his pasts made me unsure about how this is going to end.
He has been with plenty of girls and is easy in that sense, and he flirts around a lot as well.. Although this is in his past as far as I know, I can't helped but wonder about this when he mentions his past occasionally.
Any concrete actions to alleviate/help with this? I know talking to him is one solution. Any other perhaps?
in red:
He's giving you a warning.
Did you ask about his past or that he mention about it himself? He mentioned it himself right? Yes warning. He has hinted to you already. Trust me.
Behavior to continue..? You expect him to change and be faithful from now on? It will be hard. Are you willing to take the risk? It's all up to you but if you were to go for it then I think you should be prepared.. anyway just observe first. Else, walk away.
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Originally posted by Detached:
The other solution is to give it a miss.
You currently with a guy whom is experienced enough to make you feel like believing in love all over again. The thing is he's very sweet (because he got intentions, duh) to you so far, his past also hinted it's going to end with you getting hurt again.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------The whole point is, sure you can lay down lotsa enough rules to fill the whole house. But to a player, rules are meant to be flouted; to be played around. End of day, if he were to screw up and you were to ditch him - you still end up getting hurt, isn't it?
Save your 'feel like believing' for a decent guy please.
hi nisi,
i probably shouldn't say this but detached hit the nail on the head.
for people who take r/s lightly (some call them players), rules are meant to be broken, to be messed with and tested. there are men and women out there who will push their luck to see how far you will bend.
no matter how serious you are, no matter how much assurance you force him to provide, no matter what he does right now to prove his worth to you, as long as you take his bait, there is always the possibility he will fish you for a bite and then bail.
on the other hand, if you're the patient and nurturing kind, there is also always the possibility he will be moved by your patience and settle with you for good.
life is a gamble. here's hoping.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
hi nisi,
i probably shouldn't say this but detached hit the nail on the head.
for people who take r/s lightly (some call them players), rules are meant to be broken, to be messed with and tested. there are men and women out there who will push their luck to see how far you will bend.
no matter how serious you are, no matter how much assurance you force him to provide, no matter what he does right now to prove his worth to you, as long as you take his bait, there is always the possibility he will fish you for a bite and then bail.
on the other hand, if you're the patient and nurturing kind, there is also always the possibility he will be moved by your patience and settle with you for good.
life is a gamble. here's hoping.
what you said remind me of my past experience.TS will have to observe, be objective and alert to spot any further warnings or hints from the guy. Sometimes following one's heart can lead to disaster.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
what you said remind me of my past experience.TS will have to observe, be objective and alert to spot any further warnings or hints from the guy. Sometimes following one's heart can lead to disaster.
Aren't you a guy?? Please refrain from terrorising us with your Changi experiences.
If TS is ABLE to be observant, objective and alert to spot any further warnings and hints, why would TS be posting in here?Please don't come and tell people things that they are not capable of doing at the moment.
That's quite retarded advice coming from a retard like yourself.
Ohh wait....I forgot, you are already doing your best to advice TS like an Ah Kua.
I shall expect nothing more of you since that is your best advice.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
hi nisi,
i probably shouldn't say this but detached hit the nail on the head.
for people who take r/s lightly (some call them players), rules are meant to be broken, to be messed with and tested. there are men and women out there who will push their luck to see how far you will bend.
no matter how serious you are, no matter how much assurance you force him to provide, no matter what he does right now to prove his worth to you, as long as you take his bait, there is always the possibility he will fish you for a bite and then bail.
on the other hand, if you're the patient and nurturing kind, there is also always the possibility he will be moved by your patience and settle with you for good.
life is a gamble. here's hoping.
I couldn't agree more with chip on that.
There's always a chance that your love/grace/forgiveness/etc, would move him in the end. And you ended up with a guy that will love you.
End of day, it's still your decision. Do you want to gamble on this one? If getting out of harm's way is your priority, I'd still advice you to sit out.
P.S. You guys should really take your fight somewhere else, this thread is not your boxing ring
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Originally posted by Detached:
There's always a chance that your love/grace/forgiveness/etc, would move him in the end. And you ended up with a guy that will love you.
'tis.
the man who moves a mountain, starts by moving little stones.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
'tis.
the man who moves a mountain, starts by moving little stones.
Yup, that's the perfect conclusionNow let's get out of here!
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nisi
What make him attractive to you?
The logic is always this, if he has lots of gfs, then he must be alright. Girls tend to gravitate towards boys with gfs. He will also make eyes at other girls. There will always be other girsl that will gravitate towards this boy, can you live with that, can you beat the competition?
Sometimes it is better to be with a guy who loves you, than to be with the guy you love.
Consider carefully.
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before we were together, i didn't know about his past... so i don't think that is a factor for attraction...
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how bout the best of both worlds?
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Originally posted by tinuviel07:
how bout the best of both worlds?
Dont be greedy la.Cant have ur cake and eat it.
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
If "he mentions his past occasionally" that could very well be his way of warning you (to help you cope with the inevitable). I suggest that you stay clear away from him for a while and you know what they say, if he is yours, he will fly back to you... if not.....
agree with what andrew said, what he said is probably a mirror which would reflect your future.
any for most of us guys..... if we can get it we'll probably go for it.
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Originally posted by parn:
Aren't you a guy?? Please refrain from terrorising us with your Changi experiences.
If TS is ABLE to be observant, objective and alert to spot any further warnings and hints, why would TS be posting in here?Please don't come and tell people things that they are not capable of doing at the moment.
That's quite retarded advice coming from a retard like yourself.
Ohh wait....I forgot, you are already doing your best to advice TS like an Ah Kua.
I shall expect nothing more of you since that is your best advice.
other ppl post became u 2 flame war (- -)
got post a new thread "Frang vs Parn"
i will support u in there ^^
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Originally posted by mancha:
Of course it is better to be with the guy I loved.How difficult it is to find a guy who loves me?
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
other ppl post became u 2 flame war (- -)
got post a new thread "Frang vs Parn"
i will support u in there ^^
Transexual parn's motive of coming to this forum is to disrupt discussion. If you read its post responding to TS, you know it is a nuisance giving nonseniscal, distorted views and comments.It is now trying its best to divert forumers' attention that it is a transexual, tranny by pointing finger to say that I am ah qua. Ha ha ha. There are already posts by it that other forumers have posted to prove it is transexual.