Originally posted by cathykitty:has she replied since?
i feel tt u’ve read too much into her “are you back?” sms. r u assuming tt she msged u cos maybe she misses u?
to be more realistic, it cld just mean: “i am bored today, and i suddenly want to ask u out… but i remember u went overseas. so i jus sms to check.”
sorry to be so harsh ah… :/ i bet u feel like replying her… and meeting up with her and all… but she really doesn’t sound like she’s very into you. nt even as a close friend…
if u still wan to gauge her feelings towards u, a good way is to do the counter-intuitive thing… u dun need to express ur liking for her verbally… u will be able to tell fr her actions if she is interested.
dun try too hard to arrange a mtg with her… see if she asks u out (to make up for tt time when she cldn’t meet u before u went overseas)...
hmm getting to know someone is a process… dun need to rush into things… u may have strong feelings for her, but at this point, it really doesn’t sound like it’s mutual…
she replied. Told me we shd meet up next month.. I told her straight im gonna be busy with work.. anyway, i feel you're right. Its just that logically and emotionally its different. The logic sense says alot about her and me.. that its one-sided. But emotionally, refuse to believe it.. haiz..
good for u! dun worry, we've all liked someone before... it's ok to feel the way u're feeling...
i tink what u did will make u feel better and more confident in the long run. at least u won't be wondering abt her words and actions if u dun meet her for the time being. also, ur lack of interest in gg out wif her might just make u more attractive to her. cos u got backbone, not someone who is at her beck and call all the time.
sometimes it's better to decide using our logic rather than our emotions. :)
Originally posted by cathykitty:good for u! dun worry, we've all liked someone before... it's ok to feel the way u're feeling...
i tink what u did will make u feel better and more confident in the long run. at least u won't be wondering abt her words and actions if u dun meet her for the time being. also, ur lack of interest in gg out wif her might just make u more attractive to her. cos u got backbone, not someone who is at her beck and call all the time.
sometimes it's better to decide using our logic rather than our emotions. :)
hahaha... i've decided to give up on her and move on..