where to find new friends?
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as per title.
yes, i'm a loser but i'm trying to change. :-D
i got less than a handful of friends now and these are guai-guai types, stay-at-homes like me.....i want to meet new people and change my life.
people have said try going to clubs / bars, but that's really not my thing.
i read in books that to meet new people, can join interest groups but i don't really have any interest in things like football or hiking or fishing.
i used to be very super-shy and reserved, but now i've changed my personality a bit to be more playful and talkative.....only need to meet new people to complete my life.
pls advise. serious only.
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Well are you good at chatting up people in bars/clubs? If you really dont mind, you should try going to church or those events where you get to meet people. Another thing could be myspace, I am pretty sure you can either find community groups on google (which is active) and you could probably start from there.
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join a volunteer group to meet ppl
my bro found his wife while helping out in old aged home
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thanks, but no....i really don't like the bar scene.
as for volunteer group like old aged home.......ha ha......i really hate those stuff leh...cleaning toilets etc.....ants everywhere....
also, no offense, but i think it's kinda hypocrite to volunteer for community services just to meet friends. :-D
join volunteer should have no strings attached.
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.....go to the library if you like reading,
.....join club activities in community centres,
.....go to concert (local/foriegn),
.....look around your neigbourhood,
sometimes friends are in your own backyard which you missed to see...
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by the way .. what's your age?
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just be yourself la.
i also like you. don't worry one la, can survive de.
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sign up for a language course, for example
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i can be ur friend for SG$500
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Originally posted by JerryYan:
join a volunteer group to meet ppl
my bro found his wife while helping out in old aged home
woah..ur bro must be in his sixties? -
don't worry i also little friends in real life..my those so called friends are just bastard...
so is not the quantity that count is a quality
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Go SDU.
u got any idol or not, if not can join their fans club wad
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thanks guys......i'm 25 yrs old......ha ha......i know it's very old liao......at this age should have lots of friends enough to fill out a database on facebook or friendster.....but too bad lah....can only blame myself last time, when in sec 3, got betrayed again and again by very best friend until left a deep scar inside me.....after that, i just kinda shut myself out from others.....
i've been living like a loser in the shadows and it's only last year that i really started to wake up. now, i'm trying to be a normal guy again. :-)
and i don't have any idol lah......idol kind of thing is stupid.......i really can't image myself at changi airport T3 with 300 teenage girls screaming "JAY CHOU!!!!!!!" or "WU ZUN!!!!!!!!" *shivers*
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hahah me too i find ppl going to airport to pick his idol a dumb act.
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wahaha err i tot u gal. u no interest no nutting how u expect urself to find frenz u tel me? koe from colleagues la. chill out w coll after work.
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yeah, colleagues ok, but my company very small, so usually hang out with only 2 of them. :-D
now, where to find interest so that i can join some interest group?
possible to force myself to be interested in some hobby?
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im sorry to hear that u were betrayed :(
at least got some coll to add up to ur frenz list liao rite... ask ur colls to intro their frenz.. n their fren will intro u their frenz n so on.. endless liao ma.
force urself ah, mission impossible la...lidat u will suffer. haha.
make frenz with pple here. all of us like to surf the internet.
where to find interest? cannot be u hv no interest at all ma...reading..outdoor activity.any sports?
btw wads ur astrology?
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how about having a game of football with strangers?
in my honest opinion i met quite alot of friends from football.
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Originally posted by Violetress:
im sorry to hear that u were betrayed :(
at least got some coll to add up to ur frenz list liao rite... ask ur colls to intro their frenz.. n their fren will intro u their frenz n so on.. endless liao ma.
force urself ah, mission impossible la...lidat u will suffer. haha.
make frenz with pple here. all of us like to surf the internet.
where to find interest? cannot be u hv no interest at all ma...reading..outdoor activity.any sports?
btw wads ur astrology?
ha ha, yeah, but my colls all girls and have bfs already.
actually, we all get along very well and flirt etc., but there's always a thin boundary between girls and guys mah.......like when girls go out to do girly things, usually guys excluded. :-)
yeah, sgforumers are good, but then, no outing leh......even got outing, the outing also very specific, like makan outing, or football outing type.
as for interest, er.....it's video-gaming (very casual, not hardcore), and watching porn (main hobby lol......got porn outing?).
and i don't like sports either (btw, football really makes me sleep).
astrology is cancer. i think i fit cancer's personality quite well. ;-D
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Originally posted by Nikar 3:
ha ha, yeah, but my colls all girls and have bfs already.
actually, we all get along very well and flirt etc., but there's always a thin boundary between girls and guys mah.......like when girls go out to do girly things, usually guys excluded. :-)
yeah, sgforumers are good, but then, no outing leh......even got outing, the outing also very specific, like makan outing, or football outing type.
as for interest, er.....it's video-gaming (very casual, not hardcore), and watching porn (main hobby lol......got porn outing?).
and i don't like sports either (btw, football really makes me sleep).
astrology is cancer. i think i fit cancer's personality quite well. ;-D
haha hv u join sgfourmers outing b4? wa i didnt koe got outing one sia lol.
oh ur cancer.. they always say cancer mayb will like close to nature, homely stuffs, cooking etc... u like those meh? hahaha...
aiyo hobby watchin that one...well not only u la...haha. errr very hard to advice a cancer lor...coz from experience, pple tell u this one,u say cannot, giv u other advices..ALSO cannot. must u ownself say out den can de. u say video gaming...online games or wad?
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come come
come geylang outing!!
sgforums is a place for friends
http://sgforums.com/forums/2755/topics/348393 -
preest la jerry giv more substance advice can? tell him which ave or which ones at geylang. he will thank u X 1000000
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Originally posted by Violetress:
haha hv u join sgfourmers outing b4? wa i didnt koe got outing one sia lol.
oh ur cancer.. they always say cancer mayb will like close to nature, homely stuffs, cooking etc... u like those meh? hahaha...
aiyo hobby watchin that one...well not only u la...haha. errr very hard to advice a cancer lor...coz from experience, pple tell u this one,u say cannot, giv u other advices..ALSO cannot. must u ownself say out den can de. u say video gaming...online games or wad?
no, never joined any outing before, dunno which interest / outing to join.
and yeah, cancer really is me. :-D i really like nature and stuff, and although i don't really like cooking, i would prefer it to sports without a 2nd thought.
and video games.....i only play xBox / Playstation that kind, not online games.
online games.....er, really a bit silly. :-D
i think i must find my own path.
and that Jerry's geylang outing is it food only? i doubt these guys would go and fark prostitutes right? :-D
maybe if there's anyone here like me without much friends but want to meet more people, u can post here and maybe we can organize a small group outing like 3 - 4 people, and we can do something small for a start, like go mcdonald's eat etc. :-D
see ye',
nikar
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Aww... the old folks home thing was real sweet :D
Hey, if you're looking for friends, I suggest starting out from sports/games. If you like to stay at home (like me), the Internet is your key to friends. Start out by playing games on different websites then getting to know others. Whether or not he/she is trusty will be up to your judgement...
Sports is a real good alternative to meet up friends. It can't be that you stay at home everyday, all the time, 24 hours. You HAVE to exercise, right? If you ever go to parks to jog, many avid joggers would be there :D
If you seriously don't exercise (as in really often), and you're 25, go be a volunteer. That's the minimum you can do.
I'm half your age and similar to you (i'm not in primary school) HEHE. So you can choose not to take what I say, since well, I'm half your age o.o
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Originally posted by Nikar 3:
no, never joined any outing before, dunno which interest / outing to join.
and yeah, cancer really is me. :-D i really like nature and stuff, and although i don't really like cooking, i would prefer it to sports without a 2nd thought.
and video games.....i only play xBox / Playstation that kind, not online games.
online games.....er, really a bit silly. :-D
i think i must find my own path.
and that Jerry's geylang outing is it food only? i doubt these guys would go and fark prostitutes right? :-D
maybe if there's anyone here like me without much friends but want to meet more people, u can post here and maybe we can organize a small group outing like 3 - 4 people, and we can do something small for a start, like go mcdonald's eat etc. :-D
see ye',
nikar
oh..den u can invite some pple who likes nature...or maybe even arts? can go museum or some nature places..
yea mayb u can suggest wad u wan..n pple who are like-minded as u/keen to join will join de... hahaha den after eatin mac wad will happen ar? tok kinky stuffs?haha
haha n juni n the rest dun bother to giv ur own views la..dun need suggestions also..pple is cancer leh..not say will take pple opinions one haha..
so any pple who r keen..pls go with mr cancer's flow... alrighty! :)