My bf let me down...
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>From: yip yongseng
>To: joanna88
>Subject: Hello~!!!
>Date: Tue, 20 May 2003 18:42:23 +0800 (CST)
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>Joanna,
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> Joanna, I dunno why leh.... Everytime I saw you I
>just felt that my heart is pounding very fast and
>became so shy... then when ever i see u smile, it
>melts my heart... Why??
>
>Yong Seng
I seldom check my bf's e-mail inbox in the past...Only that this few months he has been letting me down again and again , i feel that its very hard to differentiate frm his lies and the truth , so i do it...And tis time , seeing the above msg frm him to another gal juz makes my blood boils...The situation here is abt the same as floppy_zee...Feel tat i needed to share wif someone else , so i choosed tis forum.Those hu haf been reading my posts will noe more in detail abt wad happened...
I reli pity my tearducts , haf been sheding tears a lot of times juz becoz of him...Sometimes will even breakdown n sob... -
hi there.. think u shld dump this guy asap... no point hearing again his lies and excuses again n again..
trust me.. u will suffer more if u choose 2 carry on....
i've gone thru that before
try to ask some friends out and talk to them.. and it's better for u to cry it out den bottle it inside
tke care!
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me partially involved in floppy's thread so i pop by on urs too....Originally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:>From: yip yongseng
>To: joanna88
>Subject: Hello~!!!
>Date: Tue, 20 May 2003 18:42:23 +0800 (CST)
>
>Joanna,
>
> Joanna, I dunno why leh.... Everytime I saw you I
>just felt that my heart is pounding very fast and
>became so shy... then when ever i see u smile, it
>melts my heart... Why??
>
>Yong Seng
I seldom check my bf's e-mail inbox in the past...Only that this few months he has been letting me down again and again , i feel that its very hard to differentiate frm his lies and the truth , so i do it...And tis time , seeing the above msg frm him to another gal juz makes my blood boils...The situation here is abt the same as floppy_zee...Feel tat i needed to share wif someone else , so i choosed tis forum.Those hu haf been reading my posts will noe more in detail abt wad happened...
I reli pity my tearducts , haf been sheding tears a lot of times juz becoz of him...Sometimes will even breakdown n sob...
be careful of ur guy...he might be unfaithful n this is like maybe e first time u caught him....what about the times he wasn't???
scary thought but a possibility..... just take care of urself,k? -
Another sad thread.
Sheesh. What can I say? -
i just hit myself on e head with a sledge hammer n i dun feel that hurt any more emotionally....lolz....Originally posted by Parka: Another sad thread.
Sheesh. What can I say? -
hey....u r welcome in e heart break club anytime k.... now 3 members me include....there's life^stops n ah meng too........
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Originally posted by harryryan:i just hit myself on e head with a sledge hammer n i dun feel that hurt any more emotionally....lolz.... Physically, I think you are still fit to do typing here.
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Originally posted by harryryan:hey....u r welcome in e heart break club anytime k.... now 3 members me include....there's life^stops n ah meng too........ Good heavens. I hope I don't become a member.
Anyway, make sure you all don't stay too long in the club. Unhealthy. -
Maybe i should elaborate further...
A few weeks ago , i smsed my god-sister (She was my bf's bandmate cum schoolmate) ... If i remembered correctly , about one and a half year back , she smsed my bf , telling him that she liked him ... Well , the exact content of the sms , i'm not sure ...In the beginning , i really disliked her ... She knew that we are together , still very loving then , but choosed to confess her feelings for my bf. Back then , i really wondered whats her motive of letting him know , is she going to snatch him away from me or what ... But slowly , i get to know her better and she is that type of friend that won't abandon you and will stand by you , encouraging you when you are facing some difficult problems .... I started to like her as a friend ....
Opps , i'm going off point...Back to the topic.She told me that my bf confessed his feelings for another of his bandmate (my god-sis's fren) ... And i was damn pissed off , theres this resentment in me that can't be lifted off easily ..... All along he gave me the impression that he is that type of guy , very faithful and loyal , won't go n flirt around with other girls behind my back , therefore this new discovery really dumped me straight down into the well...
Today , while confronting my bf on the phone , i realised that as long as when i'm happy , sweet and loving , he is there for me and loved me as much as i love him ..... but when i'm upset , angry and depressed , he'll leave me on my own to settle the problems alone and his love for me will drop....After that started to develop feelings for some other girls who he thinks r nice....
I've put in a lot of efforts in this relationship , trying my best to maintain and improve it. Whenever he is facing some problems , be it in his life or academically , i'll try to encourage and motivate him...When he complained that he is usually very hungry all the time due to lack of insufficient funds for his meals , i bought food and stock up instant noodles for him....When he do not have enough money for movies or some other activites , i'll subsidise the rest of the money...I've done a lot of things for him but he doesn't seems to appreciate everything...All i can say that he is a let-down...
And i'm also disappointed in myself , i noe i can find other guys much better den him (dare to say that my personality is good compared to other gals and i look presentable)....But no matter how hard i try , i can't force myself not to love him anymore.... -
Include me in as well okie...Originally posted by harryryan:hey....u r welcome in e heart break club anytime k.... now 3 members me include....there's life^stops n ah meng too........ -
gee , thats worse .... hurt both emotionally and physically.Don't even try hurting yourself okie , basically i think no matter how hard a problem is , it will be solved in the end .... juz needs more time n efforts to do it...Originally posted by harryryan:i just hit myself on e head with a sledge hammer n i dun feel that hurt any more emotionally....lolz.... -
we can go to e beach together...than if anyone gets sucidial...there will be someone to pull u back....or we can all hold hands n walk into e deep blue sea....lolz....joking onli huh...dun serious k....Originally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:Include me in as well okie... -
We enjoy warmth because we have been cold. We appreciate light because we have been in darkness. By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness
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wrong , if we go together and all of us get sucidal , there will be no one to pull us back and we'll all end up as restless souls ... *dAngErOus*Originally posted by harryryan:we can go to e beach together...than if anyone gets sucidial...there will be someone to pull u back....or we can all hold hands n walk into e deep blue sea....lolz....joking onli huh...dun serious k....
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Well , its a very meaningful paragraph ....Originally posted by Master -_-:We enjoy warmth because we have been cold. We appreciate light because we have been in darkness. By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness
I still can grin , haha ... Actually thinking about it i'm not that sad until wanna do something to hurt myself and gain attention from him ....
I'm kinda expecting that he will send that kinda e-mail to other gals , am i crazy ?
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what a unfaithful guy! I will be very happy if i have a gf like u, so loving n caring. U even show care n concern to him, even though he treat u like this
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thanx master....really meant something there....Originally posted by Master -_-:We enjoy warmth because we have been cold. We appreciate light because we have been in darkness. By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness -
I feel it nothing if your people were to express their feelings to your feeling - HOWEVER, if it is your bf expressing to others - normally, it signaled the declining stage of the relationship.Originally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:>From: yip yongseng
>To: joanna88
>Subject: Hello~!!!
>Date: Tue, 20 May 2003 18:42:23 +0800 (CST)
>
>Joanna,
>
> Joanna, I dunno why leh.... Everytime I saw you I
>just felt that my heart is pounding very fast and
>became so shy... then when ever i see u smile, it
>melts my heart... Why??
>
>Yong Seng
I seldom check my bf's e-mail inbox in the past...Only that this few months he has been letting me down again and again , i feel that its very hard to differentiate frm his lies and the truth , so i do it...And tis time , seeing the above msg frm him to another gal juz makes my blood boils...The situation here is abt the same as floppy_zee...Feel tat i needed to share wif someone else , so i choosed tis forum.Those hu haf been reading my posts will noe more in detail abt wad happened...
I reli pity my tearducts , haf been sheding tears a lot of times juz becoz of him...Sometimes will even breakdown n sob...
It has nothing to do with forgiving - the main issue here is so his heart has left and disappear, whether you forgive him or turn a blind eye on this matter - the fact remains - his love is gone. How can you capture a man without his heart?
Next issue - if he betray you once, sort things out and if it is reasonable or you giving him the benefit of the doubt - forgive and move on. HOWEVER - when things happened again - forget about it, this guy ain't appreciative and truthful. Can't bear to do it? Very likely he will continue his act and by then you will be emotionally drained to death.
The choice remains with you - to cry over a long period of time, or end it with a single day/week and be happy.
Cheers -
Originally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:>From: yip yongseng
>To: joanna88
>Subject: Hello~!!!
>Date: Tue, 20 May 2003 18:42:23 +0800 (CST)
>
>Joanna,
>
> Joanna, I dunno why leh.... Everytime I saw you I
>just felt that my heart is pounding very fast and
>became so shy... then when ever i see u smile, it
>melts my heart... Why??
>
>Yong Seng
I seldom check my bf's e-mail inbox in the past...Only that this few months he has been letting me down again and again , i feel that its very hard to differentiate frm his lies and the truth , so i do it...And tis time , seeing the above msg frm him to another gal juz makes my blood boils...The situation here is abt the same as floppy_zee...Feel tat i needed to share wif someone else , so i choosed tis forum.Those hu haf been reading my posts will noe more in detail abt wad happened...
I reli pity my tearducts , haf been sheding tears a lot of times juz becoz of him...Sometimes will even breakdown n sob...
u like dat baoto his name..he die liao! well dun. -
this is life....... a learning experience
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Gosh...i can't stand all this pity - party.Originally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:Include me in as well okie...
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Gosh~~~ why history is repeating again and agaiN~ haiz~~~~~~~
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Dump him. 'Nuff said.
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let them find solace and console lah..Originally posted by M©+square:Gosh...i can't stand all this pity - party.