Yunhaier's Love Poll
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Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (9)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him. (4)
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations. (4)
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (9)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (6)
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Total polled: 32 (aHGer^83, skeujin, jOhO, elmoloveyou, FireIce, boy in blues, M©+square, Master -_-, shaunlaw, Forever84, JLennon, *evanesence*, lv_gal, e|mo, xUe_ReN, curad, mOod|3s5, Devil1976, harryryan, dark_slayer79, |Uv`-f|UtE-`, kopiosatu, Wind, veLvEtgEr, Angel^_^, CuTiE~~, Lynette80, winky, AngelDark, jeramy, loneryu00, raraninja)
A) 28.1%
B) 12.5%
C) 12.5%
D) 28.1%
E) 18.7%
Cheers -
all of the above??Originally posted by Yunhaier:Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him.
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth.
E) Others - state what would you do then.
Cheers
i'll choose to keep mum and den until the day he finds out...den tell him when the tim eis ripe....
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dnt tell her thn make her so angry tt she will leave me n 4gt about me....
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D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth.
i dunno if it's right to hope or wish that she does, becos love *shouldn't* expect (but of course we all do).
but no matter what she is part of my life, and she will definitely know about it. i will not keep it from her. -
This will doOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him.
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth.
E) Others - state what would you do then.
Cheers
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E) Others
tell him about it and let himself weigh it out
will respect his decision........ -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (1)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (2)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (2)
Cheers definitely (D). so much i need to say to her and so precious little time. -
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[/b][/quote] I wish i could select D and stay all the way a fairy tale,
But i guess somethings here, i've got to wakie wakie and truly go for B. It'll be unfair for her to stay then move on and i personally would prefer to spend the remaining days to be of service to those needy.
But she choose to stay (I would reject her one)......then she'll have to follow me wherever i go! -
sob sob..reminds me of this game i'd played b4...the gal got terminal illness never tell the guy, in the end she left the guy full of remorse and painful memories...
honestly if u want ur stead to live happily after u're long gone, shouldn't u try to lessen the inevitable pain he/she will suffer?
we came in this world silently, might as well leave this place in the same way... -
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
sad but true.. rather than being a burden to her, i prefer seeing her in the arms to those who are capable to do what i will never be able to do -
[quote]Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (1)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (3)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (2)
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Total polled: 6 (aHGer^83, skeujin, jOhO, elmoloveyou, FireIce, boy in blues)
A) 16.7%
B) 0%
C) 0%
D) 50%
E) 33.3%
Cheers[/quote}
I would choose a combonation of the choices. I would tell her abt my condition and ask her if she will mind being with me till i leave. Cos i cant provide her with happiness forlong and i iwll only leave her hurt and memories when i leave. See how she choses.
Of cos, D is the fav choice but i wouls also think abt A too... -
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then spend all my money on a nice island and die
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just tell her and leave the choice to her.Originally posted by Yunhaier:A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (1)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (3)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (2)
this reminds me of an old Jackie Cheung song "Yiu Yun Dek Ta" where a gal left the guy for no apparent reason until the guy received a note from the gal's dad that she passed away. nice but sad.... -
Your last comment sounds depressing.Originally posted by Syusaku:sob sob..reminds me of this game i'd played b4...the gal got terminal illness never tell the guy, in the end she left the guy full of remorse and painful memories...
honestly if u want ur stead to live happily after u're long gone, shouldn't u try to lessen the inevitable pain he/she will suffer?
we came in this world silently, might as well leave this place in the same way...
Why allow your life to waste in silence? Well it's perfectly fine with me cos it's other's decision. But You have a choice to make your surroundings a better place to leave or a miserable place to stay. -
Definately will inform her. She has the right to know and the right to choose.
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I would choose D...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (1)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (3)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (2)
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Total polled: 6 (aHGer^83, skeujin, jOhO, elmoloveyou, FireIce, boy in blues)
A) 16.7%
B) 0%
C) 0%
D) 50%
E) 33.3%
Cheers
if it was the other way around, I would also stick to him til his dying breath... Til death do us part...
As in D, Im can only HOPE /WISH tt he stays by my side, if he wants to leave, I would accept that...even tho' I would devastated.. -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Spark from a topic 'What if one day, your bf/gf got....' from FI's post.
Imagine one day if you went for hospital to check up and doctor tells you that something wrong with your body and needed X-ray, etc.
Days later when you report come out, you discovered that you were struck with cancer, late stage.
The very first thing you thought of is this issue: you have a gf/bf - together for 3 years already. Would you...
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him. (1)
B) Tell her/him about it and choose to leave her/him.
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations.
D) Tell her and hope/wish that she/he will remain with you until you leave earth. (3)
E) Others - state what would you do then. (2)
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cheers
I will chose B....Since being together for 3yrs, sld be frankly to each other. But also nv wan to be a burden of him. At least u choose to leave him, he will know why is it so. If nt he will mistaken ur good intension and thought u might no longer love him etc. Maybe if he realli love u, he will nv accept the decision u mk and perhaps accompany u to walk throu ur very last stages of life.... arent it? -
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him.
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i will choose...
C) Keep mum and until the day the secret is out from obvious situations. -
i will choose B[
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i will choose C..keep to myself rather than hving both of us feel sad..
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A...
ELSE
B...
ELSE D.... -
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i rather be a bad guy n let her curse me but let her move on w/o e emotional scars.... -
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erm... must state reason? -
A) Keep quiet about this issue, find possible reason to leave her/him.
if i can't bring him happiness , i'll let someone else hu can do it takes my place.. i'll be the bad gal here , make him lose all the feelings for me.. at least he wun be hurting so much when i'm gone..