my 1st serious love n things turn out so badly haiz :(
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pls remember.. tis is the same girl! dun reply saying wad new crush ? puppy love? dunno wads love.. pls.. n thx
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xuan le bah, jiu zhe yang wang le bah, gai fang jiu fang, zai xiang ye mei you yong, sha sha de deng, ta ye bu hui hui lai, zhong gai wei zhi ji xiang xiang wei lai~~
btw, haben even together how can you classified it as your 1st serious LOVE leh??
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i mean i seriously love her.. cos tis forum alot of ppl alwayz say i nt serious.. a lot of crush.. i admin to a certain extent tt.. .lol
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yoz, you how old?Originally posted by InVaa:i mean i seriously love her.. cos tis forum alot of ppl alwayz say i nt serious.. a lot of crush.. i admin to a certain extent tt.. .lol -
15m..gonna say puppy love etc ?
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Originally posted by InVaa:15m..gonna say puppy love etc ?
kitty love.
Anyway, ever thought of how long you two can go in event that you two really get together?
You're 15 only.
I don't know.....don't know...people say age isn't a matter.....don't know... -
Give her up man... u r still young... can make more friends first...
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seriously speaking....at ur age...u shld have make more friends rather than seriously going into stead.......dun envy ppl whu have stead at ur age.....u dunno wad is happen nxt......
ur age nw...make more friends, get ur studies well and know wad ur character is b4 u seriously going into stead......
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seriously, i think u frightened her off she wanna avoid u.
girls abt your age mostly still fresh to the dating game and very protective of herself.
or maybe some1 say u flirt or whatever in school hard to say. bad reputation = game over most of the time. seriously to chase girl, using msn chat, sms, icq not as effective as phone chat.
no harm experiencing things now that u r your age. but dun get too involved also. crying on the bus as a guy is really pathetic. 1 word for u - weak. no offence or buay song u or whatever since i dunno u at all but just my frank comments. i just want u to realize that crying in public over something like that really does not contribute well to your personality development. u should come back stronger and be more mature next time. -
that doesnt make anyone whom u like must definitely like u back... u are still young, either u give up or u slowly give her timeOriginally posted by InVaa:i mean i seriously love her.. cos tis forum alot of ppl alwayz say i nt serious.. a lot of crush.. i admin to a certain extent tt.. .lol -
u should copy all your words down....
3 years later look at it again , and tell me it's true love
let me tell you....it's just a immature crash. she hasn even gone to a relationship with you for godness sake!
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hmm...Originally posted by InVaa:dun misunderstood! tis is the same girl!..
last time when i dun lyk her.. she alway tease me 1..
da kai da kai say the day..
monday start bio her in klas.. her very close frend name her as (M) notice n ask me abt it, thought can get help from her i told her i like the girl name (E). only M noe.. who noes M go tell her stead (X).
managed to get E no, from M.
thurs gif her tix for xcountry tix for drinks. 1 person 1.. i pon xcountry so gif her.
1st tym msn chat she seems quite interested n msging me when i dun reply.. eg. eh eh.. also auto ask me qns abt me. chatted quite alot
2nd tym. same. quite interested.
sat- 1st sms day. reply quite entu.. those girly girly reply
sun same
msn nick change to wds wrong wif u..
suddenly stop teasing me in klass.. seldom..
completely stop
few days later.. start 1st sms aft she avoid me.. her reply was those 1 word 1. so i stop smsing.
online msg hi reply hi.. end
a week later sms her n tell her abt my feelings.. her reply was. erm.. i dunno wads wrong wif u.(her msn nick was wads wrong wif u) pls keep tis in mind.. tis is NOT love.. n can u lyk act more normal in klass.. i feel very uncomfortable seeing u in klas.. thx..
ask her can still be frend.. ya sure act normal k? nite...
ignore till now.. abt 2 weeks.. i stop starring @ her(not tt obvious lyk b4)
M today n my frend msg msg.. den E dun gif a shit abt C(me) !.. cannot control my tears on bus..
luckily later on msn(she onli weekend go online but duno y today online).. chatted.. not very interested but @ least dun haf 1 word reply.. still got say some stuff.. not Yes/No yes no.. makes my feel better..
wad the hell had happen. she didnt lyk slowly change attitude in her reply.. is suddenly change 360.. mayb bcos i alwayz bio her in klass she find it uncomfortable? i tried my best to act normal n stop bioing alreadi.. @ 1st i thoguth got chance cos she seems ... den suddenly... haiz..
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relax boy... i din get my 1st gf until i was 20 ah..... sometimes its not good to start too young... at least be 17 or 18 i think, 15 still not very mature yet so maybe you'll handle things differently from sayn when u're 18. Just relax some ah? Chill man... take care.
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life isn't that smooth sailing.. mutual attraction doesn't happen all the time.. besides, she has a bf already.. just be yourself and don't be too imposing.. talk to her when se is more comfortable again..
meanwhile, enjoy your time in school.. don't be bothered by these things.. it'll come naturally.. -
putting yourself in her shoes, this guy whom you hardly know as a personal friend, suddenly comes on strong at you and doesn't seem to wanna go slow. what do you do? you would wanna cool him down abit by not reciprocating. your slightest response would spur him on to make more and more advances, leaving you less chance to consider whether you're heading the right way.Originally posted by InVaa:dun misunderstood! tis is the same girl!..
last time when i dun lyk her.. she alway tease me 1..
da kai da kai say the day..
monday start bio her in klas.. her very close frend name her as (M) notice n ask me abt it, thought can get help from her i told her i like the girl name (E). only M noe.. who noes M go tell her stead (X).
managed to get E no, from M.
thurs gif her tix for xcountry tix for drinks. 1 person 1.. i pon xcountry so gif her.
1st tym msn chat she seems quite interested n msging me when i dun reply.. eg. eh eh.. also auto ask me qns abt me. chatted quite alot
2nd tym. same. quite interested.
sat- 1st sms day. reply quite entu.. those girly girly reply
sun same
msn nick change to wds wrong wif u..
suddenly stop teasing me in klass.. seldom..
completely stop
few days later.. start 1st sms aft she avoid me.. her reply was those 1 word 1. so i stop smsing.
online msg hi reply hi.. end
a week later sms her n tell her abt my feelings.. her reply was. erm.. i dunno wads wrong wif u.(her msn nick was wads wrong wif u) pls keep tis in mind.. tis is NOT love.. n can u lyk act more normal in klass.. i feel very uncomfortable seeing u in klas.. thx..
ask her can still be frend.. ya sure act normal k? nite...
ignore till now.. abt 2 weeks.. i stop starring @ her(not tt obvious lyk b4)
M today n my frend msg msg.. den E dun gif a shit abt C(me) !.. cannot control my tears on bus..
luckily later on msn(she onli weekend go online but duno y today online).. chatted.. not very interested but @ least dun haf 1 word reply.. still got say some stuff.. not Yes/No yes no.. makes my feel better..
wad the hell had happen. she didnt lyk slowly change attitude in her reply.. is suddenly change 360.. mayb bcos i alwayz bio her in klass she find it uncomfortable? i tried my best to act normal n stop bioing alreadi.. @ 1st i thoguth got chance cos she seems ... den suddenly... haiz.. -
InVaa, dun be so dishearted.. life r like that.. there's always ups n downs.. so do r/s.. u cannot expect to get back as much for the effort u put in a r/s.. no one can predict the future nor can change it's destiny... u had to accept the facts n look forward for a better gal in future.. u r still young.. there's still lots of opportunities in future... ur maturity n thinkin will change along the way u grow up...Originally posted by InVaa:15m..gonna say puppy love etc ?