Flings....
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wat r the reasons y attached or married pple still fling outside???
saw many eg liao.... the other spouse very ke lian leh..... -
1.excitment
2. FOC
3. Wife/husband cannot satisfy them -
one of my ex-colleague his wife pregnant leh.... think he do have flings during this time.....Originally posted by BufPuf:1.excitment
2. FOC
3. Wife/husband cannot satisfy them
aiyoh... the wife pregnant so xin ku.... yet he can play ard.....
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Seriously, if they wanna have flings and judged that their spouses cannot satisfied them... why marry? Some people just forgotten that Vows are made in the presence of their family and the registrar during the ROM.
Marriage is a lifelong affair and shouldn't be taken so easily and if one cannot fulfilled even the simplest thing like staying faithful to the other one... pls don't marry. -
wat if it's not abt satisfactory???Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Seriously, if they wanna have flings and judged that their spouses cannot satisfied them... why marry? Some people just forgotten that Vows are made in the presence of their family and the registrar during the ROM.
Marriage is a lifelong affair and shouldn't be taken so easily and if one cannot fulfilled even the simplest thing like staying faithful to the other one... pls don't marry.
or mayb like wat bufpuf say..... errr..... excitement???
y izit so exciting ah??? cannot understand...... -
GREED lor.....man will not have enuff of money, sex and so on mah.........
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i vote stupidity..
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define it plsOriginally posted by the Bear:i vote stupidity.. -
For all we care... alot of times when we are young... we have a tendency to try NEW things. It may not be a good time to marry young cos there could be too much 'outside' influences and 'traps' that one may not have tried or explored yet. In short, Xin Hai Mei You Din(hope my HYPY is clear). And probably so if there's a opportunity to have flings or so for... curiosity might get the better of us.Originally posted by thhong22:wat if it's not abt satisfactory???
or mayb like wat bufpuf say..... errr..... excitement???
y izit so exciting ah??? cannot understand......
If two person really love each other and marries... sex probably shdn't be so impt above care and concern for one another. In fact, if they found their sex life is not good, they could have talk to each other and try to see what they can do to improve or rectify it than to seek outside pleasures and may regret later. -
coz ren shi fan jian de...
juz like y pple like to pay $ to scare themselves?
pple always say, u can do anything in the world but juz dun get caught, maybe tt contributes to it?
anyway....i dun think all pple will b like tt lah, at least u dun support such lifestyle 2? guess marriage kind of stuff its really heng sway 1...tt's y hv to really open ur eyes BIG BIG like this
b4 u walk down the red carpet... -
a man or woman, goes blindly into a relationship without thinking about the essential things like "do i love him/her?" and other things like commitment, mutual respect and mutual trust...
everything a relationship is based on... everything precious in a relationship
then to throw it all away for a moment of lust...
can that person trust again?
can that person respect him/herself again?
can that person look his "loved one" in the eye again?
everything the person is, with respect to relationships, is a sham...
all because they never stopped to think about the meaning of what they are in...
in failing to do that one thing all couples should do before getting into a serious relationship, that person loses everything...
stupidity...
the most powerful force in the universe..Originally posted by thhong22:define it pls -
My Point of view
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Man fling becoz of excitement. They get bored wif their life n need things to 'spice' up their life. N normally these ppl r normally loaded wif $$.
Seriously speaking, these ppl piss mi off. Wtf, leaving ur wife at hm n out having an affair wif another woman. Really dun noe what their mind is thinking. Dun they remember the marriage vows of being together in times of goods n bad. Bad times together yah... yah.., Good times.... in bed wif another woman. N the worst part is tat they will say this is so tat they will love their wife more -
I share the Bear's sentiments. Thanks for sharing dude.
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rule to live by - if your married, respect your wife, remember your vows.
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well as far as i can see, 2 things
1. Thrills.. leading to 2nd thing..
2. Forbidden Fruits always Taste Sweeter
or more commonly known as the grass is always greener on the other side.
i dun think its about them thinking of their vow-ed commitment.. i believe its more to just a moment of error... lost to the powerful words of lust and thrill.
but my advice stands with skeujin. make the vows when u are really sure that u can and will give up that carefree life of excitement. -
Nothing is perfect be it a human being, ur life or a r/s....
nobody knew what future r like... on the day a couple get married, they nv kn that one of the partner might betray them one day... if they do kn, i'm sure they wont be together alreadi...
Love are blind... but it's can be beautiful if both partners mk it works!!! -
If we turn the situation round, ger will also go for flints when her desire is not satisfied
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All human beings are greedy...
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cos wan tat excitiment lor..
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Simplistic Thinking.Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:I share the Bear's sentiments. Thanks for sharing dude.
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How simple can one gets when he or she does not even bother to think straight before commiting to flings. If you are married, stand by your vows to your partner. Dun marry while the flame is still burning inside. The wild flame that is.Originally posted by Devil1976:Simplistic Thinking.
And HELLO, did u read my early post??? -
be it male or female,personal upbringing,character and types of friends you mix with more or less will determine whether u hv flings or not.anyway,just now went to petrol station with my friends and saw this month women's weekly magazine on display.the cover says something like "will affairs spice up your marriage"(if i recall correctly) plus interview with "experienced" ladies.who have the magazine??can tell us what's mention in it...anyway,dun approve this method of spicing up ur marriage.self-destruct....
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Such people who are involved in flings are weak, they are too weak that they can't sustain a relationship with someone, they are too weak to replenish the fire/passion in the relationship. Such weak people are insects worthy being crushed!
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Was referring to bear's concept. I can agree more with your earlier statements than bear's...Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:How simple can one gets when he or she does not even bother to think straight before commiting to flings. If you are married, stand by your vows to your partner. Dun marry while the flame is still burning inside. The wild flame that is.
And HELLO, did u read my early post???
But sometimes it's not that a person doesn't think straight before he / she commits. In fact, if we are to say that one should TRULY THINK throughly before a marriage, then there probably won't be any marriages. Marriage is also a form of relationship. Whatever you think before it, commitments you're prepared to make. Things do change. Circumstances come in. People change. I'm not saying people shouldn't be blamed. But blaming or not, the fact is things have still changed. Sometimes can be blamed. Other times maybe not a sided situation (usually not).
Oh well... I don't wanna say much too...? Afterall, it's their own lives... To each their own....?
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we all noe the vows made at ROM, each others' commitment but how many pple can reali do tat???
let's put the married ones aside.....
how abt those who r juz attached n not married..... no vows made rite??? then.....???